Do you ever feel like...

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...you're not going down the path you should be going down in life?

I mean, I'm 20, unemployed, living with my parents, single, and still a virgin, mainly because of my weight, I've put on a few pounds due to unemployment, but I'm trying to lose that weight, and also because I'm not confident in my "size" ifyaknowwhatimean....

I'm not ugly, but I wouldn't say I'm hot. I've been told by girls I've known and had crushes on that I'm a sweet guy, I'm caring and unlike most other guys who only want one thing....I don't classify myself as a jock or goth or emo or punk. I'm just....normal....I like all kinds of music like Metallica (Rock), Uriah Heep (70's), Rush, some country, rap, etc.....and I'm not religious.

But I dont know what I want to do with my life.....I spend more time in this bar about 10 minutes away from my house than I do putting resumes out to try to get a job.

You've probably read this on another forum or something, probably posted by someone named "ImmortalKaine", that'd be me. I was dating a girl back in '04 and she died from brain cancer on December 5th, 2005. She was 18. That was the only bad thing to ever happen to me my entire life. I've never been beaten or abuse. I've been picked on in school plenty, but I ignored it...

I feel like I should try to change the path I'm going down but I don't know....

Ever feel the way I feel?

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Ive felt that way. But I was able to look at the path I was going down and realised it was bad befor anything serious happened.

But for you, all you need to do is look at what you don’t like in your lifestyle or what you want to change in yourself. Write it down if you feel you need to. The bit about going to the bar more then handing out resumes is just down right lazy. Don’t take offence because its true. But situations like that can easily be changed with motivation. Make the effort to make the change.

EDIT: also. If you feel you cant change things then take a positive turn with it. If that makes sense....

[Azul]

I felt like that for around 2 years when I quit college. I myself have only just recently got a job at my old school, before that I was unemployed for 6 months.