I feel awkard talking about this....

[Kaine]

....but for some reason.....I want to have sex with like a 16/17 year old girl.....

I guess the main reason is, like, my buddy, he's like 17 and he's already nearly done it with his girlfriend who is 15, so basically, because I am also a virgin (and im 20), i feel like i need retribution in one form or another. Also, I know several people from Habbo who are younger than me and most of the time when we talk, they tell me about sexual things they've just done the night before, things like that. (Don't ask me why, I tell em "Don't wanna hear it!" and they still tell me anyway.)

I was never popular in school, mainly kept to myself, didn't want to get into smoking and drugs, you understand (even though I ended up getting into it anyways), and because of that I never did have a girlfriend for a long enough time to have sex.

So I feel like I missed out on part of my life and well.......I feel really awkward about having the urge to have sex with a girl 3-4 years younger than me to make up for what I missed.

In closing, I guess, I'm not really obsessed with the idea of having sex with a girl 3-4 years younger than me, like, hell, if I met a girl my age, obviously if the relationship got far enough, hell yeah I'd have sex with her. But for some reason lately, what with my buddy Adam bragging about his foreplay conquests with his girlfriend, and hearing about this kinda thing from people I know all the time, it's made me start thinking "Why can't I...."

Is this normal to feel?

Note: I am not a pedophile, nor do I endorse pedophilia. Matter of fact, pedophilia is just nasty and all pedophiles should be castrated. ;>.>

[Assassinator]

There's always broffels.

[Jord]

If you wanna have sex with her do it? What's the point telling us.


And the age thing was a joke, right? :rolleyes:.

[Kaine]

What age thing? Me being 20 and a virgin which is true, or the 16-17 year old girls which was also true?

I know, it's weird, and I honestly feel weird even thinking about it.

But it's like there's a gaping hole in my life because 98% of kids aged 15-20 here in the city I live in have had sex, and boom, here's me, 0.1% of the other 2% who hasn't and it sucks to be honest.

Like recently, this girl I know, who is 15, who lives a few provinces away, recently told me that her and her boyfriend who is 16 recently had sex for the first time. Now, I care about her alot, and she cares about me alot, and thinks of me as an older brother.

When I heard that.....I guess....part of me was disappointed in her, mainly because of my upbringing.

I was brought up to think that sex before 18 years old/marriage was wrong. That was way back when, nowadays, im agnostic and I try not to think about sex before 18 being wrong, but no matter how hard I try, I can't help but feel like it's morally wrong.

Edit: "If you wanna have sex with her" <-- With who? I didn;t say I know a 16-17 year old girl that I want to have sex with.....I was just saying I feel like I should meet a girl 3-4 years younger than me.....but it just seems wrong.

To shorten things up: I need to have sex, I guess. I feel like a bloody loser because all around me, people are having sex, and I mean, half of em are like 15 for god sakes >.> It puts me to shame.

[dirrty]

get a prozzy if ur so desperate.

[blah blah blah]

Just have sex already! what do you feel is holding you back? Dont expect to have sex with a 16-17 year old. I think your expections might be a bit to high.

[Kaine]

Just have sex already! what do you feel is holding you back? Dont expect to have sex with a 16-17 year old. I think your expections might be a bit to high.

Look, we got off on the wrong foot, and with this post, I see where you're coming from.

I know my expectation is high...

It's just, I was in a relationship once, and I know I've already said this in other topics alot, but I loved her alot.....she had brain cancer when she was younger and had it removed. I dated her back in December '04. On December 5th, 2005, she passed away. She was 18. She would've been 21 on January 2nd.....

And I know I'm kinda flipping in between topics here, but I guess, at the time of our relationship, I hoped I would stay in the relationship with her long enough to have my first time with her......but that never happened.....

Even to this day, I still tend to imagine "What would my life be like if we did have sex and I got her pregnant (on purpose or by accident, either/or) and then she died (edit -->) but she had the baby before and I ended up becoming a single father".

I guess I should just settle with what I got.....I'm gonna live my life....and I guess it'll happen eventually.

I'm trying to turn my life around.....I quit smoking recently and I've been smoke-free for a month. I'm trying to give up the drinking and I've already given up the drugs. Because I was unemployed for several months, I gained some weight and I'm like 196lbs. I'm trying to get back down to like 150lbs.

I'm really turning things around for the better.

Thanks for all your input guys.

[blah blah blah]

Omg your that guy? i remember your other thread about that girl you dated that died. Seriously, no offence, but i already gave you advice. Great advice infact, in the other thread. GO READ IT

[Hecktix1]

Yeah,

I imagine when you tell all the girls you meet that you're 20 and play a teenage online multiplayer game, it's a right turn on!

[Kaine]

Yeah lol I'll do that xD


Yeah,

I imagine when you tell all the girls you meet that you're 20 and play a teenage online multiplayer game, it's a right turn on!


YOU DIE =O

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[Hecktix1]

YOU DIE =O

well arent you lovely, you aren't going to get laid by speaking to people like that are you :rolleyes:

oh and if you're that desperate to get laid, why are you on a habbo related forum?

[Kaine]

well arent you lovely, you aren't going to get laid by speaking to people like that are you :rolleyes:

oh and if you're that desperate to get laid, why are you on a habbo related forum?


Ugh, do I have to explain this to every british squeegee kid I meet?

I work from 12AM til 8AM. Right now, It's 6:46AM on my day off. I'm trying to keep my body regular by staying up until 8am on my days off and sleeping until 4pm, like I do on work days.

I make damn good money. About $40 an hour. I've already shown a picture of my '05 Dodge Ram 1500 HEMI (Limited Edition Rumble Bee, except the yellow stripe on the back is grey, and the rumble bee logo is replaced with the word "HEMI". Tonneau cover on the back with the same stripe painted over it. Pictures coming soon)

Basically, seeing as I'm on a day off, I figure I might as well check in on whats new on Habbo, even though I'm technically retired.

Also, I come here for help with any life problems, and I do get alot of good advice from the people here.

Now you, go die xD FASTER! MAO! DIDI MAO!

LMAO @ YOU HECK! YOUR -REP SHOWED UP AS GREY! You're just lucky I've repped too much in the past 24hours, but rest assured, you'll get your -rep tomorrow.

Edited by lAscend (Forum Moderator): Please don't be rude towards other forum members thanks.

[fweggy]

Thing is it doesnt make a differnt age when ur that sort of age

Just go ahead and do it

[Hecktix1]

Basically, seeing as I'm on a day off, I figure I might as well check in on whats new on Habbo, even though I'm technically retired.


this is my point you imbecile.
You are 20 years old
WHY ARE YOU ON HABBO ON YOUR DAY OFF WORK
WHY NOT GO OUT AND MEET SOMEBODY

!!!!:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_ clap:eusa_clap

[Kaine]

this is my point you imbecile.
You are 20 years old
WHY ARE YOU ON HABBO ON YOUR DAY OFF WORK
WHY NOT GO OUT AND MEET SOMEBODY

!!!!:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_ clap:eusa_clap


I can't go out at 6:56am. Everything down here in the Falls (Niagara Falls Canada) is closed man.

And im not on HABBO. I quit habbo 4 years ago when I was 16.

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[Hecktix1]

I can't go out at 6:56am. Everything down here in the Falls (Niagara Falls Canada) is closed man.

And im not on HABBO. I quit habbo 4 years ago when I was 16.

You said "i thought i'd come on and check whats new on habbo"

& if it's your day off mate, you should have slept NORMAL hours and gone out when places are open.

[Kaine]

You dont know how to read, do you.

IM TRYING TO KEEP MY BODY ON A REGULAR SCHEDULE. IF I SLEEP FROM SAY 10PM TIL 8AM, IT'LL MESS UP MY BODY AND I'LL BE FALLING ASLEEP DURING WORK.

Hence why I stay up until 8am and sleep until 4pm.

lol @ your rep "Hecktix is an unknown quantity at this point"

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[dirrty]

tbh lol@u in general.

Edited by lAscend (Forum Moderator): Please don't post pointlessly.

[Hecktix1]

You dont know how to read, do you.

IM TRYING TO KEEP MY BODY ON A REGULAR SCHEDULE. IF I SLEEP FROM SAY 10PM TIL 8AM, IT'LL MESS UP MY BODY AND I'LL BE FALLING ASLEEP DURING WORK.

Hence why I stay up until 8am and sleep until 4pm.

lol @ your rep "Hecktix is an unknown quantity at this point"

Quite frankly, I couldnt give a toss about rep, clearly you do you pathetic boy.

And if you're life revolves around work, you are not going to get laid.


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[Kaine]

Excuse me for having a job that pays $40 an hour, has me working between 40-70 hours a week and will last 20 years (they're digging a new hydro tunnel here in Ontario. The jobs set to last about 20 years because they're doing a HUGE tunnel, then adding another tunnel somewhere else). I won't need to go to college and by the time I retire, without taxes, I'll have made around $1,000,00. With taxes......like less than $750,000. But it's still alot for me to be able to provide for a family.

I'm set for life. What do you do. Flip burgers? Shovel crap? Clean toilets? xD :)

*Topic Closed by G-Man - Bite me*