MY SISTER

[Abbie.]

My dads really grumpy, and stressy, and agressive, and because of this my sister has basically no confidence because hes ALWAYSS yelling at us

it doesnt bother me as much, because I can stand up for myself, but Rachel can't.

I was just in the car with him, and he nearly crashed the car from being in such a bad temper with us (for no reason) and then make a snide remark 'I should just kill us all then'

um yeah, i dont know how to tell him to calm down basically, its really getting to me, and its really depressing my sister. :(

[Dan2nd]

Sounds like he's mentally abusing your sister. Maybe tell him how he's effecting you're sister and he'll be shocked enough to relise what he's doing.

[Abbie.]

Sounds like he's mentally abusing your sister. Maybe tell him how he's effecting you're sister and he'll be shocked enough to relise what he's doing.

she has, he doesnt listen

its actually got so bad, i walked into form class today and burst out crying, and thats really not like me..

and rachel was crying in the car, and he was like 'JUST SHUTUP, NOONE CARES'

i think he should see like a concellor, or w.e it is mad people talk to.... lol

[Jord]

Call the nspca or w.e because stuff like this allways goes into murders, abuse.

[Abbie.]

Call the nspca or w.e because stuff like this allways goes into murders, abuse.

no...
maybe its like a midlife crisis hes having

i'll see if it sorts itself out, and if it doesnt idk what i'll do
its just his personality

[graffiti]

call the childline
or say to your dad that you don't know what your doing to you and your sisters life and your deppressed

[Abbie.]

call the childline
or say to your dad that you don't know what your doing to you and your sisters life and your deppressed

he keeps saying hes depressed because of us ;s i dont see how though, we actually are well behaved..

blah, im thinking of seeing the concellor in my school to see what she has to say about it all

i seriously am feeling sorry for my sister though, she makes it worse for herself by talking back, and ive told her she should just bite her tounge next time he yells at her

[Teyauna.]

I think you just need to tell him and hopefully, get your sister to get a few words in. Sometimes they don't even notice what they're doing until the victim speaks up about it.

[fweggy]

Ask him what the problem is, then tell him that your sisters being affected by him

HE should realise that hes doing something wrong

[graffiti]

he keeps saying hes depressed because of us ;s i dont see how though, we actually are well behaved..

blah, im thinking of seeing the concellor in my school to see what she has to say about it all

i seriously am feeling sorry for my sister though, she makes it worse for herself by talking back, and ive told her she should just bite her tounge next time he yells at her
how are you making him depressed when hes the one making you and your sister cry?
its jsut not on

[Abbie.]

how are you making him depressed when hes the one making you and your sister cry?
its jsut not on

he take things out on us

idk, hes retired, and hes not used to doing nothing all day
and he picks on the slightest things

[graffiti]

so say you knocked over a mug with the tiniest bit of a drink it in it, he'd have a massive paddy-waggon at you?

[The Professor]

Ask him what the problem is, then tell him that your sisters being affected by him

HE should realise that hes doing something wrong

I'm in a similar position, parents like that don't want to accept/don't care if its affecting the children.

Seeing the school councellor sounds like your best bet :)

[Abbie.]

so say you knocked over a mug with the tiniest bit of a drink it in it, he'd have a massive paddy-waggon at you?

LOL YEAH.. he would

even if u say its an accident, he'd rant on for ages and ages..

[cocaine]

umm years ago my dad was exactly the same, because my mum was cheating on him.

im not suggesting that your mum is doing anything but his anger might be with other people / issues in his life (Maybe stuff in work? etc)

[Abbie.]

umm years ago my dad was exactly the same, because my mum was cheating on him.

im not suggesting that your mum is doing anything but his anger might be with other people / issues in his life (Maybe stuff in work? etc)


what did you do about it?

[cocaine]

what did you do about it?

well i was about 8 when it happened, so they obviously didnt think i knew about it, they were always shouting and stuff and i didnt understand who "stuart" was or whatever, and when I was about 11 i pieced it together

but I didnt really do anything, I was too young and even if I did say anything nothing would have happened, apart from more anger