Is this bad..?

[Acinuoulation]

I recently got on my cousin, shes one year younger then me and damn shes good looking, btw this was only two days ago.. OK so now she wants to see me tommorow after school round her house, my uncle and aunt will be at work and she told me to bring a johnny but was only joking as we was laughing about it... I think I've fell in love with her over time and I know it sounds stupid, shes told me she loves me and if only we wasnt related we would have told me earlier. I just want to know would it be bad for me to go out with my cousin secretly and in later life if we are still going out to go public? Shes a really kind beautiful and caring girl and her mates are fantastic.

Theres another problem to this though, About a week ago I was going out with my cousins best mate until we broke up cause she gave her ex-bf a **********... Yeah so its all messed, I want to be with my cousin we connect so good its just argh! it seems sick when you think of cousins together but when I think of us together it seems so right!

[blah blah blah]

Yes. Majority of people would find it disturbing and not agree with your actions.

[Acinuoulation]

We are in love though, all her bfs shes been with have treated her bad/used her as a image for themselfs, shes told me she wants to be with me not just cause we work so well together but we connect so well and she knows I care so much about her.

[bo$$]

doesn't change the fact that you're cousins and that's disturbing.

[Acinuoulation]

I knew numerous members wouldn't understand. Oh btw shes my second cousin

[Ugawa]

You can't help the way you feel, but I don't think it would be right for you two to go out. If you end up sleeping together and she falls pregnant the baby will have serious problems as you have similar chromosomes the baby could come out anything between braindead to deformed.

Yes thats alot later on but if you end up going out in a couple of years it could lead to it.

Also wot if you do go out then break up, as your cousins you'll have to see her still.

Also what if your family finds out, just think of the stress that would be caused by something that might just be a crush, or a lust because you know it's wrong.

You should really think this one through, no one can tell you what to do. only you know the real answer.


gl with everything, hope this helped.
XX
Nia

[Neil]

I wouldn't really say it's disturbing, cousins or even 2nd cousins are not directly related, they are only related because their parents are related so it's basically a normal relationship but someone that would be considered family, I wouldn't do it myself personally but I don't really see a problem with cousins having relationships if they love each other, if it was like brother and sister, mother and son etc. then I would think it's messed up but I don't if it's cousins, it's really up to what you think if right, you're not exactly doing anything wrong but most people will see it as something wrong but you really can't help having feelings for someone, I heard a brother and sister in Germany want to get married but they're not allowed too and I think they got arrested aswell, like I said a relationship with a brother or sister is kind of sick to me but everyone deserves to love who ever they want, if the whole "Adam and Eve" story is true we're all basically cousins anyway

[le harry]

i couldn't imagine getting it on with my cousins :s

[cocaine]

thats ******* digusting

[scott]

You cant help the way you fell about someone. I think you should maybe start seeing a little less of each other and maybe the fellings that u have will maybe disapear. Personally i fell having a relationship with a family member is wrong. But everyone is diffrent and you should get support no matter what you do.

[jesus]

if any of your family find out you are dead

[Nixt]

It's not illegal. If it's what you want, then go for it. Not saying I agree or disagree but who gives a **** what people think on this Forum - it's your life, it's not breaking the law so do it.

[Jamesy]

i couldn't imagine getting it on with my cousins :s

Me neither, they are barely 5.

[Dan2nd]

I knew numerous members wouldn't understand. Oh btw shes my second cousin

Isn't a second cousin your cousins child or is that something else gwarrg I'm confused!

Anyway on the main subject it's entirely up to you but I would suggest you think about what you are going into before you get serious as you could end up upsetting alot of your family from the sound of things.

[Jamesy]

Can we see pics to see if she is fit :D

[brandon]

We need to see how fit she is first before making any assumptions about yourself and what you are doing.

[Swearwolf]

We need to see how fit she is first before making any assumptions about yourself and what you are doing.

I'm with this guy.

[Jamesy]

Can we see pics to see if she is fit :D


I'm with this, devilishly handsome, guy :eusa_danc

[Teyauna.]

I think you're mentally sick. I'm sorry. Lol. That's ridiculous. Cousins, together? No. That's wrong. Wow. I'm sure you're family would be disappointed. It wouldn't work at all. I disagree, 100%.

[Hecktix1]

Second cousin, please go into detail about how you are related.

If she is hot, yeah, give her one.. or two.. or keep doing it.

But a relationship? I dont think so, and keep the above secret, or your family will probably disown you :)

[Shrlurp]

Yeh what everyone else said.

Just do her.

[Hecktix1]

Yeh what everyone else said.

Just do her.

am i everyone now? no-one else said do her :P

[Shrlurp]

well yeh you are that special babe x

Just take everyone elses advice.

Is she nice?

[Neversoft]

Counsins can get married and stuff. It's not as if it's brother/sister or something. Do what you think is right. ;)

[Cryings]

you cant help yourself.
just go with the flow.

[Moh]

If your related to the royal family, then its not bad.

Socialy its wrong, but its not illegal.

And yes, Second cousin means child of your cousin.

If you mean cousin of your cousin then I guess its ok.. as your not blood related, well not related at all.

[Metric.]

You love your mom, but are you screwing her?

[Frodo13.]

She's your 2nd cousin, and legally you would do be nothing wrong. Yeah, maybe some people may not agree, but it's your life, and your decision - so do what will make you happy :)


Just to clear up confussion, your 2nd cousins are either your mother/fathers first cousins OR your first cousins children. Personally I would do my 2nd cousins as they're all between 40-60 years old.

[Hecktix1]

Personally I would do my 2nd cousins as they're all between 40-60 years old.

hahahaahahahahahah

do her man do her!

[Frodo13.]

She's your 2nd cousin, and legally you would do be nothing wrong. Yeah, maybe some people may not agree, but it's your life, and your decision - so do what will make you happy :)


Just to clear up confussion, your 2nd cousins are either your mother/fathers first cousins OR your first cousins children. Personally I would do my 2nd cousins as they're all between 40-60 years old.


OMG! I mean wouldn't. THE SHAME!

[Neil]

Personally I would do my 2nd cousins as they're all between 40-60 years old.

That's the funniest thing I've read all day xD

[ben!]

hi, whats a johnny? :)

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[Davii]

I don't think a second cousin really counts as being related to you so it's sorta fine?

[Abbie.]

thats just wrong

isnt like that incest or something?

[Minstrels]

It's well sick, I wouldn't get off with my cousins. Well sick...

[partie2]

omg you are seriously a freak..

[-Dirt]

I dont remeber seeing this as a flaming topic, he was asking a question not saying "what do you think of me"
look at it from a general view not your own, I personally dont think anything wrong with being with second cousins, but I don't see anything right with it either...
you cant help who you fall in love with but the chances are you may have these fleeings but they are not set in stone, i'm sure if you see less of eachother the feelings will die, [if you let them and not hold onto them], I think if you go along with her then it will cause many problems in the future, not only for you but the rest of your family.
There is a whole world of women out there ;) maybe you feel like you're in love with her because you have just spent more time with her than anyother girls around you,

whatever you do I hope it works out and hope my comment helped
:)

[Recursion]

thats just wrong

isnt like that incest or something?

No thats brother and sister.

Its 2nd cousin so its fine, its not illegal. Just don't let anyone know you were 2nd cousins and you would be socially accepted, but I couldn't care less if my friend when out with his 2nd cousin, he would still be the same old wierd guy hes always been.

[StefanCampbell]

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[Florx]

I would advise against it but emotions cannot be controlled no matter how hard to try so just accept it and give it a go.

Most people think its a bit weird but usually because you are cousins you have been close for a long time so its easy to think you are in love with them. Of course you love them you are related but not the bf/gf love.

Apparently if you had children there is a higher risk of a birth defect because your genes are close together so think about it.