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.Stone.
21-02-2008, 03:59 AM
Ok, I've got a question for all of you reading this. How do you know for sure what your sexual orientation is? I'm going through puberty and I'm extremely confused. I am careful not to label myself as any definite orientation because I don't want to close myself of. I believe I'm straight, although sometimes I admit I've found males attractive. I think I'll grow out of it though, and I'm really just a horny teenager with too much testosterone. Any thoughts?
uh huh her
23-02-2008, 12:55 AM
wait a fair bit of time, and you'll figure it out. just don't get yourself worried about it now.
Disaronno
23-02-2008, 01:22 AM
Yea dont worry yourself. Anyways, there is a difference - Attractive asin good looking or attractive, id do him?
Also, good luck with w/e you are.
Cryings
23-02-2008, 01:37 AM
y o u a r e g a y
phase.
most teenagers have phases getting attracted to the other sex.
you'll grow out of it.
Swearwolf
23-02-2008, 02:54 AM
lots of hormones at once - nothing to worry about
scott
23-02-2008, 09:31 AM
Dont worry yourself about it. You are going through a phase of life that you find the other and same sexuality attractive. Give it time most people grow out of it.
-:Undertaker:-
23-02-2008, 09:45 PM
I have been reading on this and the common question or reply is do you want a loving relationship with a man? Relationships aren't based on just sex. They are based on love. You could well be curious or Bisexual :)
FlyingJesus
23-02-2008, 09:50 PM
Relationships aren't based on just sex.
Say what
Slash
23-02-2008, 10:01 PM
phase.
most teenagers have phases getting attracted to the other sex.
you'll grow out of it.
dude you're 11 you're not exactly an expert on this matter
Say what
LOLOLOLOLOL
Agreeed
Bass.
23-02-2008, 10:12 PM
Don't be worried. It is most likely that you will grow out of it but if you never do, then thats fine. People have a right to be gay, straight or bisexual. It doesn't really matter to be honest.
Hope this helps ;)
Krusty
23-02-2008, 11:57 PM
one of my best lad mates said he went through a gay phase
it doesnt matter if your feeing abit gay atm
give it time
see what happens
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Muniflex
27-02-2008, 08:36 PM
Don't be worried. It is most likely that you will grow out of it but if you never do, then thats fine. People have a right to be gay, straight or bisexual. It doesn't really matter to be honest.
Hope this helps ;)
Totally agree with that. Plus i love your avatar mate:D I want something like that!
one of my best lad mates said he went through a gay phase
it doesnt matter if your feeing abit gay atm
give it time
see what happens
Feeling a bit gay, lol. What a sentance...:P
Danny,
27-02-2008, 08:57 PM
Attractive as in good looking or attractive, id do him?
^^^ answering thatll probably give you an idea, i often notice if another boy is good looking but not like 'oh i want him'
.Stone.
28-02-2008, 11:02 PM
I have been reading on this and the common question or reply is do you want a loving relationship with a man? Relationships aren't based on just sex. They are based on love. You could well be curious or Bisexual :)
Haha. Alright. Yeahh, I couldn't ever really see myself in a loving relationship with a man.
Yea dont worry yourself. Anyways, there is a difference - Attractive asin good looking or attractive, id do him?
Also, good luck with w/e you are.
Erm. Mostly as in the first. haha. and Thanks
phase.
most teenagers have phases getting attracted to the other sex.
you'll grow out of it.
Thats what i am thinking too..
one of my best lad mates said he went through a gay phase
it doesnt matter if your feeing abit gay atm
give it time
see what happens
Thats what im doing. thanks for the advice. ;)
It's proberly just all of your hormons are confusing you - You'll grow out of it and then you will know.
For now, do what feels right.
Niall!
01-03-2008, 01:05 AM
Say what
LOOOL tom!
Criminal
01-03-2008, 01:07 AM
Well if you're a teenager you should know if you're straight and what not..
When you need a tug do you go for gay or straight? :S
Theres your answer.
Ugawa
01-03-2008, 12:38 PM
It could be a phase,
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