Should I be annoyed?

[-Soph-]

Because I am..

Basically, there was this guy who likes/liked me, and idk, he was really nice to me for a month or so, he'd pick me up in the morning and give me a ride to school, and we'd go to the cinema and stuff, and he bought me valentine's day stuff, and idk... I made it kinda clear that I don't want to go out with him, because dating isn't my kinda thing, it makes me feel tied down and stresses me out.

So anyway, he seems to have gotten the message and now he barely talks to me, I feel so used... is this just a fact of life or should I be pee'd off?

[jesus]

I'd say a bit of both really. Maybe he really liked you and wanted to be with you rather than just friends, but it is a little weird how he did all that stuff for you and was really nice to you.

Some people are so confusing!

[-Soph-]

meh, he did ask me out like, three times though.


It's just bugging me, if he liked me that much, then why doesn't he just want me as a friend?

[crans]

Fair play, a guy will only try for so long.

[Muniflex]

Idk, perhaps after you turned him down so much he jsut felt liek you didnt want him around?

But i have to agree, if he liked you that much why doesn't he just wnat to be friends?

Perhaps you should talk to him?

Ask tell him that youjust don't want a relationship just friendship.

And sorry to say it, but maybe he just wanted you for sex? Realised you are not like that and so he pegged it?

[-Soph-]

I definitely made it clear that I liked him as a friend though, he's really sweet.


and I doubt it, I remember having a conversation with him a few weeks ago about how he lost his virginity and really regretted doing it.

[Muniflex]

Hmmm i'm not sure then.

Maybe he just thought you didn't want to see him anymore. If he got turned down a few times he may have just thought you didn't like him.

I know you said you just want to be friends but sometimes that is an excuse to break up with someone, usually used because you no longer liek the other person, maybe he got that vibe?

[jesus]

I definitely made it clear that I liked him as a friend though, he's really sweet.


and I doubt it, I remember having a conversation with him a few weeks ago about how he lost his virginity and really regretted doing it.You mean you regretted having the conversation? Or he regretted losing it? :O

[Muniflex]

You mean you regretted having the conversation? Or he regretted losing it? :O

Im guessing regretted doing it...

[Charlie]

He was probably being nice and what not because he liked you, but then it got to the point he realised it wouldn't happen and decided to give up, and isn't talking to you anymore because of it? Just try and talk to him and ask him why he's not talking to you much and stuff.

[-Soph-]

He was probably being nice and what not because he liked you, but then it got to the point he realised it wouldn't happen and decided to give up, and isn't talking to you anymore because of it? Just try and talk to him and ask him why he's not talking to you much and stuff.

I don't want to sound like the ***** from hell though, haha.

I'll try and do it subtly... if there's such a thing.

[Buax]

meh, he did ask me out like, three times though.


It's just bugging me, if he liked me that much, then why doesn't he just want me as a friend?


It may be because he simpley cannot see you as his-friend, only his girlfriend. Speak to him about it. Gah, it's not hard.

[Ramones]

It may be because he simpley cannot see you as his-friend, only his girlfriend. Speak to him about it. Gah, it's not hard.

agreed, i have been this guy before, you dont realise it but it'll of been really hard for him. no you don't have the right to be annoyed

[Josh-H]

I don't think you should be annoyed, it can be really hard to be "just friends" with someone you really like and maybe it's just easier for him to stay away and try and get over you.

[benjamin]

fact of life imo.

why she he have to keep hanging around if you made it clear you don't want him? :S

[Ugawa]

Maybe he's a bit embarresed because he liked you. Or maybe he's giving you some space

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[Catzsy]

He probably feels rejected and hurt at the moment and is backing off with dignity. Give him time and I am sure it will sort itself out :)

[Metric.]

friends with benifits. I have one, it's awesome!

[-Soph-]

It may be because he simpley cannot see you as his-friend, only his girlfriend. Speak to him about it. Gah, it's not hard.

I already have?


He probably feels rejected and hurt at the moment and is backing off with dignity. Give him time and I am sure it will sort itself out :)

I didn't do anything with him though, he knew from the day he met me that I wasn't much for dating (it kinda came up in a conversation), I mean jeez, i'm sensitive, but I wouldn't stop talking to someone just because they don't want to date me.
He won't even make an effort to say hi to me now,
Anyway, I've stopped caring now, meh.

[Vegas]

i would say a bit of both.
he cant say he loves you and then turns his back on you...
he maybe was just using you.. he should get the message and back off.. but not talk to you... do you talk to him?

[Jellybeans]

meh, he did ask me out like, three times though.


It's just bugging me, if he liked me that much, then why doesn't he just want me as a friend?

some people cant settle for any less than what they want, if he wants you to be his girlfriend and you dont want that then he doesnt want any less by the sounds of it :\
typical bloke..
move on, i say!

[Zak]

How to do you feel used!?

He liked you, and you rejected him so he moved on??? :S

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