Getting bored?

[Bojangles]

Okay me and my girlfriend have been together 5 months. And it's just getting boring. Argueing daily, and all she says is sorry. I know I love her with all my heart but I can't help but feel bored now? Any ideas/help?

[dirrty]

kick her 2 the curb if ur bored and it aint working.

[Bojangles]

We love eachother too much to do anything tho.

[Jellybeans]

why ask for peoples ideas on what to do, if youre not actually going to do anything ?

[dirrty]

We love eachother too much to do anything tho.
well if u aint gonna dump her stop complaining about being bored!

[Buax]

Speak to her about it.

[spot2]

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[Ugawa]

Make ur relationship more exciting, when I start to get bored in a relationship I come up with an idea to make it more interesting. You shouldn't just say it's boring without even trying.
She myt feel the same you should talk to her.

XX

[Shrlurp]

have kids,



no i'm joking, just talk to her or just sack her, she sounds awful.

[Born_To_Live]

rag her.

[United.Road]

if ur bored like mitch try it with a man

[Metric.]

use toys and have kinky sex!!!

[Cyndia]

I agree, find ways to spice it up.. But if you guys haven't gone far yet (sexually i mean) DONT try anything sexual, because that could just make things worse. It might turn the relationship purely physical which would probably be worse than what it is now, and much stickier and more painful to get out of in the end. On the other hand, if you guys have gone far sexually, then I agree with Metric, toys and such are a good way to spice things up :P Or sexual activities in thrilling places (aka semipublic places). Just don't push her into doing anything she's not comfortable with!

Although.. On re-reading your post just now, I feel like being 'bored' might not be your only issue. If you guys are arguing a lot, and she's apologizing a lot, you probably have worse problems on your hands. I think you two need to talk it out, and find out what's wrong. If you're arguing over important things, you should talk it out and come to compromises over issues. If you're arguing over petty little things, it could just be you guys aren't happy together and it might be time to try taking a break from each other (maybe just a week or so where you won't see each other outside of school etc., so that you can get some time to yourselves and clear your heads) or if it doesn't work, you two might need to break up permanently, even though I know you two don't want to do that. Even though love is great sometimes, and I know you two probably feel like you want to stay together no matter what, you have to take a step back and look at your relationship. If you guys are unhappy more of the time than when you're happy, is it worth the pain? If she's continually apologizing, she clearly is feeling guilty and upset over this. So yeah.. what's most important is that you go and talk to her about what you're feeling. Bottling it up, or telling strangers online is no relief or resolution compared to talking it out with her.

Good luck.. I hope you two work it out!