Advice needed.

[Coldplay]

Me and My Girlfriend at the moment.

I've been with her for 50 days and she seems to be quite moody, so I asked her whats up. I already know for a fact that she likes some guy who lives in Scotland, and she says thats it complicated, so today I confronted her after I took her home and basically said that I didn't know how to feel about it.

We had a discussion and she started crying and stuff (That doesn't happen often, she's not a "crying" person) saying that she loved me and didn't want to lose me, but he was always in the back of her mind somewhere, so I said that I'd respect any decision she made.

She said that she couldn't be with him, and even if she could she wouldn't because she loves me and doesn't want to lose me. I'm just so confused about how to feel about this, am I making too big a deal of it?

I really love her, a lot and I don't want things to be ruined between us, so I need a solution to my problem.

Thanks.

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[Zak]

I believe your gf does care about you, who cares if she likes some guy in Scotland. She can't have him and besides she has you, I'd just trust her and continue on with your relationship :)

[Metric.]

You count the days you are with your girlfriend. I can see years, maybe months, but days? You must be keen to dump her!

[Muniflex]

Well your girlfriend does seem to love you so i think you should not worry about this guy in Scotland. You are there with her everyday, youare the one by her side when she needs you. She will realise that she will never be with this guy in Scotland, and why would she when she has you?

Unless she starts making curious trips to Scotland i'm sure you can trust her.

Good luck with it and i hope it all works out in your favour;)

[Pyroka]

Your girlfriend likes you, definitely. It's only natural that she has someone else on her mind, but over time she'll get over it and you two will be better off. Really, if you show her how great you are then she'll forget about the other guy.

Good luck to you<3

[Muniflex]

Your girlfriend likes you, definitely. It's only natural that she has someone else on her mind, but over time she'll get over it and you two will be better off. Really, if you show her how great you are then she'll forget about the other guy.

Good luck to you<3


Lol, how is natural that she has somebody else on her mind?

[Nixt]

I was in a similar situation to this and it all ended in tears. I hope it works out better for you, it does sound like she cares for you :).

[Coldplay]

Thanks for all adivce :)

[Prick]

I was in a similar situation to this and it all ended in tears. I hope it works out better for you, it does sound like she cares for you :).

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If you trust your girlfriend, then you have nothing to worry about, its just a problem if you don't trust her :/

[Ugawa]

Girls are complicated 'Trust me' :D. But if she didn't want to be with you she probably wouldn't.

Or uve got to think if this boy didn live in scotland but lived where u did would she drop u for him.

Either way gl with ur problems

XX

[Ugawa]

Girls are complicated 'Trust me' :D. But if she didn't want to be with you she probably wouldn't.

Or uve got to think if this boy didn live in scotland but lived where u did would she drop u for him.

Either way gl with ur problems

XX

[mike475]

what a ****.

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[-Xiangu-]

I believe your gf does care about you, who cares if she likes some guy in Scotland. She can't have him and besides she has you, I'd just trust her and continue on with your relationship :)


I agree

[Teyauna.]

Well, I'd stick with her because she obv has very strong feelings for you. So, yeah..

[Ivake]

Ring the guy up, and ask him to give you a hand with her :eusa_whis

[FlyingJesus]

Lol, how is natural that she has somebody else on her mind?

Because she's a woman

[Shoed]

Man, you've got nothing to worry about. If you fully trust her, then let her make her own decisions... they'll obviously be positive. Anyhow good luck!

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