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-Adam
21-03-2008, 11:43 PM
Haha. Another problem. Me and my problems, Can always ask you guys about it eh? :)
Anyway. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 weeks, And I have only kissed her twice. Her mates are calling me stiff, but i tell them to get lost haha. Anyway, I really want to kiss her, But i didnt know if she wanted to kiss me and her mate told me she did, So then i said ye fine i will but not in front of her mates. And she went, Fair enough not infront of them bu why not me? Im good mates with staceys mate that i was talking to, And i said im not bothered about you cuz its not like ud tell anybody but not infront of people like shanise and triscia. Anywayz, I was gonna kiss her on wednesday, When she broke up but she walked with her mates so i thought, Nah. Anyway, How do I get her on her own and kiss her?
Help ;D
-Adam
Dr.Rdx
22-03-2008, 09:27 AM
I didn't understand anything apart from the last line, so we'll start from there :p
Well, to get her on her own, just take her out somewhere. Nowhere fancy, just a park, cinema or just for a walk about town. Then you do the kissing. o.o
Antallica
22-03-2008, 10:25 AM
Translate the middle bit into english?
and yer as Dr.Rdx said.
Toughened
22-03-2008, 10:44 AM
I don't get how people can ask.
Kisses aren't just forced by everyone lmao.
When it happens, it happens and that's all you need to know.
Don't go chasing after her to give her one.
Wait till you go out like the others posted above have said.
Then it should just come naturally.
Then she won't be with her mates and you shouldn't have to worry about kissing her in front of anyone.
take her out somewhere , make sure yu both feel comfortable with eachother n see where it goes from their :)
Take her to the cinema.. ;)
SugarBabyRach
23-03-2008, 07:36 AM
What leah said would work, also it would be dark , lol
go to a place with a really romantic atmostsphere and maybe she'll be the one to kiss you first ;)
Vegas
23-03-2008, 11:51 AM
Agree with Leah :D
Make sure its back row thingy tho ^^
YoManGo!
23-03-2008, 05:14 PM
Take her to the cinema.. ;)
DONT DO THAT
some people like to watch the film and haaaate being kissed in the cinema =/
walk in the park is the best idea
but srsly
how old are you?
:Edzy
25-03-2008, 09:34 PM
DONT DO THAT
some people like to watch the film and haaaate being kissed in the cinema =/
walk in the park is the best idea
but srsly
how old are you?
not if its the girls idead
wouldn't you be pissed off if they wanted to watch it.. i would.
Charlie
25-03-2008, 09:36 PM
Take her out on a date or just out somewhere, the park, your house, her house, the cinema. Somewhere where you'll be alone, and just let it happen naturally, don't plan when your going to kiss her, just let it happen. I know it's hard when it's your first few times and stuff but after a while it gets easier.
whoooosh
25-03-2008, 09:37 PM
get her drunk
or stoned
lmao nah dont
just take her out on her own
StripedTiger
26-03-2008, 03:22 PM
people who wanna watch their friends kiss are wierdos :P
why dont you just give her a peck on th lips or something infront of people and leave the serious stuff for when you 2 go to the cinema, or watch a movie at home or something?
I get the same problem at times i guess, im sure many do. but whatever :]
-Undiscovered
26-03-2008, 06:48 PM
O bless.
Take her out somewhere just you two? Or if you're together then like pull her aside and do it?
Sorry if it's been said i didn't read the replies.
ChampJames.
27-03-2008, 01:52 AM
DONT DO THAT
some people like to watch the film and haaaate being kissed in the cinema =/
walk in the park is the best idea
but srsly
how old are you?
HA. Sounds like my girlfriend, really annoing. Unless I purposely take her to a ****** film :8:eusa_whis
I would just suggest same as everybody else. Take her out somewhere, even if it's nothing special, just a walk or anything and see how it goes.
Scarcely
27-03-2008, 01:33 PM
This was me 2 years ago.
She obviously wants to go with her friends, and can't be bothered with the awkward atmosphere. "If there is one"
Don't force yourself to have to be with her every second, as it's not natural.
As people have already said, take her out somewhere.
If she wants to watch it. Fair enough.
I've never got off with anyone in the middle of the film, as we were watching it...
Wait for the credits if you must :)
Also, can I just ask. Is this a kiss on the lips, as in a peck? Or a snog :)
The Professor
27-03-2008, 06:53 PM
Haha. Another problem. Me and my problems, Can always ask you guys about it eh? :)
Anyway. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 weeks, And I have only kissed her twice. Her mates are calling me stiff, but i tell them to get lost haha. Anyway, I really want to kiss her, But i didnt know if she wanted to kiss me and her mate told me she did, So then i said ye fine i will but not in front of her mates. And she went, Fair enough not infront of them bu why not me? Im good mates with staceys mate that i was talking to, And i said im not bothered about you cuz its not like ud tell anybody but not infront of people like shanise and triscia. Anywayz, I was gonna kiss her on wednesday, When she broke up but she walked with her mates so i thought, Nah. Anyway, How do I get her on her own and kiss her?
Help ;D
-Adam
Do you never spend time alone out of school? Surely theres at least one momen you're on your own!
Mitch4?
27-03-2008, 07:28 PM
Go into a classroom and kiss, more fun, the fear of getting caught. muwaha
it's nothing you should plan, you know when to kiss when it feels right.
p.s. don't go back row to the cinema, it's way too corny ;)
lewis-moody
29-03-2008, 09:56 AM
Haha. Another problem. Me and my problems, Can always ask you guys about it eh? :)
Anyway. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 weeks, And I have only kissed her twice. Her mates are calling me stiff, but i tell them to get lost haha. Anyway, I really want to kiss her, But i didnt know if she wanted to kiss me and her mate told me she did, So then i said ye fine i will but not in front of her mates. And she went, Fair enough not infront of them bu why not me? Im good mates with staceys mate that i was talking to, And i said im not bothered about you cuz its not like ud tell anybody but not infront of people like shanise and triscia. Anywayz, I was gonna kiss her on wednesday, When she broke up but she walked with her mates so i thought, Nah. Anyway, How do I get her on her own and kiss her?
Help ;D
-Adam
Same problem here right now im talking to a girl I want to ask out, and i think she's on the lines of saying yes but anyway the kissing.
Take her to the cinema alone, to a movie she really wants to see but whatever you do DONT KISS HER. Ok when the movies finished tell her its hot in here. So take her to the park, if she's the sort of girl hold her hand, if you can get her some flowers, not saying you have to she will just like it, ok nows the hard part, find a pond with a bench if u cant find one just find a nice bench, and say to her, so what do you think of the movie. then say, do you think it was better then this. Go 90% to her lips and then stop, if she wants to kiss she will come the next 10%. If shou dosen't she may slap you or she'll just say no. Either way your fine. if she kisses you walk her home, if she dosen't say sorry I shoudn't of done that, and take it from there.
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