Love Sux </3

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

Ive Only ever had one gfand i never ever got far i never even held hands



love life for me= -9999999/10

i really need some help with how to get a gf and get close with her

[Callum.]

You're probably like 12, you've got long ahead of you.

[Everlong]

Seems to me like your only thinking about the physical side of things what are you like 13?

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

Callum are you phsycic

:O

but i still need some help

[-Undiscovered]

You're probably just rushing into what your mates are doing. If you just let it come naturally you will be fine, if you like any girls, just talk to them, and then see how your relationship is, if it is good ask her out.

[Everlong]

To be honest you find any help on an internet forum, if anything you'll get someone saying 'do this, its sure to get you a gf' but then you won't be being yourself. All you can do is not let it get to you so much and get on with it.

[leah]

If You Like Any Girls, Flirt with them and let them know, perhaps meet up with them? go from there really.. [:

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

Thanks Leah

Feels wierd gerrin info on girls from girls :S
this forum obv makes me look lie nerdy boy tryin ta get a gf but hey its wa i do in me spare time eh?

well ta n e wayzz

P/S im sorry leah for not being my bestest girly DJ ;)

[Carello]

Thanks Leah

Feels wierd gerrin info on girls from girls :S
this forum obv makes me look lie nerdy boy tryin ta get a gf but hey its wa i do in me spare time eh?

well ta n e wayzz

P/S im sorry leah for not being my bestest girly DJ ;)

Stop being like yourself, i'm pretty sure that'll work.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

Ermmmm this post is uselless

ive signed up for the cadets, and im gonna join the army girls obviously aint worth the time

but thanks anywayz

[Born_To_Live]

Ive Only ever had one gfand i never ever got far i never even held hands



love life for me= -9999999/10

i really need some help with how to get a gf and get close with her

Don't pixel date lulz

[Ugawa]

U are probably quite young, and if she was ur first GF u can't expect to get everything right on ur first time.

being a good Bf takes experience, boys at my age still have no idea on how to be a good Bf so don't worry.

XX

[Everlong]

Ermmmm this post is uselless

ive signed up for the cadets, and im gonna join the army girls obviously aint worth the time

but thanks anywayz

You'll have allot more time to spend with men now.

[Charlie]

You have years of dating girls and do things more then holding hands ahead of you so you shouldn't give up now because you've only ever had one girlfriend.

Just be yourself, go out there and have fun and then you'll find a girl who you like and just carry on being yourself. If you go out there and try and find someone, you'll try to hard and mess it up.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

Nah i signed up with my nearest junior rifle club and the junior gym

and i made me mind up

And im not gay thanks

but girls= a waste of time, no offence

[jackass]

Nah i signed up with my nearest junior rifle club and the junior gym

and i made me mind up

And im not gay thanks

but girls= a waste of time, no offence

Look, i'm not normally rude, But thats a load of crap.

You're 12, you have got ages to go yet and you have zero experience with girls, so how can you say that they are a waste of time. You obviously don't know anything about girls. I'm not trying to be horrible to you, but please stop being so melodramatic.

I'm not a horrible guy you know, but reading this post makes me look like one. :P

[Camy]

Nah i signed up with my nearest junior rifle club and the junior gym

and i made me mind up

And im not gay thanks

but girls= a waste of time, no offence

Girls aren't a waste of time.
You're just very impatient.
Give it time, I didn't do anything until I was fifteen, got my first real girlfriend, and we've done basically everything.

Patienceeeeeeee.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

nah man to many bad experiences that i would rather not share

but u all not understandin so i will have to

i wasnt sure if i ould or not (hold my gfs hand) i asked her she said no and looked at me funny

it was all down hill from there

[Camy]

i wasnt sure if i ould or not (hold my gfs hand) i asked her she said no and looked at me funny

it was all down hill from there
She must have been pretty tight if she wudnt let u hold her hand fgs.

Next time, dont ask, just do things.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

well man u dnt remember any bad moments

(there was an extremely bad one which i would rather not mention)

but i dont see you telling me tht summin like tht happened to you

or u saying tht ur but ugly nd u wear glasses


NO

exactly

[Camy]

well man u dnt remember any bad moments

(there was an extremely bad one which i would rather not mention)

but i dont see you telling me tht summin like tht happened to you

or u saying tht ur but ugly nd u wear glasses


NO

exactly
Actually, I had to split up with my gf because of her mum :eusa_wall Then didnt talk to her for a while, because evry1 around me said she was messing with me, and we argued about it loads and stuff. But we got bk together on valentines day.
I've had plenty of bad experiences, but they're worth it, when you get to the gd stuff.

Imo i am butt ugly, nd i do infact wear glasses, and i did used to b slightly overweight, but i lost that weight.
And i did used to be really depressed.

But you have to be more optimistic, and not give up so easily.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

ur like me except im extremely skinny (borderline anorexic) and im heavilly bullied

all the time

oh and ive been banned from going outside coz of threats and in school i dont have friends or a clique tp hang around with

my glasses are extremely high prescription +6

And Because i dnt got friends i cant get a girl to talk to

big problems

[Camy]

ur like me except im extremely skinny (borderline anorexic) and im heavilly bullied

all the time

oh and ive been banned from going outside coz of threats and in school i dont have friends or a clique tp hang around with

my glasses are extremely high prescription +6

And Because i dnt got friends i cant get a girl to talk to

big problems
My mum thinks im anorexic :eusa_shif
Yeah i sorta get bullied, but im kinda at the stage where im gettin more muscles and stuff, and startin to stick up for myself a bit more than i did.

Hmm try hanging around with people, you normally wudnt go near, usually there actually reli nice ppl. The group i hang around with i thought at first were strange, and i was 'too good' to hang around with them. But thats jst stupid reli.

Yeah, iv got something called astigmatism, its no biggie, just means thicker lenses. I got quiksilver ones so that people wudnt notice the lenses but wud notice the frames.

Just try talking to girls in classes, just about evryday things, and develop friendships with them. Then it could go further. It did with me.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

oh im also in the middle of recieving class 3 emergency brace treatment im an extreme case

you do not have that if you do were identicall twins or summin

[Camy]

I do have a brace, i dont wear it though, my gf says im fine without it anyway. Its not 'class 3 emergency brace treatment' anyway.
Lol this isn't meant to be a competitionnnnn. Just be more optimistic is my advice ;)

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

well its hard to be optimistic when:
your being bullied
your depressed
you have a top and bottom permanent brace for 2 years (then a retainer for life)
you got rejected by your gf to hold her hand
you wear glasses
your bordelrine anorexic
you have no friends
you dont have any potential friends
i dont like anything anyone else likes
im thick
i speak like some stuck up idiot (posh and articulate and all)

so yes optimism is quite hard through all that

[Carello]

well its hard to be optimistic when:
your being bullied
your depressed
you have a top and bottom permanent brace for 2 years (then a retainer for life)
you got rejected by your gf to hold her hand
you wear glasses
your bordelrine anorexic
you have no friends
you dont have any potential friends
i dont like anything anyone else likes
im thick
i speak like some stuck up idiot (posh and articulate and all)

so yes optimism is quite hard through all that

All you have to do is stop being a moron. :S

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

Mate Im Trying To Get Advice From People Who Actually Know Girls Or Actually Give A **** I Dont Want People Like You Giving Me Advice Thanks

[Glen Coco]

well its hard to be optimistic when:
your being bullied
your depressed
you have a top and bottom permanent brace for 2 years (then a retainer for life)
you got rejected by your gf to hold her hand
you wear glasses
your bordelrine anorexic
you have no friends
you dont have any potential friends
i dont like anything anyone else likes
im thick
i speak like some stuck up idiot (posh and articulate and all)

so yes optimism is quite hard through all that


move schools
see a doctor
retainers arent that bad
ur young its only a hand
get contact lenses
see a doctor
move schools or make friends
make friends
dont understand what ur saying
revise / read
get som stuck up friends then.

and your young, i havent had a boyfreind and im fine? theres no point in trying to get a girl / boy friend just for te sake of it is there?

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

move schools
see a doctor
retainers arent that bad
ur young its only a hand
get contact lenses
see a doctor
move schools or make friends
make friends
dont understand what ur saying
revise / read
get som stuck up friends then.

and your young, i havent had a boyfreind and im fine? theres no point in trying to get a girl / boy friend just for te sake of it is there?

Already seen a doctor (going to phsycyatrist)
Its a brace
Its still a hand
declined to move schools because of problems ive had
tried and failed
lol
I already do it to much
No 1 in our school

Yer my point exactly im not bothering with women Just no point

Im revising for the BARB tet (army entrance test) and getting fit and healthy for a carrer in the army

but thanks for the advice

[:Edzy]

I dunno how to help you on getting a girlfreind. theres always a girl flinging themself at me ;)

i joke

but ive gotten my girlfreinds by getting to know the girl and then waiting for it to click i guess.

about the physical side

you should talk to your other half about what their views are. it will make you less uneasy.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

oh and another problem i only have my mum and my nan

i dont have a dad or an uncle that i can turn to

my mum had an alky bf so i cudnt turn to him

so i have no male in my life to tlk to about this thins :'(

[:Edzy]

oh and another problem i only have my mum and my nan

i dont have a dad or an uncle that i can turn to

my mum had an alky bf so i cudnt turn to him

so i have no male in my life to tlk to about this thins :'(

i would never want to talk to my dad about this sort of thing. i'd talk to a freind about it.

just ask anyone who you think will understand.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

ermm no friends.... duh

[cocaine]

well its hard to be optimistic when:
your being bullied
your depressed
you have a top and bottom permanent brace for 2 years (then a retainer for life)
you got rejected by your gf to hold her hand
you wear glasses
your bordelrine anorexic
you have no friends
you dont have any potential friends
i dont like anything anyone else likes
im thick
i speak like some stuck up idiot (posh and articulate and all)

so yes optimism is quite hard through all that

well if it cant get any worse then it can only get better :]

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

well done the only one with a brain on the forum

yes i guess your right

better than being told useless info give it to me strait

thanks cocaine (sounds wierd tht: thanks cocaine lol)

[cocaine]

well done the only one with a brain on the forum

yes i guess your right

better than being told useless info give it to me strait

thanks cocaine (sounds wierd tht: thanks cocaine lol)

haha no problem

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

u play habbo anymore??

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please stay on topic.

[MizMe93]

It seems to me you need to act your age. I mean, you're not even a teenager yet, you have your whole life ahead of you. Stop being so dramatic and go do whatever 12 year old boys are supposed to do.

:)

[cocaine]

u play habbo anymore??

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please stay on topic.

pmsl nope
and ontopic: it can only get better ;)

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

sorry bout my off-topic-ness ( :S )

But Yes Your Right
But Ive Decided To Pursue A Career In The Army But Thanks A Lot Though

[Zak]

Ive Only ever had one gfand i never ever got far i never even held hands



love life for me= -9999999/10

i really need some help with how to get a gf and get close with her

get drunk

*copies redneck*

works though.. well most of the time

[Benjiwenji1_old]

stupid idiot
have fun in the army scrubbing

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[[DC]eption]

oh im also in the middle of recieving class 3 emergency brace treatment im an extreme case

you do not have that if you do were identicall twins or summin

Your obviously ugly give up now... :eusa_wall

Stop feeling so sorry 4 ya self, n jus go out ther n b urself

[Jaiisun]

Feels wierd gerrin info on girls from girls :S


But that's the best place to get it, isn't it?! Girls know what they like, and how they'd be bowled over by a guy.

So, i'd firstly like to say what most people have said, you're young, and it's highly unlikely (but it does happen!) that you're going to find someone at this age and spend your life with them. Also, don't just go out looking for girls because you don't have one. Because that isn't fair on the girl if they genuinely really like you.

I think you should make friends with some girls, and go out with them; just as friends. Then you can get to know some girls your age and maybe you'll find a girl that way.

Bullying: if you're being bullied, tell someone. There's so many sites, helplines etc. that can help you. It's the only way it'll ever get sorted, it won't go away if you don't tell anybody, it can only get worse. How far does it have to go before you tell somebody?

Depression & Anorexia: See your GP and explain your problems in as much detail as you can.

Braces?!: I've wanted braces all my life, and i'm getting them soon ;D! But yeah, braces are for your own benefit. They may not seem like the best method to pull a girl, but they may in the future. They're going to give you a sexier smile! So, just stick it out with them, 'cause they're not going anywhere.

Glasses?!: That changes nothing. 50% of Americans wear glasses (Source unknown), and i'd say it probably doesn't change much for the worldwide percentage either. I wear glasses, and I think they're sexy ;]. But, if you really have that much of a problem with them, get contacts!

Friends: Now, nobody on here can help you get friends. That's down to you. Talk to people in school, make friends. Get yourself a best friend, they're great ;]].

Somebody will like you for who you are. Don't try to change for anybody, just be yourself.

Oh, and if you gain a little self-confidence and accept your flaws, you'll be halfway there. You'll feel better, and you'll feel more confident to get out there, meet people, and eventually find yourself the gold prize; a girlfriend!

;].
Jay x

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

someone who actually has a point to summin they say apart from the friends thing i just totally lack the skill to make friends, for example someone was talking to me about girfriends and im just standing there i cant say anything coz i dunno wa to say
nd i look like a totall idiot but whatever like :(

[The Professor]

well its hard to be optimistic when:
your being bullied
your depressed
you have a top and bottom permanent brace for 2 years (then a retainer for life)
you got rejected by your gf to hold her hand
you wear glasses
your bordelrine anorexic
you have no friends
you dont have any potential friends
i dont like anything anyone else likes
im thick
i speak like some stuck up idiot (posh and articulate and all)

so yes optimism is quite hard through all that

You, my friend, are an idiot. The poor guy has just spent a good 45 mins of his life trying to give you advice to help you, and all you've done is flame him in every post and try to "get one up" on him. If you actually want people to help you, I suggest you start to work with people and take on board what they're saying, instead of asking for help and flaming every suggestion you're given. If you sort that attitude problem out, people might be more willing to talk to you.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

i just u no dnt get the advice
it doesnt make sense to 12 year olds
im not that clever
but like i dont need advice i need a mate to talk to about it

[Misawa]

12 year olds don't exactly have love lives. Just wait.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

meh

lol

[jackass]

Please stop being so melodramatic. You're 12.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

well like
i get really badly bullied
about 3-4 weeks ago i got admited into hospital with severe conusion and had to have ct scans, regular tests (every 1 hour even at 3 o clock in the morining they would wake me up and jab a light in my eye)
so melodromatic is not the right way to describe it thanks :|

[jackass]

well like
i get really badly bullied
about 3-4 weeks ago i got admited into hospital with severe conusion and had to have ct scans, regular tests (every 1 hour even at 3 o clock in the morining they would wake me up and jab a light in my eye)
so melodromatic is not the right way to describe it thanks :|

If that happened, then the police would have arrested the people who did it.

If you get bullied, tell someone.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

ermm hes 13 and
he would only get one caution of 3 that would be wiped clean when he reached 16
and i would have to numerous video interviews so i didnt bother

[jackass]

ermm hes 13 and
he would only get one caution of 3 that would be wiped clean when he reached 16
and i would have to numerous video interviews so i didnt bother

So, hes 13, whats that got to do with anything? :S
For that, I doubt it would be a caution, and the police would have been alerted anyway, so I don't believe you.
And video interviews, I doubt it.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

im in wales nd i spent 2 hours with the police
and coz im 12 im under age of 16 so i have to have video interviews not writen statements lol
and coz hes under 16 he would only get one caution your allowed 3 and they get wiped of at 16 anyways

[Samantha.]

Well You Still Have A Long Time Yet :)

But Like Find Someone You Like and Talk To Her And Drop Hints That You Like Her, Then When You Go Out, Drop Hints And Ask Like What She Would Do With You, Dont Rush Into Things As You Are Only Young :). Take Things Step By Step :D

Woooo Good Luck :D

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

summin tht makes sense thanks sam


oh yeah btw coz my brace treatments so bad im gerrin payed fiver every time i go to orthodinstist

IM RICH I TELL YOU
WOOP!!!

[Tristan]

Aren't orthadontist appointments only done every six weeks? Not too much money. :P

Anyway, you're only 12...
I don't think you're telling the truth anyway.
Joining the army? Then you've seriously got to toughen up, wise up and i have to say, grow up.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

ermmm
i didnt ever say i was a weakling or anything did i
i just ent got the looks
:|
but like were piecing together my story bit by bit on the internet
someone could write an autobiography about me if the read carefully enough
lol

[Samantha.]

summin tht makes sense thanks sam


oh yeah btw coz my brace treatments so bad im gerrin payed fiver every time i go to orthodinstist

IM RICH I TELL YOU
WOOP!!!

Im hoped my adviced helped :D

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

it did but
like
i need a mate to talk about it
like someone whos 12 a guy and likes me so i can share me problems
ent got no one tho :(

[Misawa]

ermmm
i didnt ever say i was a weakling or anything did i
i just ent got the looks
:|
but like were piecing together my story bit by bit on the internet
someone could write an autobiography about me if the read carefully enough
lol

Who would buy the autobiography of a 12-year-old emo?

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[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

i find that quite offensive so i will be reporting it

[StripedTiger]

I don't believe people should change their ways so others will like them more, friends and partners should love each other for who they are.

So really, be yourself around girls. Maybe some are interested in you, girls can be shy at times and wait for the guy to make the first move. Try talking general convo about movies etc. If they happen to want to see a movie that is out, and you do too, ask them.

If they give off the obvious signs of liking you, then go to hold their hand during the film? Their reaction to that will tell youif they are definitley interested or not. If they pull away just make up an exscuse :P I suppose its better forgiving then jumping down their throats as soon as the lights go dim

*is totally oblivious to other convos going on in the thread*

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

also the general reaction i get from girls is

URGH GET AWAY FROM ME!!
or
WIERDO FREAK!!

you get my point

[Inseriousity.]

In my personal opinion, it appears to me that you're not very confident about your love life.


Love life: -999999/10

You need to gain more confidence in yourself. Just because your friends seem to be getting loads of girls doesn't mean that you're different. You don't need to find love because love will normally find you.

When you do get a girlfriend, be confident about it. Don't think that by not holding her hand you aren't a proper boyfriend. Just show her you love her in different ways if holding hands makes you go all shy. :P

[Alexicles.]

At 12, you shouldnt be thinking of relationships tbh. :S

[Alexicles.]

also the general reaction i get from girls is

URGH GET AWAY FROM ME!!
or
WIERDO FREAK!!

you get my point
Are you trying to say you have the worst life ever? Try having mine. :@

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

meh not the only problem in my life
extreme bullying makes it hard

[Glen Coco]

well done the only one with a brain on the forum

yes i guess your right

better than being told useless info give it to me strait

thanks cocaine (sounds wierd tht: thanks cocaine lol)


rude much
people have tried to help you. -.-
i dunno but you wouldnt really get paid for going to the orthordontist unless i it was by a family member.

[Abbie.]

you need to change your attitute by the sounds of things.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

yeah mum paying me 5 time i go and coz i gotta have band changes every so often as well i get even more
and tht was before anyone came up with good advice

[Glen Coco]

you need to change your attitute by the sounds of things.


I agree with Abbie :)

and there was some pretty good advice before u said that no-one has a brain.

[leah]

:o Hes the one that gave me rep!! yay thanks :D:D I was on air when I discovered and went all yayy :)

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

no problemo leah glad to help
( i think :S )

[TotalShambles]

You won't last in the army for 2 secs if you give up that easly. Your young.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

did i say i was giving up?
nah
on girls im giving up if tha is wa ur on bout?
oh and im flunking skool and joining the army to get shot
so yeah i am
right ok then
carry on

[YoManGo!]

well done the only one with a brain on the forum



i trust that you're including yourself in that equation.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

yeah im one with a brain
i shoulda said
me and you
lol

[YoManGo!]

yeah im one with a brain
i shoulda said
me and you
lol

to think you lived, when thousands of babies are aborted every year that wouldn't be quite so much a waste of space.

[Charly]

ermmm
i didnt ever say i was a weakling or anything did i
i just ent got the looks
:|
but like were piecing together my story bit by bit on the internet
someone could write an autobiography about me if the read carefully enough
lol

Yea.. i can heres the first line..
'Sorry i gave up writing your book'

Mate your 12 fgs! Who was thinking about relationships back then? :S
If your flunking school to go get killed i know what i'd choose.
If you actually read and thought about the advice that everyone has
given you throughout this thread you might learn a few things! oh no wait you said your thick so you better not hurt your brain..

Actually try for once in your life. Oh and your complaining of these glasses retainer etc? Well post a pic to prove it. Until then i don't believe you and i don't think anyone else does either..

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[Hiro]

Love takes time. It's not something you can rush into, I learnt the hard way...but I'm with someone truly amazing, after taking a 2 year gap of trying to get with a girl.
You'll know when you've found true love.
Just remember, the flame always has to be re-lit.

And girls that go for purely only looks, their relationship is bound to last no longer than 2-3 months.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

thanks dan
:)

[blackops121]

Be Yourself Lol,
Be Funny, Just Talk To Them Normally and see how it goes if they start to like u alot and u like them ask them out and... carry it on from there dont rush into things u got a whole life.

also dont Try TOO much for a girl
ive wasted so far about a year of education at my skwl and prob of my whole life.... ive spent a whole year trying my hardes to impress this girl but i think it just is making me look stupid and act like the class clown and be stupid, so im stopping it now! it aint love just a crush ive learned
wait for true love, when its true love u will suit them not need to work for a year trying to impress them. :(

[Shoed]

Well I must admit, seems you have an attitude problem however your only 12 and you have like years ahead of you. I didn't get my first proper girlfriend until I was 13 and that relationship lasted for 8 months, we broke up the day before valentines day.. I was gutted but life goes on? You don't have to always have a girlfriend and remember friends are always more important then your love life so I strongly suggest socialising with others
would be a beginning considering if you don't communicate with people your life must be really boring? Moaning about glasses, heh? I was 14 when I first had my eye test and they said I had to wear glasses (I'm short sighted) I was really depressed, sadly enoguh but honestly mate wearing glasses isnt that bad:) I got FCUK Glasses which were 145 Pound, there grooovy! Plenty of my friends wear braces, well did... There not that bad, you can get some really groovy ones and brightly coloured. You also mentioned your 'really thick' well I must say so myself your a quite good speller for a 12 year old but dude just because you haven't got a girlfriend for a while and your previous relationship went wrong doesn't mean its the end of the world. There will be so many people around the world who probaly are in the same situation as you are, just over-come your fears and do what you have to do. Most likely you haven't even hit puberty yet considering the average age for that is 13... :S So your hermones wouldn't haven't even kicked in yet... Just wait a while and leave your child hood before it ends, I really miss mine considering it was one of my most fun years in yr8....
Hope this helped!
Danny :D

[YoManGo!]

DONT BE YOURSELF WHATEVER YOU DO
THATS WHAT GOT YOU INTO THIS MESS!