Is this normal?

[Zaflon]

Well im male and i'm gay.
I'll try and put it so i dont get told off but this has been confusing me.
I don't really like the idea of *you know what* from behind.
Is it just me? or do a lot of people not do it or practice it?
I'm also worried i will never get a boyfriend because i dont like it. :(

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[Slowpoke]

From what we've learnt in school it's just a sterotypical view that all gay men like "gay sex" so no, it's normal and you shouldn't worry about it :).

[Mitch4?]

i'd say like 90% of gay youngsters don't do **** mate, probably more don't worry.
but you should try it. :)

[fitcovboy]

Well there are top, bottom and versatile, and some gay men do not like penetration at all, it is perfectly normal, and you should only do what you are comfortable with. Never feel pressured into doing anything you do not want to participate in. If you get a boyfriend and they do not respect the fact that you do not wish to do it, then they are not worth bothering with.

[Zaflon]

Thanks,
Its just I don't like **** but i don't mind other things, it is just that.

[Slowpoke]

Thanks,
Its just I don't like **** but i don't mind other things, it is just that.

Like we said, it's quite normal. It's just one those stereotypical views that the narrow minded people of today hold.

[Redacted]

Its cool.

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[EverSteve]

Agreed with the John Dude, I would rather be got up rather than go up...But other people don't like it at all!

[leah]

Lol hmm Maybe you should look into transexuals?

[SugarBabyRach]

Lol hmm Maybe you should look into transexuals?


LOL Leah!

and yer all relationships arent about sex

[e5]

From what people have said around this forum, not everyone has to do that just because they're gay.

[Alexicles.]

As pretty much everyone has said, it is completely fine to not like the thought of it.


Maybe it's just a phase or something? :)



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[Eamonn]

Like we said, it's quite normal. It's just one those stereotypical views that the narrow minded people of today hold.

Are you serious? I don't see how people can be narrow minded in assuming that a gay couple would participate in penetration? It's like me saying most straight couples have sex and then someone going "OOOH you're so narrow minded for saying that"

:rolleyes:

[Lubricant]

I'm gay and don't like penetration.