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Bef
04-04-2008, 07:58 PM
Im soo pissed off, i stupidly told one of my mates (Abi) something another friend (Jo) said about her and then i even more stupidly came clean with Jo that id told Abi.
Now Jo hates me, is denying that she said it.
And i feel like absolout crud, even though i was only trying to do the right thing and be honest with everyone.
Why do i always open my big mouth and mess things up?

GhostFace-
04-04-2008, 08:01 PM
one thing beg for their forgiveness. worked for me. after a week my friend forgot about it.

good luck<3

Toughened
04-04-2008, 08:03 PM
You've done th right thing imo.
It may not seem like it at the minute but it will soon.

Really though what's better, being a two faced back stabber or being a truthful person. If people cant take the truth and people can't say the truth where are they going to get in the world?

I would say you've done the right thing though. Maybe they'll thank you one day.

Bef
04-04-2008, 08:03 PM
Haha, im not begging anyone for forgivness! end of the day, shes the one in the bloody wrong for saying it. I have problems saying sorry, let alone begging for forgivness!

Teyauna.
05-04-2008, 01:57 AM
Well, I think it's best your honest with your friend then keep it from him. A true friend doesn't say things about other friends and a true friend doesn't hide it from them when they find out what that friend said.

FlyingJesus
05-04-2008, 06:42 PM
Really though what's better, being a two faced back stabber or being a truthful person.

Two faced back stabber if no-one finds out about it

Toughened
05-04-2008, 07:16 PM
Two faced back stabber if no-one finds out about it
They always do in the end.

Zak
06-04-2008, 01:39 AM
Im soo pissed off, i stupidly told one of my mates (Abi) something another friend (Jo) said about her and then i even more stupidly came clean with Jo that id told Abi.
Now Jo hates me, is denying that she said it.
And i feel like absolout crud, even though i was only trying to do the right thing and be honest with everyone.
Why do i always open my big mouth and mess things up?

Typical girl situation

abnormal
06-04-2008, 02:25 AM
you should tell them how stupid you were and then apologize and hope they forgive you.

^ and that was kind of sexist.

GhostFace-
06-04-2008, 02:47 AM
Haha, im not begging anyone for forgivness! end of the day, shes the one in the bloody wrong for saying it. I have problems saying sorry, let alone begging for forgivness!

well in my situation i talked about one of my friends behid their backs one snitched on me yours is different,

Benjiwenji1_old
06-04-2008, 09:32 AM
Im soo pissed off, i stupidly told one of my mates (Abi) something another friend (Jo) said about her and then i even more stupidly came clean with Jo that id told Abi.
Now Jo hates me, is denying that she said it.
And i feel like absolout crud, even though i was only trying to do the right thing and be honest with everyone.
Why do i always open my big mouth and mess things up?

cos you suck? duh

Rixion
06-04-2008, 01:02 PM
You did the right thing.

Coming clean can always turn out wrong, so you just move on :)

Dan2nd
06-04-2008, 08:29 PM
This happened to me but I didn't really do anything :S my friend had told me someone was fussy about how their meat is cut (as he worked behind the deli in a super market at the time) anyway when I saw the 'fussy' person they told me they thought he was rubbish at his job so I kinda of jokinley (sp?) said 'Yeah he did say you were a bit fussy with your meats' and the other person laughed it off.. the next day my mate was talking about this fussy person again and I bought the conversation up I had the day before and he went off on one for me talking about him behind his back =l we made up and stuff as that was about a year ago but still to this day I'm confused about what happened.

StripedTiger
06-04-2008, 11:38 PM
I done that a lot back in the school, days. Kayleigh hated everyone n called everyone, I'd sometimes tell that person as she got really out of hand at times. 99% of the time kayleigh would stop speaking to me for about a week and make my life hell. Then she'd decide she forgave me, start speaking to me again. 1 week later shes calling everyone again. This went on fo 3 years with various people. One girl, maxine, was kayleighs best friend. They fell out so many times, sometimes for months, but in the end, kayleigh had no one else. Now they're best friends again, maxines pregnant, and kayleigh will probs follow suit.

++ it would be sooo funny if they were members of this forum, :'] just to see their reaction ha ha.

So the moral to that story is, no matte how many times you fall out, best friends will always forgive :)

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