My MUM :@!

[Jamieb]

I am so pissed off with my mum!

It started a few weeks ago when they split up.. from 17 year relationship.. and my dad has a g/f and my mum says she dont care about him but why the **** wont she leave him to get on with his life.. if she says she dont care :@:@:@:@:@:@

She says that because he turns up in his g/f sports car then hes making a 'Seine' ...


Well back on story.. He come around a min ago 2 bring me something i orded on Amazon.. and she went out to the car and fliped out in the middle of the street at him with people about then comes back in after and i said

"What the **** you doing how the **** can you say hes making Seine after that"

She just told me to" **** off...."

now shes going on about it wasnt a Seine... How the ****?

Him turning up in a sports car is but her flipping out in the street aint..


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[Palda]

Didn't understand most of that, but if your parents have split up. Try tell your mum that he's moved on and she should do the same too and tell your dad not to bring his girl friend round her house as in she still has feelings for him.

Hope that helps x

[Jamieb]

Didn't understand most of that, but if your parents have split up. Try tell your mum that he's moved on and she should do the same too and tell your dad not to bring his girl friend round her house as in she still has feelings for him.

Hope that helps x


She says she dont have feeling for him but she clearly does.. Just walked down 2 say sorry and shes crying agen :(
Iv told her to watch a filma and go to sleep so I think she is..
But she wont let him go.

And dads g/f is serusly the nicest person you will ever meet .. She thinks she might take dad away from me so she keeps saying sorry and stuff..

[Cavaz]

first of all its "Scene", and talk to her.

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[-Xiangu-]

Thats a really horrible story. I really don't know what to say. A 17 year relationship gone :(.

I think you should sit your mum down and have a talk about her and tell her to move on etc.

Do the same with your dad. It isn't good him appearing with his girlfriend as that will only stir things up. Try and make them both leave each other alone and get on with their lives.

-James

[iTech]

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[dirrty]

just leave her alone cuz she is obvs upset, but let it take its course. a 17 year relationship isnt something to get other easy, and to some extent she is probably in denial to some extent. so i wouldnt nag her and expect her to be fine over it, as its normal for her to act how she is reacting.

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[Bef]

She has every right to be upset and peed off! Hes just left her for another women for gods sake and then hes turning up outside the house with her.
And shes prob a bit peed off that her own son thinks that the women who stole her husbund is "the nicest person you will ever meet"
Try and be their for her!

[Metric1]

That sucks. I remember when my mom and dad split. It wasn't pretty. When my dad was leaving he forgot his keys to his brand-new Ford Excursion and my mom wouldn't let him back into the house to get the keys so she went and got them. Instead of her just giving him the keys she took the keys and keyed the entire car. But once she did that, she was fine, there were no more arguments or fights.

I know it sucks now, but you'll be ok. You're mom needs you right now, this is no time to lash out and rebel against the situation. Just remember, this is in no way your fault.

[The Professor]

That sucks. I remember when my mom and dad split. It wasn't pretty. When my dad was leaving he forgot his keys to his brand-new Ford Excursion and my mom wouldn't let him back into the house to get the keys so she went and got them. Instead of her just giving him the keys she took the keys and keyed the entire car. But once she did that, she was fine, there were no more arguments or fights.

I know it sucks now, but you'll be ok. You're mom needs you right now, this is no time to lash out and rebel against the situation. Just remember, this is in no way your fault.

Wise words.

In all honesty, when your parents break up is probably the worst you'll feel for years and years. In my case, it was over 5 years until anything came close. During this time, you'll probably feel every emotion under the sun towards your parents; one minute you'll be happy they're apart and can be happy, the next you'll hate them for screwing up your life. And there isn't a lot you can do at the minute. The only thing that's going to make you feel any better is time, so try and get on with things as normal as best as possible and try not to irritate your mum too much, no matter how difficult it is. If/when they start rowing again, just step out the way and let them get on with it, put your mp3 player on loud to drown it out or something. It'll all pass soon enough :)

[leah]

Basically, She's Jealous.
I think she needs a mna of her own ;)
She may still have feelings for your dad, obviously she would 17 years is quite a long time, but she may not be in love with him.
She should get used to it after time, but you should tell him not to mention his gf infront of her for a while, and also tell your mum she needs to let him be, although she directs her anger at you, you should still be there for you, maybe she needs to lash out, and then she'll get over it?

[Catzsy]

I do not think if you tried you could even imagine how hurt and betrayed your Mum must feel. She is not going to act normally under the amount of pressure she is under at the moment and I expect she will act out of charactor for a while. Just give her some slack and try to be as supportive as possible at the moment as she must be devastated and heart broken.

[Teyauna.]

I think she may have a little jealousy issues. Maybe she didn't want it to end.

[Bef]

Shes prob not jelous. Shes prob tamping! If a bloke left me after 17 years for another women i would be tearing his balls off and feeding them to his new misses :)

[:Edzy]

Wise words.

In all honesty, when your parents break up is probably the worst you'll feel for years and years. In my case, it was over 5 years until anything came close. During this time, you'll probably feel every emotion under the sun towards your parents; one minute you'll be happy they're apart and can be happy, the next you'll hate them for screwing up your life. And there isn't a lot you can do at the minute. The only thing that's going to make you feel any better is time, so try and get on with things as normal as best as possible and try not to irritate your mum too much, no matter how difficult it is. If/when they start rowing again, just step out the way and let them get on with it, put your mp3 player on loud to drown it out or something. It'll all pass soon enough :)

See, i disagree. it would have been fine for me if my mum didnt get so upset and after 4 years, she still shouts at him in the street if he drops us off etc. (so embarising) but it will die down.. might take a while. but yeah Alex's Advice is v good :)

[Jamieb]

Thanks for all your help Ill get around Repping you all ..


Thanks Jamieb

[Metric1]

My mom never dragged us through her divorce, not ONCE. Sure we were poor afterwards, but she would give-up anything for us to be happy, even if it ment that she wasn't. I love my mom.

[BowTies1]

My mom never dragged us through her divorce, not ONCE. Sure we were poor afterwards, but she would give-up anything for us to be happy, even if it ment that she wasn't. I love my mom.

that was the nicest comment ever :)

[Palda]

Just tell your mum how you feel and that her ex boy friend clearly doesn't want anything to do with her and she has to move on. Sit her down and talk to her hopefully she will try to make things better for you and understand.

[Kronics]

Shes prob not jelous. Shes prob tamping! If a bloke left me after 17 years for another women i would be tearing his balls off and feeding them to his new misses :)

Lol I wouldn't like to see the man that annoys you, very extreme o.O

Anyway mate, a big thing like this as everyone has stated does take time. And if they fight just step back because at the end of the day, it's not your fight and well you cant exactly choose sides. Just get on with your life but also observe to make sure things dont get way out of control.