Bullying.

[Pulchritudinous]

I've been being bullied for about a year now, by boys, it's mostly because my surnames polish, at first I could ignore it, but it started getting worse, some boy rubbed food in my face, and I had a stone threw at my head, and drain water poured over me.

I told my mum after a while, I had parents evening, my mum told my tutor, and he spoke with the, it made it worse, but then one weekend I went to a fair, and they got nasty, then when I got back to school they were horrible again, but the teachers sorted it.

Last Saturday I went to this local fate thing, and one boy, (the main horrible one), told another boy to hit me over the head with a toy gun, the boy said no, I ignored him, but my friend said I should ask him why he said it, I said no, so she asked him, he said 'Uhhhh it was a joke wernt it' and I said 'Not a very funny one', and I told him to shutup, he said, 'you need to go and get your visa for poland don't ya', and I'd had enough, I said 'I know alot of stuff about you and your family', (due to our mums being friends a long time ago), and he didn't believe me, so I told him what I knew infront of his mates, (not very suitable for the forum), this made him a bit angry, probably because I'd never stuck up for myself before, so he tried to ride into me on his bike, I dodged him, so he tried to kick me.

Later on, my mum told my dad about what had happened, my dad had completely had enough, so he went to their house, grabbed the boy by the collar, and told him never to go near me again, unfortunately, they were having a party celebrating someone coming out of prison!...So you can imagine the sort of people that were there, about ten of them started thumping and hitting my dad, eventually they had him on the floor, kicking and stamping on his head, someone also smashed the headlights of our car, once he came home, I had two friends round who were shocked when he came home with blood all over his face and a gash above his eye, my mum was out looking for him, and she drove straight home, phoned the police, and eventually took my dad to hospital, he had some stitches, and came home, his face is terrible, his eyes all swollen, and he has definate stamp marks on his head, I feel sick looking at his face cause it was those bullies who caused it, all because of my stupid surname!!!!

[Digital]

:( thats not nice at all :@

[BlueTails]

N00bs... They Should Get A Life! :'( Don't Worry About Names, I Ignore Em With Mine :D

[Jinxxed]

Bullies are disgusting. I really hope your Dad gets better soon :'(

[cocaine]

Wow. That's tough. I thought I had a really bad time with people beating me up after school, cutting me and slashing me, but you had it bad!

[Jinxxed]

:o:o:o People cutting and slashing you !?!
That's sickening to think about !

[.Amberz.]

Awwwm thats awful. I really hope your Dad gets better. Just ignore them. :'(

[eggd2]

i've had a blade to my throat wen i was bullied

[Detox]

That sounds terrible. Hope overcome the bullies :@ and hope your dad gets better soon.

[[email protected]]

thats bang out of order !
bullies are people with no lifes

o yeah i kiked a bullies backside in once before, he wont touch me agian
left him in cuts in bruises

[Toes]

Thats the worst thing i've ever heard in my life! you must feel terrible!! don't worry we're all here for you!!

[Pulchritudinous]

Thanks everybody, I honestly started to think all boys were total jerks.

[eggd2]

im a boy, most are imature and think there perfect

[ChloeDust]

-sigh- bullies should just go, get lost -_-
I have been bullied on and off since i was about 7 literally, -sigh- for such sillie reasons at primary school i.e; My spotty jacket, people would call me spots, and cause i was small, they would call me titch and rubbish like that, also this boy said i samelt of wee once, but he was such a horrible boy, i use to just tell him to Shut up >:l i was about 8, then like started high school, people would also call me titch and midget, also just because i haven't ever had a proper b/f this boy the other day was calling me fridgid, why do you have to rush to have ...? I mean i don't understand why people wanna have ... so early o.O; anyways. Last year, i got physically abused, ='[, this girl called Toni, she was never a nice girl anyways, i was just laughing about something one day and she was telling me to Shut up and we fell out, then at lunch one of my friends spread a rumour about emily (Toni's best mate) and toni, the rumour was 'Apparently they slept together' i told the girl who spread the rumour to stop because she would think it was me, then at lunch i went up to the garden which me and my friends hung out in, toni was in the garden, apparently my friend melissa had been signaling me to go away and so, toni came up to me and strangled me in front of everyone i was literally dangling in the air, couldn't breath my heart was racing, pounding, then she threw me in the bush, then i felt really sick of worry and i remember bursting into tears and all my friends crowding round me, =[, -sigh- also this year my old friend ****** (wont say her name) and steph started picking on me cause we fell out, and she said stuff like; chloe you ugly mono-brow gurl, you ugly titch, i was heartbroken then she said stuff about my brother and family and i was in tears every night i got home, she brought in a voodoo doll one day saying it was me and *****ing it, and i was frightened and was crying my eyes out, but ***** is such an insecure girl and i pity her. -sigh-

I always get picked on, and this has made me always feel depressed on and off, and i always feel down at times and it isnt pleasant. =[

[xox.Hayley.xox]

I was bullied just because my name is Hayley they think its a weird name I cry alot because they kick me and beat me up, I have no father and my mother is gone alot with her job so I can't really tell alot of people so I keep it in.

[xox.Hayley.xox]

I do have a bf and he treats me like sh** he throws things at me and makes me do stuff

[Pulchritudinous]

I don't get upset about it really, it's not gonna make the situation better, but I can't help being angry about how it's ended up.

I'm moving to Australia in August so I'm just looking forward to that!!!

[Mit]

phone the police alhough they dont usually do much

o by the way take it as a joke. i lighten up bout it, u can take it serious or u can laugh it off.

[RedStratocas]

I don't get upset about it really, it's not gonna make the situation better, but I can't help being angry about how it's ended up.

I'm moving to Australia in August so I'm just looking forward to that!!!

Perminently? I hear its cool there :p Yeh, I get bullied (not physical) but most of em are idiots anyway, and I can come out with the worst ever verbal abuse to someone who is talking bad about me/someone esle... I dont get beat up or anything because my brother, (sorta popular. Im not as much as he is), has so many friends who could beat the living *!%$ out of/ make life a living hell out of people. Lol. Im covered.

My school, bulling isnt a very huge problem (Some people say otherwise. I know there are fights, but not really "bullying"). It isnt a problem because really, no one in my school is popular, but different levels of loser :p

Sounds bad for you though... me/ my bro's solution (not telling you to do this) is firecrackers :p Sometimes if someone we hate has been a jerk or something we get firecrackers. There is one called Strobescreamer (something like that) we set it off in front of their house and it blinks like a strobe light over and over, and at the end, a huge flame sort of thing shoots up, and lets off the most high pitch, loudest thing you have ever heard :p

[Jase]

tis evil. at my school, you get beaten up if you dress like a chav :@

[kasi]

My surnames Italian, no one makes fun of me though so I'm glad. :)

But that's horrible. I'm so sorry. :(

[Eamonn]

Aww poor you and your family =[ Hope things get better ;)
And i was nearly bullied in yr6 for about a week then i realised the only way to stop it was beat him up :) they soon layed off

[FRISC0]

Ok, What i would do is.. (this is what im doing Atm as a mater of fact) talk to head of year or headteacher, tell them if you tell them off your gonna make it worse so can i move class or something that will get you away from these people. if they hit you just move away or blank them then they think o well hes not bothered.
if not, tell your mum im not going in untill this is sorted out IVE HAD ENOUGH! :o (thats basically what i did even though im pretty shy so i had guts to tell my mum instead of putting up with it)
dont go to school, bunk what ever it takes to stop it, its worth it ill tell you that :s
if they say, why wernt you at school? you say im not coming in untill it stops!
and wu-la its done (sort of) hope that helps :(

[Digital]

i've never been bullied, because ppl done even know me its like i'm not there but
hey and u should NEVER let ppl bully u tell your mam or dad about it.

in my school if u are caught bulling u get chucked out the same day and u carn't
come back ever!

[BlueTails]

The Habbox Krew Is Coming To Beat Up Those Idiots :D
Don't Worry About Bullies... They Should Burn In Hell :D

[Bef]

Ive never actually been properly bullied like some of u have. Never been physically picked on. Ive had people say stuff mean things but thats behind my back usually. When i was in primary i got called scatty cos i lived in counsil flats. People make comments like but usually its just messing bout. I hate bullies thou. Some girl beat my mate up for literally no reason at all! She was a total bully, only picked on people who wouldnt fight back... But then i kind of got involved and beat her up. Dont no if that makes me a bully... Maybe a bully basher.

[Blader_Boy]

tis evil. at my school, you get beaten up if you dress like a chav :@

At my school your more likely to get beaten up if you dont :p skaters and rockers have been the unpopular ones from about year 9 upwards..

Anyways that story is shocking. If i ever saw a girl being hit by a lad i would go over and hit him, simple! Also about your dad you really want to press charges there for gbh and get the scum back in prison where they belong.

I have never been bullied, but i think the best advice is always to stick up for yourself.

[Eamonn]

goths and grebs get beat up at my school
we dont mind townies , chavs , skaters and indies :D Lol

[Mr.Kylee]

My surnames Italian, no one makes fun of me though so I'm glad. :)

But that's horrible. I'm so sorry. :(
My second name is Italian :/ but I usually don't even bother to tell it english people because they'll laugh and no I never been bullied. Nobody dares :p

[Roboevil]

My god, where do you people live? I must come from slap up land or something because no one ever get's beaten up in my school unless there's an actual reason! Like, I called this guy a :rude: once, and he punched me in the face lol, it hurt. If anyone talks behind my back or back chats me, I don't really care, it's always somone I don't like anyway and I know i'm always :rude:ing about them more. And Additives omg! They cut you :o, what for? I'll come and throw a knife in their head :), and if they survive, i'll do it again.

[?-Doc-?]

Everyone has had a bullying problem i spose' -
Its quite sad , because the bulliers have been bullied b4.
Or in the future. Its just really sad.
I dont like bulliers, they pick on "nerds" or "outcasts" the most.
I just cant stand standing around looking. And i cant do anything.

[Pulchritudinous]

It's kinda stopped since the thing with my Dad now, I don't think any of them have the cheek to say anything, because most of them saw my Dad being beaten up, and were pretty shocked.

Although there was this pathetic rumour that my Dad ran into their house, strangled the bully, and punched him twice, I was just like yeah whatever, if thinking that makes you feel better go ahead cause I know my Dad.

Believe me, this boy hasn't been bullied, my mum knew his parents and knew he wasn't bullied at home, and I've been in the same school since year 3, I hate it when people say that they have been bullied, because I can guarentee most of them do it 2 impress eachother.

And yeah I am moving to Aus permantly, THANK GOD!!

[SSC7]

Interesting story. Your dad should have been smarter in what in he did by not going to someones house and grabbing their kid by the collar and yelling at them. Espicially when it was that kind of party. I don't blame the people for hitting your dad, but I think the kicking and stamping him was going to far. Your mum or dad shoud have called his parents and talked it out since they were once friends. Anyway hope they stop bullying you. I've never been bullyied before so I'm glad. Best thing to do I guess is stand up for yourself and show em you arnt scared. Unless of course they've got a knife or something like someone here said. Then just try and run. Also my last name is Irish so people don't make fun of it.

[Pulchritudinous]

Interesting story. Your dad should have been smarter in what in he did by not going to someones house and grabbing their kid by the collar and yelling at them. Espicially when it was that kind of party. I don't blame the people for hitting your dad, but I think the kicking and stamping him was going to far. Your mum or dad shoud have called his parents and talked it out since they were once friends. Anyway hope they stop bullying you. I've never been bullyied before so I'm glad. Best thing to do I guess is stand up for yourself and show em you arnt scared. Unless of course they've got a knife or something like someone here said. Then just try and run. Also my last name is Irish so people don't make fun of it.

They were once friends, not anymore, the women grew pretty nasty, and my mum decided not to be friends.

What do you mean 'I don't blame them', firstly my Dad didn't know there was a party, the men were mostly drunk, and were just called out from the back garden, they didn't even know why they were doing it.

Ask your Dad maybe, that if you were a girl being bullied by boys, would he not be angry, my Dad was shocked that boys would even bully a girl, and he'd had enough, yeah he's aware what he did was wrong, but he was angry, and he didn't like seeing me upset, but anyway, that doesn't justify what happened to my Dad.

[SSC7]

They were once friends, not anymore, the women grew pretty nasty, and my mum decided not to be friends.

What do you mean 'I don't blame them', firstly my Dad didn't know there was a party, the men were mostly drunk, and were just called out from the back garden, they didn't even know why they were doing it.

Ask your Dad maybe, that if you were a girl being bullied by boys, would he not be angry, my Dad was shocked that boys would even bully a girl, and he'd had enough, yeah he's aware what he did was wrong, but he was angry, and he didn't like seeing me upset, but anyway, that doesn't justify what happened to my Dad.
What I ment by 'I don't blame him' is that if some guy comes into your house without permission and grabs your kid by the collar and yells at him, without you having any backround on why he is yelling at your kid, I think you'd be angry and would hit him too, just not to the degree of what they did..

[Pulchritudinous]

What I ment by 'I don't blame him' is that if some guy comes into your house without permission and grabs your kid by the collar and yells at him, without you having any backround on why he is yelling at your kid, I think you'd be angry and would hit him too, just not to the degree of what they did..

Understandable, but for 9 other men to join in was going too far.

I don't even know why I'm defending myself.

[Y!]

I've been being bullied for about a year now, by boys, it's mostly because my surnames polish, at first I could ignore it, but it started getting worse, some boy rubbed food in my face, and I had a stone threw at my head, and drain water poured over me.

I told my mum after a while, I had parents evening, my mum told my tutor, and he spoke with the, it made it worse, but then one weekend I went to a fair, and they got nasty, then when I got back to school they were horrible again, but the teachers sorted it.

Last Saturday I went to this local fate thing, and one boy, (the main horrible one), told another boy to hit me over the head with a toy gun, the boy said no, I ignored him, but my friend said I should ask him why he said it, I said no, so she asked him, he said 'Uhhhh it was a joke wernt it' and I said 'Not a very funny one', and I told him to shutup, he said, 'you need to go and get your visa for poland don't ya', and I'd had enough, I said 'I know alot of stuff about you and your family', (due to our mums being friends a long time ago), and he didn't believe me, so I told him what I knew infront of his mates, (not very suitable for the forum), this made him a bit angry, probably because I'd never stuck up for myself before, so he tried to ride into me on his bike, I dodged him, so he tried to kick me.

Later on, my mum told my dad about what had happened, my dad had completely had enough, so he went to their house, grabbed the boy by the collar, and told him never to go near me again, unfortunately, they were having a party celebrating someone coming out of prison!...So you can imagine the sort of people that were there, about ten of them started thumping and hitting my dad, eventually they had him on the floor, kicking and stamping on his head, someone also smashed the headlights of our car, once he came home, I had two friends round who were shocked when he came home with blood all over his face and a gash above his eye, my mum was out looking for him, and she drove straight home, phoned the police, and eventually took my dad to hospital, he had some stitches, and came home, his face is terrible, his eyes all swollen, and he has definate stamp marks on his head, I feel sick looking at his face cause it was those bullies who caused it, all because of my stupid surname!!!!

I know this may seem a little farfetched, but boys who tease girls tend to like them a lot O.o Anyhow I know how it feels, I used to get bullied for 3 years.

[Pulchritudinous]

I know this may seem a little farfetched, but boys who tease girls tend to like them a lot O.o Anyhow I know how it feels, I used to get bullied for 3 years.

It's understandable to think that, but they don't just tease, they are really horrible, one boy was horrible and his mates said 'he only does it cause he fancies you', and I'm like yeah I so like him now he's just threw that rock at my head.

[Y!]

It's understandable to think that, but they don't just tease, they are really horrible, one boy was horrible and his mates said 'he only does it cause he fancies you', and I'm like yeah I so like him now he's just threw that rock at my head.
Boys shouldn't even be hitting girls, they're obviously gimps if they can't fight other boys. I suggest you get even, get yourself a gang, preferably biggest than theres, and then smash their faces in.

[RLY-CRAIG?]

I totlly agree with one of Friscos post-

I refused to go back to my school due to it and I am now waiting to go to a new one! :D

[Y!]

I totlly agree with one of Friscos post-

I refused to go back to my school due to it and I am now waiting to go to a new one! :D
Wouldn't you rather solve the problem, than run from it?

Also Pulchritudinous, didn't you say that they take the mick out of your polish surname? If so, that could be counted as racism; which is forbidden in schools probably better dealt with than bullying for some reason...

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Specie-The ****** school tried to solve the problem for 6 months but no luck-So that's what I did! can't wait for my new sool now its kinda boring at home!

But a message to others getting bullied is not to be scared to tell someone as it is hard and ****s like that can't just go round doing that sort of thing! I'd like to give them a good slap! (oh yeah but i just cant!)

[Y!]

Specie-The ****** school tried to solve the problem for 6 months but no luck-So that's what I did! can't wait for my new sool now its kinda boring at home!

But a message to others getting bullied is not to be scared to tell someone as it is hard and ****s like that can't just go round doing that sort of thing! I'd like to give them a good slap! (oh yeah but i just cant!)
I know what you mean, not trying to seem nasty but maybe you need to toughen up, take up martial arts or boxing?

[-sFusion-]

woah i never knew bullying could get that out of hand. i hope you can figure out a way to end it, but i just dont know how you could :(

[Matty]

People say things about my surname. I ignore them.

[SSC7]

Understandable, but for 9 other men to join in was going too far.

I don't even know why I'm defending myself.
I agree the 9 men thing was going to far. Whats it like at school now? Does anyone know what happened?

Also to neigh who said this
I totlly agree with one of Friscos post-

I refused to go back to my school due to it and I am now waiting to go to a new one! :D
What are you going to tell the people at your new school? That you had to leave because you were bullied? Also by doing this the bullies have won. They succesfully tormented you to the point where you had to leave your school. I suggest learning to fight. Thats always the best thing. But don't start the fight. If they touch you its self defense and you can then kick the **** out of them. This sends then sends a message to anyone else looking to mess with you, gaining you much more respect, therefore problem solved. Always stand up for yourself.

[Kaya]

Woah thats horrible, how old are you?

[Punk Rebel Kris]

Bullies are ***holes, they really don't know when to stop!

[zak-x]

I h8 them all
The same thing happend to me i still get bullied because of my surname :'(

[Pulchritudinous]

I agree the 9 men thing was going to far. Whats it like at school now? Does anyone know what happened?

Also to neigh who said this
What are you going to tell the people at your new school? That you had to leave because you were bullied? Also by doing this the bullies have won. They succesfully tormented you to the point where you had to leave your school. I suggest learning to fight. Thats always the best thing. But don't start the fight. If they touch you its self defense and you can then kick the **** out of them. This sends then sends a message to anyone else looking to mess with you, gaining you much more respect, therefore problem solved. Always stand up for yourself.

Yeah everyone knows at school, but the headteacher told the boys if they say anything, or touch me again, that they will be suspended

My cousin in year 10 told one boy if he ever touches me again him and his mates will 'sort him out', and he was like okay, sorry I didn't know she was your cousin, it just shows how much of a idiot he is, he's scared of a boy so he bullies a girl.

[alexxxxx]

Bullies seem being suspended means you can wait outside the school gates after school and see it more as days off!

All bullies should be sent to a boot camp or something and be shouted at and bullied - thatll stop em!

[Jane]

Bullies seem being suspended means you can wait outside the school gates after school and see it more as days off!

All bullies should be sent to a boot camp or something and be shouted at and bullied - thatll stop em!

Bullying bullys? I don't think that's right ;) Anyways, it's quite shocking what being bullied can lead to, that's why we need to help put a stop to it. I hope your dad gets better soon, and the bullying stops. :)

[deltateamaplha]

:( I know how you fell my name is yazzmine a diff way of spelling yasmin but I get called yazzi by everyone and have doin for 10 years I used to get called Yazzi ****zi or yazzo ( hardley enymore :) but... somtimes an odd idiot says it to me I ignore it I admit it did get hard i seeked guidence but nouthing happend more needs to be doin to stamp out bullying.

[Clo]

It's Not Fair On People That Are Being Bullied Because The Teachers Say, ''If Someone's Bullying You Then Tell The Teacher'' Then They Tell Them And Nothing Is Done About It! Only The Bully Finds Out That You've Grassed Them In And Then You Get Beaten Up Even More! :( My Friends Mum Said ''If Anyone Hits You At School Then You Should Hit Them Back If That's What It Takes For Them To Stop Bullying'' So My Friend Punched The Bully Back And She Got Blamed For It All :o! The Problem Is That Teachers Have Their Favourite Pupils, And Most Of The Time It's The Bullies That Are Their Fave/

[deltateamaplha]

That is VERY true :eusa_clap

[Pulchritudinous]

The teachers were like 'Yes, yes, we'll sort it out', but they did little to try and stop it, and the worst thing was they blimmen told the bullies I'd told them about what had been happened, even though I told them to say they had observed it or something so I wouldn't get more hassle, in the end my Dad had to sort it out himself, and look what happened.

[Grabbed]

I hate bullies. I have been bullied by my own friends, or the people who call themselves my "friends"

[Rachi]

Its not nice being bullied. I dont get bullied but i sawe the Puffers [what i call da smokin krew] hangin around the venders and i walked past n dis boy hu was 1 year younger then them, they were bullying him.. they didnt hit him but its mean..


O yea and this fat kid in my form was gettin sumert from da vender e was puttin his money in and one of the puffers walked ova and said 'Hey Alex*' in a smexy voice LOL it woz sooo funny But it woz mean

[cocaine]

Yes, I also get bullied by my 'So Called Friends.' -

They criticize me on everything they do. They also repeat everything they say, and out class saying is 'Shame!'. So if someone said 'Oooh I've cut my arm', everyone would just look at them and say 'Shame'. It's funny.

It's weird though, as they verbally bully me and somehow seem to require me to pick them up on the way to school, invite them round my house if they are locked out.

[Detox]

I hate bullies. I have been bullied by my own friends, or the people who call themselves my "friends"
I understand totally.
I have had it myself.

[Mit]

my personality usually stops me from being bullied. if i get into a fight i'll be backed up by fifty other people.

plus i no people that can beat other up

if ur good and sport or buff then u dont usually get bullied lmao. its how society works. I is good at sport and every1 noes that i can send most people in our year flying on the rugby pitch.

[-Iceo]

As a Victim of being Bullyed myself along with my Real mate Darren, I feel that bullying is a Crime! It Should be stopped. Never Ever have I one Day came home from School without One Bruze! :(

Beat Bullying!

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[Blader_Boy]

About the surname thing.. my surname is 'Green' how boring is that!? i would love to have a more interesting foreign surname! Around more mature people your surname would be interesting and appreciated im sure :)

A little off topic i know but i just thought i'd add it. Also i would like to wish you all the luck in the world in whatever you choose to do in the future, i can appreciate you have been through a very hard time and now you have the chance to move on and put it behind you.

[NekkLe]

I'd laugh if someone tried to bully me :D
However, I've had some of my friends been bullied before and its not nice. Bullies are basically people who have No life, snydes, jealous, lower status than yourself and annoying.
If it gets into the hands of racial terms, as specie said, most schools deal with racism very seriously. However, I spose most schools that live in cities probably have more racism than anywhere else because London itself is very multicultural.