Issues at Home

[CJW93]

Basically its started around an hours ago. My sister was nagging on at me telling me to tidy up the kitchen. I was refusing as I was int he middle of doing something. She stole my two xbox controllers, and refused to give them back. After around forty five minutes of arguing about it my mum came home and immediately took her side a per usual and it is really starting to piss me off big time. My mum always seems to take side and she always always favors my sister. Mainly because shes the oldest and me being the youngest. now my mums like "things are going to change!" and threatening me
I am honestly considering running away from home because she has been more defensive and quicker to jump on to her side and believe every word she *TEXT REMOVED* says.
What should I do?

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please do not avoid the forum filter.

[Misawa]

Well for a start, running away from home is about the most pointless thing possible.

[BlueMoon]

REMOVED

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please do not post inappropriately.

[Inseriousity.]

It's because you're getting so worked up over little things like not having your Xbox controllers. I can't believe someone had an argument for 45 minutes over a pair of controllers (please tell me you were exaggerating).

Next time, don't take the bait. Just pretend she's the fish hook and you're the fish. Next time she does something to annoy you, don't grab that hook and calm yourself somewhere else. That way she is in the wrong and if your mum had any sense, she wouldn't be able to 'take her side' because you haven't done anything. Sorry if that made no sense :P

[Dan2nd]

It's because you're getting so worked up over little things like not having your Xbox controllers. I can't believe someone had an argument for 45 minutes over a pair of controllers (please tell me you were exaggerating).

Next time, don't take the bait. Just pretend she's the fish hook and you're the fish. Next time she does something to annoy you, don't grab that hook and calm yourself somewhere else. That way she is in the wrong and if your mum had any sense, she wouldn't be able to 'take her side' because you haven't done anything. Sorry if that made no sense :P

I totally agree with thie person don't rise to it and take the bait trust me I know at times it can be hard as I'm a middle child and suffer from Middle child syndrome :P and always feel my mum and dad take sides with my older sister and younger brother but now I've learnt not to rise to their bait and my mum has no choice but to punish them for annoying me so it does work

[Blinger1]

REMOVED

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please do not post inappropriately.

[BlueMoon]

REMOVED

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please do not post inappropriately.
OI MINTY MAN!
His sisters boyfriend is a black man who has mega bucks because he inherited it all from his dad. So why did that get removed you Manchester City brother of mine? :rolleyes:

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Maybe if you'd stated that in the post you wouldn't have received that edit. Instead of putting, 'go live with the black dude in the rich ghetto' - I suggest in future you elaborate further.

Like I said before... go live with the black dude in the rich ghetto. ;)

Edit for Inser... His sister tried making him clean the kitchen when it was her job, it was rather funny listening to her, she sounds like a lazy transsexual, at first I thought it was his mum. I hate his sister, she switched his 360 off while I was owning him on Fifa.

[CJW93]

OI MINTY MAN!
His sisters boyfriend is a black man who has mega bucks because he inherited it all from his dad. So why did that get removed you Manchester City brother of mine? :rolleyes:

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Maybe if you'd stated that in the post you wouldn't have received that edit. Instead of putting, 'go live with the black dude in the rich ghetto' - I suggest in future you elaborate further.

Like I said before... go live with the black dude in the rich ghetto. ;)

Edit for Inser... His sister tried making him clean the kitchen when it was her job, it was rather funny listening to her, she sounds like a lazy transsexual, at first I thought it was his mum. I hate his sister, she switched his 360 off while I was owning him on Fifa.

Owning me?
I was dominating you :D

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please stay on topic.

[BlueMoon]

Owning me?
I was dominating you :D
I was winning 3:2 blud! :D

Edited by Minty (Forum Moderator): Please stay on topic. Consider this as your third and final warning.

[drama]

argued for 45 minutes about xbox controllers and in that time you didn't think that cleaning the kitchen would of been faster?

i can see why your mum took your sisters side, and the fact you're thinking about running away is hilarious.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

do u have a councleler in school
talk to him/her
call childline
or talk to a mate :)
best i can help soz but hey i hope it hleped a little

[Frodo13.]

Try living with my Dad - all of this threats get carried out.

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

oooooh

im sorry man
call childline or summin
u dont have to live like that
or call police if its assault
but man u dont have to live like tht

[cocaine]

pmsl, thats an everyday issue here :rolleyes: nothing big.. sisters are only there to wind you up

[-=-Me-=-Me-=-]

yeah
im on bout
frodo 13
poor guy

[Frodo13.]

yeah
im on bout
frodo 13
poor guy

I'm able to cope with it thanks.

[lew!]

why didnt you just tidy up the kitchen, or get her to help you.

[360]

Don't run away over something petty

Brothers and sisters always argue

me & my sister were arguing half an hour ago because she wanted to use my laptop to put music on her mp3 player (her computer is old, it takes agggeeesss)

[leah]

I have the same problem,
I'm the oldest, and my dad ALWAYS takes my little brothers side over me and my sister, and my mum takes anyones side but my own.
sometimes i get so wound up and I like cry when we argue (Im cool) ;)
But yeh, theres nothing you can do, I've tried to tell them they have favourites, they either laugh in my face or get angry at me.. you could try explaining how it makes you feel when she takes her side everytime, maybe your mum would feel guilty about it?

hope this helped :D x

[Krusty]

just do what you're told and be really nice
annoys em coz they want you to be horrible so they can shout