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blackops121
21-04-2008, 04:23 PM
well ive been having girl troubles....
its been causing me to close my education to try and impress her by being stupid.... but ive over came that and have been behaving much much better and im getting 1's on my behaviour card now :)

but thats not the problem...

its well theres this girl in all my class's and well i really really love her but i dont have the balls to ask her out my self lol so one of her mates said ill ask her out with you and i said no (cuz im shy :) ) and she said im gonna do it anyways so i had mixed emotions lol, then she was like ill try persuade her but i didnt want that i wanted to ask her myself and dont persuade her just let her say how she feels then go out with her or leave it, but she went away and starting talking to the girl i love and trying to persuade her then we went up to our next class and they said that she said she was flatterd (for a joke lol) then said but id prefer us just to be friends, i was totally gutted like!
i dont know what to do! i need some help and fast! because i gotta tell her how i feel sometime i heard that her and this other guy getting quite flirty and if i dont make a move quick i may lose her :(

but shes got that look in her eyes where it says she is lying and she likes me back, but im so confused! she will say she dose not like me but her eyes that way where you look at them and they say she is lying, im sooo confused and depressed :(

any tips on how i could maybe tell her how i feel that dose not let me get too embarrassed lol because i aint got the balls to say to her myself :(

she looks at me and talks to me and be's sooo nice and i start to think she really likes me back then suddenly she can start saying im skank Ect. and im confused.... one minute were best friends almost going out then she suddenly hates me! i dunno if someone wants her and wants me out of the pic so making lies about me i dont know (because this is happend before with her, someone is obbssessed with her and starting making lies about me but she found out it was lies and she found out what is real about the guy talking about me and she thinks hes a freak now lmaos :) )

so yeh any help appreciated please! *dont just say try get her into bed lol* im seriously in love with her not just a crush....

because shes not the best of looking girls in my school there is some others much nicer looking but i still love her, i love her personalty, her looks, just... her you know, ive always thought 'i love someone' but i knew it was just a crush but with this girl i Know 'i love her'

:)

BobX
21-04-2008, 05:44 PM
try get her into bed lol










or just talk to her more and then go to town with her etc.

Toughened
21-04-2008, 07:42 PM
Why would you want to get with someone if one minute they're nice and then the next minute they're nasty.

She's already said she would rather be friends so just accept it.
I know its hard but it may be better in the long run as it seems like it's getting you down.

I would leave it if I was you, she doesn't seem worth it.

Abbie.
21-04-2008, 07:44 PM
well im mean and nice to boys i like


LOL idk

talk to her abit more

lewis-moody
21-04-2008, 07:50 PM
:Pjust forger it

same thing happened to me

ull get over it

BaybeeElin
22-04-2008, 12:15 PM
In my opinion, this girl DOES like you.
When she's calling you a skank.. is that because she's around her friends.. is she trying to impress them?
Perhaps try talking to her alone, ask her why she is being 2 faced (obviously don't word it like that;)).
If this continues I suggest you forget about her and move on.
Goodluck.:)

blackops121
22-04-2008, 03:08 PM
yeh, well today she was nice to me all day and liked to talk to me, she did not say anything bad to me, even with her friends, i think it was because her mate asked her out with me and that lmao, but yeh she talks to me and acts like she really likes me when were alone but if her friends are about and there having a laugh then she gets nasty towards me... so i think shes tryna impress them and today she had that look in her eye again.... lol...... and yeh i think i she might go out with me because today when we came out of science for lunch she asked me if i wanted to walk with her (she prob wanted to talk to me alone about things or sumtin lol) but i said no because my mate wated for me to get my card signed then we could go to lunch and i didnt want to annoy my mate so i went with him, but if he didnt wait i would DEFO went with her lol :p

so yeh i do think she likes me actually back, so anyone got any tips on how to impress her, (i know i gotta behave i am behaving now ive been getting 1's and 2's on my card but today i got a 3 :( but not so bad lol i used to get 6's and that lol got me detentions lots lol and close to exclution so im getting better :) )

so any tips on how she might like me (except for behaving?) because i think thats worked now alot hehe :)

Toughened
22-04-2008, 05:48 PM
Just be yourself.
You shouldn't try to impress someone just to make them like you, they should like you for who you are.

BaybeeElin
23-04-2008, 01:12 PM
Just be yourself.
You shouldn't try to impress someone just to make them like you, they should like you for who you are.
She's right ^

She obviously likes you, so get to know her better and talk to her on msn, there it will be private and it will be less embarassing!

If you are positive she likes you ask if she wants to meet you somewhere, just you and her.

If it goes well ask her out!

Born_To_Live
27-04-2008, 09:17 PM
try get her into bed lol










or just talk to her more and then go to town with her etc.

Now here's a guy who know's what to do.

Lyrical.Troop
27-04-2008, 09:21 PM
she likes u

kiss her
touch her leg

seduce her <3

lewis-moody
14-05-2008, 06:16 PM
She likes you, I know!

Get close to her,
GET ON WITH YOUR EDUCATION!!! Education is much more important, TRUST ME

You'll be fine.

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