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[BobX]

Ok well right lemme begin ok shh.

right

well me and this girl have been close friends for like 5 years now and stuff and I considered us to be more then friends and i thought that it was the right time to ask her out and stuff and we was proper into eachother and all her friends said she like loved me but then during Easter holidays she goes to Austria skiing with the school and then gets off (snogs) the 19 year old skiing instructor.....?

ok so then i hear about it a couple days after she gets back and everything gets round. then i just didn't know what to do so i ignored her for the last 2 days of that week, i could see she was looking at me and stuff and i would look the other way and not talk to her.

(heres where it gets mushy ;))

then she texted me (this is like a week ago btw)

"hey are you alright? because you didnt seem to happy earlier... Xx"

So i reply:

"nothing just stuff... i've messed up" (thats when i realised i shouldn't have ignored her.

"oh. .. how have you messed up? X"

"i think i messed up what i thought we had before you went to Austria..x"

"what? you havnt messed anything up! X"

"well i dont know whats happening to us..x"

"In what way? x"

"well i thought we had something more than friendship.. what do you think? x"

"i dont know... i didnt really know you liked me like that . . . you havnt messed anything up though :-) xx"

"ok well now you know! anyway talk to you tomoro x love ya x ;)"



So like at school the next day she was funny with me and kinda avoiding me but then she comes up to me and just starts hugging me and stuff, but is so confusing! her best friend said she don't like me and on msn and stuff i talk to her then she takes like 20 minutes to reply cause i know shes talking to the skiing instructor (who this week said he was going out with someone else) but on his bebo shes always like "hey are you still coming over for a month in summer?? lyxxxx"


and stuff so yeah idk what i should doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

+hi sorry for long text much.

[Brendan!?]

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[Niko Bellic]

Thanks for letting us know. It doesn't even look like you need advice and have posted it for the sake of it or to show off? Well done!

[Fart]

Girls are like that,
my advice is dont hang around and wait for her!
Get in there init. Girls have alot of mix-emotions so you should eccept that they will be like that!
hope this helped!

[Matty]

www.govteen.com for mature advice, however here you get "tweens" posting nonsense.

[BobX]

Thanks for letting us know. It doesn't even look like you need advice and have posted it for the sake of it or to show off? Well done!

To show off what? i'm asking advice on what i should do, like ask her out, forget about her etc..


www.govteen.com (http://www.govteen.com) for mature advice, however here you get "tweens" posting nonsense.

Wise, wise words from a wise man.

[Niko Bellic]

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[BobX]

what you on about why you on this thread if u dont even wanna comment nicely!

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[Callum.]

Forget her, you have me now.

Ask her what she wants.

Rambo you sound so geeky bringing RuneScape into a mature convo...

[Niko Bellic]

All you're doing is telling us about you, the skiing instructor and her. Where did you actually say you need advice on asking her out?

[BobX]

and stuff so yeah idk what i should doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


boyd.


Callum sorry but i love her more.

[Toughened]

You basically just need to talk to her.

Ask her what's going on between her and the instructor.
Ask her what's going on between you two because it sounds to me like you haven't a clue if she likes you or not, and if you do or do not have a chance with her.

Once you have spoken to her then it's up to you two to decide as friends what you both want to do, and if it's worth the risk of losing a perfectly good friendship. It might not go as well as you hope and not only losing a girlfriend but losing a close friend as well.

It might not be worth it in the end and you both may as well just stay friends, which may be for the best.

[leah]

ask her why she's avoiding you,
she seems to have a silly crush on the skii man :(
so i'd like get a new girl :D

[BobX]

She's not really avoiding me, things are just awkward..

[GhostFace-]

just ask her out.

if she likes you she'll say yes.