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1. i used to spend so much time online. now im in college and i feel like a misfit. everytime im around my classmates, or anyone of my friends, i feel like as if they were intimidated by me because of the way i talk. i am very open minded and i always say whats on my mind. even if their obscene or something private/personal and such. (for example; we were playing truth or dare and i had to asked this guy a question. i asked what colour underwear he's wearing and everyone else was like staring at me.)

the thing is, people here arent like people i know online. they tend to be more reserved. i dont think i should change the way i am but i want them to like me. not give me "the look" when i blabbed something out.

2. i love my friends i really do but they always wanna hangout somewhere after college. i always follow along. i like being around them. i didnt want to miss out anything because i know that if i did, i would be forgotten. i know so because this has happened way too many times before. i am getting tired of always hanging out with them everyday. but at the same time i dont wanna be left out and then end up as that loner nobody knows. what should i do?

[Toughened]

It sounds to me that you're a little insecure.

I mean just say you didn't go out with them one day, what's the worst that could happen? You may miss out on a few bits and pieces but you wont be forgotten about. I wouldn't call them friends if they could just forget about you like that. It might be a good idea to miss a day once and see how it goes. I bet you won't miss that much and then the next time you go out with your friends you will appreciate it more because you never went out with them the day before.

About you speaking your mind. I think it's good that you do that. I respect people more if they speak their mind as I think it's a lot better than holding it all in or not telling the truth. You shouldn't change they way you are as people should never change for anyone, even friends. I mean they're not friends if they don't like you for who you are, are they?

I think you should carry on being yourself but if going out irritates you so much you should miss a day or two and then go out again.
Hope you feel better soon anyway.

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o thanks for reading.
ill try doing that today. ill tell ya how it goes [:

[leah]

Im like that atm Like sometimes I feel like im forgotten,
you should just not go out with them once see how it goes
maybe, make a close bond with one of them
if you become best friends with someone, they won't forget you.
also, don't change who you are to fit in, be yourself, you should be liked for who you are and not what they want you to be.

[cocaine]

1. i used to spend so much time online. now im in college and i feel like a misfit. everytime im around my classmates, or anyone of my friends, i feel like as if they were intimidated by me because of the way i talk. i am very open minded and i always say whats on my mind. even if their obscene or something private/personal and such. (for example; we were playing truth or dare and i had to asked this guy a question. i asked what colour underwear he's wearing and everyone else was like staring at me.)

the thing is, people here arent like people i know online. they tend to be more reserved. i dont think i should change the way i am but i want them to like me. not give me "the look" when i blabbed something out.

2. i love my friends i really do but they always wanna hangout somewhere after college. i always follow along. i like being around them. i didnt want to miss out anything because i know that if i did, i would be forgotten. i know so because this has happened way too many times before. i am getting tired of always hanging out with them everyday. but at the same time i dont wanna be left out and then end up as that loner nobody knows. what should i do?

1. just limit what you say until they get comfortable around you. that happened to me, i went with an old friend from primary school into secondary school, and met a bunch of other people he already knew. you just have to give it time, play it safe, dont upset any of them, and then they will accept you and be comfortable around you. thats what i did, now im at the point where i can say obscenely rude things as a joke to them and they'll just joke along with it haha.

2. try and hang out with a few friends who seem decent, instead of hanging out in a large group. in a large group most people dont seem to get noticed, whereas in a group of 3 or 4 you'll get to know them and you'll hopefully become very good friends.

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i went straight home the other day. i asked my friend today and she says that they were just talking bout the same old stuff at macd's so i guess i missed nothing.

matt, i did hang out with the smaller group and yh ure right we got along well. but that small group are a bunch of innocents, and i have to really really watch my mouth when im around them coz i was afraid that they might be offended at something i said. so when im with them, i sthu. and i still feel left out.

about speaking my mind, i still get "the stare" and its bugging me tbh.

thanks leah, thanks matt [:

[Panasonic]

Tbh, I'm a smartass online and an idiot when with friends.

I tend to be intellegent in ICT though as I was named top student and won a digital Cam.

First thing I done was have MSN sex with my ex-gf :)

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yeah i know what u mean.

and lol, thanks for sharing??? :)

[Panasonic]

yeah i know what u mean.

and lol, thanks for sharing??? :)
No problem, always wanted to get it out of my system like a big juicy poo when I get home from school.

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lolololololol. okayy