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Muppet
24-04-2008, 08:00 PM
Hey all

I really like this girl, I mean REALLY like her. I don't know her that well, but we kind of talk at school when we see each other. (Shes not in any of my classes)
Well, I thought i'd take a stab in the dark and ask her out. She said no, because we didn't know each other well enough. She also said when we get to know each other, we can give it a try.
So, a few weeks later. I've been talking to her at school loads, on MSN loads, all sorts. I'm in my maths class, and my best mate next to me says: "Danny, I'm going out with [girl]."
I was literally heartbroken. I was trying to hold it back when he told me.
What can I do?? Tell my mate I like her? Just keep it quiet?

Cheers.

Title edited by Thaddeus (Forum Moderator) in compliance with rule B14. :)

Shoed
24-04-2008, 08:11 PM
well, dont show emotions to your best mate because he'll think hes hurting you. Males cant hide there true emotions to girl but however you can hope that it don't last forever considering how mature and girl-wise he is - In this case hopefully NOT for your benefits.
Well, I hope it goes all well and finally hope she relaises your the boy for her (:

Inseriousity.
25-04-2008, 05:26 PM
To be honest, she sounds like she won't give you a chance anyway. Says she'll give it a try... doesn't sound like a good way to start a relationship if you ask me?? So my advice is actually to move on and find someone different.

If you really do love her and don't care if she doesn't love you back, keep on talking to her (no flirting in case she tells) then make your move when they split up. If you ask me, it'll all be for nothing though :(

leah
26-04-2008, 10:32 AM
-giggles

right you have to be sly ;)
maybe make a clone msn add her and be like you the one thats with my boyfriend or sumin,
she'll break up with him and need a shoulder to cry on.. yours ;)
I know your mate will be gutted but if you really do love her then you'd do anything. :)

Omg @ how evil i am :8

Muppet
27-04-2008, 07:31 PM
To be honest, she sounds like she won't give you a chance anyway. Says she'll give it a try... doesn't sound like a good way to start a relationship if you ask me?? So my advice is actually to move on and find someone different.

If you really do love her and don't care if she doesn't love you back, keep on talking to her (no flirting in case she tells) then make your move when they split up. If you ask me, it'll all be for nothing though :(

Hmm.. Cheers for the advice, i'll just wait until they split up, and ask her bout it then. :)

Javascrypt
27-04-2008, 07:33 PM
Happened to me once before, Say to him. Hey, I asked her. But i guess you didnt know. So, When they break up. She has a shoulder to cry upon XD See what im saying?

Muppet
27-04-2008, 07:46 PM
Yeah.
Well, she said she trusts me and whenever she has a problem she will come to me before anyone else.
Get in there.

Javascrypt
27-04-2008, 08:00 PM
Yeah.
Well, she said she trusts me and whenever she has a problem she will come to me before anyone else.
Get in there.

An extra step... keep talking to her.

lewis-moody
14-05-2008, 06:21 PM
Just keep quite until they break up
wait a few weeks, go in straight away and ull seem desprate..

So yeah take it from there!

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