is there anything i can do?

[chilloutrich]

2 of my close mates, they r going out, im best mates with the girl but ive now been put aside and its boyfriend boyfriend boyfriend 24/7 and i get considered at the last minute, or jus asked summat to benefit her, say oh can u member where my ipod is? doesnt even check how i am or watever. duno what to do its annoyingg. who can help ha?

[Javascrypt]

I cant understand what you are saying. Talk without the slang please. :)
And Oh. Just ask her what is going on.

[chilloutrich]

basically ive been pushed aside and i dnt like it. what slang???

[Javascrypt]

Just Asker What is up, Why she is acting like that. They tell her how you feel she will understand.

[chilloutrich]

hm i dont wanna have that conversation tho coz she mite just go, well hes my boyfriend, deal with it. then mite go all off with me. thats why im stuck.

[Mr.Sam]

if your scared of asking there is nothing you can do...

hm i dont wanna have that conversation tho coz she mite just go, well hes my boyfriend, deal with it. then mite go all off with me. thats why im stuck.

[leah]

Basically say to her,
can i have a word please,
then say to her, I'm really happy for you, that you'vew found a guy you like and everything, but ever since you guys have been going out, i feel left out and pushed to the side, I just want to spend some time with you, without you guys being together and me being alone.
:D

[Javascrypt]

Basically say to her,
can i have a word please,
then say to her, I'm really happy for you, that you'vew found a guy you like and everything, but ever since you guys have been going out, i feel left out and pushed to the side, I just want to spend some time with you, without you guys being together and me being alone.
:D
Nicely said.... Couldn't of done it better.

[The Professor]

Basically say to her,
can i have a word please,
then say to her, I'm really happy for you, that you'vew found a guy you like and everything, but ever since you guys have been going out, i feel left out and pushed to the side, I just want to spend some time with you, without you guys being together and me being alone.
:D

Spot on :)

But on the other hand, you'll also have to accept that they WILL spend more time together now, that's kinda how it works!

[leah]

Haha ty ;)
-feels like Dear deadrie from the sun- ;)

[FlyingJesus]

Basically say to her,
can i have a word please,
then say to her, I'm really happy for you, that you'vew found a guy you like and everything, but ever since you guys have been going out, i feel left out and pushed to the side, I just want to spend some time with you, without you guys being together and me being alone.
:D


Spot on :)

But on the other hand, you'll also have to accept that they WILL spend more time together now, that's kinda how it works!

I'd usually just say to get her drunk and sleep with her but these two are right: you've got to let her know it's getting to you, but don't smother them. They are boyfriend and girlfriend so obviously they're going to want to spend time with each other, just have to get used to it.

[MissAlice]

2 of my close mates, they r going out, im best mates with the girl but ive now been put aside and its boyfriend boyfriend boyfriend 24/7 and i get considered at the last minute, or jus asked summat to benefit her, say oh can u member where my ipod is? doesnt even check how i am or watever. duno what to do its annoyingg. who can help ha?

Hi Rich :)

I don't see many of your posts pop up ;)

I think what you are experiencing is what I call one of life's 'lessons for life'. When people get into relationships they sometimes put the rest of their lives on hold, and forget how much fun they were already having, because they go and devote their time to one human being who kinda demands some attention, and no one knows how long that will go on for, could be days, weeks or even months. It's swings and roundabouts, at some time in the future you will meet someone who you want to spend time with and are likely to do the exact same thing as your friend is right now. Like others have said tell her how you are feeling, but also remember you may be in the same position one day in the future ;)

Keep smiling :)