Holding hands and stuff

[Muppet]

Riighhttt..
Whenever i'm with a girl, I get nervous.
I need advice on how to like start holding hands with a girl and stuff. I don't wanna feel awkward. If you know what I mean...
+rep to good advice
Cheers

[Leetzgirl]

bump your hand with hers and do it from there..

[Slowpoke]

You can't just become confident. Most people are more confident when they're drunk but if that's not to your taste then I dunno what to recommend. :(

[Javascrypt]

Grab her hand in fear. Lmao.

[:Edzy]

Grab her hand in fear. Lmao.
LOL


i hate holding hands coz my hands are clammy 24/7

i'd just take her hand.

[L?KE]

For me it depends who I'm with..

Some girls you can just go straight in, others you gota build up to it. I mean obviously don't walk up to a random girl and just grab her hand, although that would be funny :P

Confidence will come with more girls mate. And yeah as said above people ar eoften more confident when their drunk ;)

[Born_To_Live]

Bump into her hand grab it and look into her eye's and move in for a kiss.

If she takes the kiss - Your in ;)

If She dosn't then welll HAHAH! lol

[Javascrypt]

Ask her out to watch a movie at the cinema or at home. Find a scary movie and when a scary part shos grab her hand. And there you go. Really easy.

[jesus]

Hold it, then when she looks at you just smile and carry on what you are doing. :)

[Muppet]

Cheers for all your help guys ;)

[cocaine]

just hold it lmao. shes not going to go "EWWWWW THATS GROSS" ;)

[Lyrical.Troop]

Grab her hand in a teasing way,
Then talk to her to distract her,
Then just carry walking..
About 2 mins later..
YOU LET GO of her hand, pretend to get something out of your pocket etc.
Then put your hand out infront of her,
If she takes it, youve pulled, if she doesnt, you know she doesnt like it.

[L?KE]

Grab her hand in a teasing way,
Then talk to her to distract her,
Then just carry walking..
About 2 mins later..
YOU LET GO of her hand, pretend to get something out of your pocket etc.
Then put your hand out infront of her,
If she takes it, youve pulled, if she doesnt, you know she doesnt like it.


Haha that's a quality method ;D

[Decapitated!]

It comes naturally, dont rush it...

[Muppet]

;)
Grab her hand in a teasing way,
Then talk to her to distract her,
Then just carry walking..
About 2 mins later..
YOU LET GO of her hand, pretend to get something out of your pocket etc.
Then put your hand out infront of her,
If she takes it, youve pulled, if she doesnt, you know she doesnt like it.


Haha that's a quality method ;D

Quality, cheers.

+rep

[Supersam]

For me it depends who I'm with..

Some girls you can just go straight in, others you gota build up to it. I mean obviously don't walk up to a random girl and just grab her hand, although that would be funny :P

Confidence will come with more girls mate. And yeah as said above people ar eoften more confident when their drunk ;)

Done that.
Was v.funny.
She didnt mind though so lost comedy value :(

Anyway...
If your 'dating' then just ask her which way she prefers to hold hands, the inbetweeny finger way or the palm grippy way.

Then when she tells you.... do it that way.

Then carry on as normal.

Peasy :)

[The Professor]

It comes naturally, dont rush it...

Amen to that brother.

[prada]

just walk abit closer to her then go for it!
she will probs turn around and look at you.. but just smile haa!

[L?KE]

Just grab her hand, and if she says anything, be like 'it's cold' ^^

[whitebengal]

Cheers for all your help guys ;)

Girls generally like it when the guy makes the first move...Girls are shy too...So just hold hold her hand and she will melt...Don't worry you can't get a girl pregnant by holding her hand :D

[leah]

Lol errm Just grab it

[Xarea]

Grab her hand in a teasing way,
Then talk to her to distract her,
Then just carry walking..
About 2 mins later..
YOU LET GO of her hand, pretend to get something out of your pocket etc.
Then put your hand out infront of her,
If she takes it, youve pulled, if she doesnt, you know she doesnt like it.

Classic way, I use this, pahaa!

[Jaiisun]

Flirt with her.

bump into her
bump her hand with yours when you walk next to her
tell her jokes
make her laugh
make her feel specialThen you'll know how she feels about you, and you might be able to take it further, like holding hands, taking her out, or even making a move for your first kiss.

If you think she's special to you, show her. You'll surprise yourself what you can do when you think a girl is worth risking your reputation for. You won't get anywhere without trying. So - just go for it!

Good luck!

;].
Jay x

[Colin-Roberts]

Don't worry you can't get a girl pregnant by holding her hand :D
technically you could..
anyways
just go for it.

[mangle]

Bumping hands worked for me!
And I have clammy hands, it's crap tbh but people still hold m hands :)

[superfly-dan]

don't think about it, just grab it. Walking hand in hand with your girlfriend down the street is an amazing feeling :)

[GommeInc]

Are you friends with this girl? If she's the sort of person that would hold hands with a friend then go for it, I hold hands with my friends, even the male ones to put them off :P If you're going out with her, the same applies :)

[JessicaLOL]

shes obviously going to hold your hand out of her own choice eventually when shes confident enough with you.
therefore you wont have to do nothing but actually not reject it?:S

[Arch]

Mount her Trust me you'll get much farther if you do
ON TOPIC: yeah just bump her hand or just grab it she wouldnt say no
and also grabbing her hand in fear isent bad if ur in a movie or somthin...

EDIT: although usually the girl grabs the guys hand in scary movies or somthin..

[lewis-moody]

Just joke with her

walk around together and then get closer and closer to her, then bump hands and take it from there.

If she trys to slip away let her and say your sorry

If not just be casual

Just don't think ur suddenly gonna be fine with it all

[iAdam]

Lol is there some secret these days that my year don't know about, we hold each others hands even if we arn't going out. :/


As for advice just be sitting with her as you do and put you hand on hers and gradually hold it. She aint going to be afraid of you man, be brave.

[mangle]

Use chloroform!
When she wakes up hold her hand in a loving caring way!
Tell her she just "fell" ;)

[Alan_Carr]

squeeze it bare hard so u hear a click.
they laugh but find it kl

[Aflux]

Lol is there some secret these days that my year don't know about, we hold each others hands even if we arn't going out. :/
We don't all go to gay schools.

[buttons]

Lol is there some secret these days that my year don't know about, we hold each others hands even if we arn't going out. :/


As for advice just be sitting with her as you do and put you hand on hers and gradually hold it. She aint going to be afraid of you man, be brave.
yeh ino, i don't mind holdin guy friends hands or anything if they are just mates, just feel weird if i rly like them.
I prefer it if a guy like hugs me from behind and takes my hands then I just follow his lead.

[Zak]

Riighhttt..
Whenever i'm with a girl, I get nervous.
I need advice on how to like start holding hands with a girl and stuff. I don't wanna feel awkward. If you know what I mean...
+rep to good advice
Cheers

You need to think for a second.

If the girl really likes you, it won't matter if your a bit nervous. She should be patient, just tell her you are a bit nervous, I'm sure she'll understand.

Just take it slow when your with her in town or out just go and hold her hand. If you want to take it further, try going to the cinema or watch a movie alone with her. Then you can, more than likely get a kiss.. snog etc etc

[iAdam]

yeh ino, i don't mind holdin guy friends hands or anything if they are just mates, just feel weird if i rly like them.
I prefer it if a guy like hugs me from behind and takes my hands then I just follow his lead.


Wooo you mis understood my comment, I meant girls and guys not same sex.

[buttons]

Wooo you mis understood my comment, I meant girls and guys not same sex.
no, i know what you mean!! lol, don't u hold hands with girls even if u aint dating them?

[iAdam]

I said we did.

[BaybeeElin]

Its normally easier sitting down.
Take the seat next to her and put your arm around her.
Ticklr her hand with your fingertips and if she starts doing similar its a good sign, then just hold it loosly until you have the confidence to hold it properly ;)

I hold hands etc with lads I'm not going out with, once you get over the 1st step its easy.

[Vegas]

Like its been said before,
it comes naturally, you shouldn't force yourself into it..
because both you and the girl, will know it doesn't feel right.

[Euathrymu]

Reading these posts is funny, its like giving directions and instructions on how to hold someones hand, stop being a wussy and hold it already, she pulls away laugh it of.

[e5]

I just hold my friends hand, simple lol hm, just go semi-sarcasticly ... "hold my hand"

[BaybeeElin]

You could go into a high-5 then lock hands while there up in the air,
It won't be took seriously.

[Inseriousity.]

If she's your girlfriend, you know she's not going to pull away so just grab hold of it and as soon as you've done it the first time, you'll realise how stupid it was to feel nervous. Plus, your girlfriend will appreciate you for it because she may be feeling a little rejected at the lack of touch?

If it's just someone you fancy, I suggest doing the above because it's just hilarious! *HI5!! oops, I've got glue on my hand *holds tight*