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superfly-dan
10-05-2008, 07:16 PM
The other day, my best mate Connor told me that he liked this girl in the year below us called Noor. None of us knew her personally and but I seen her around alot.
Just today however, I was with my pal Kerri in the town and she just happens to be quite good friends with Noor. We seen Noor outside McDonalds and the two of them just chatted. After a while the three of us wandered about, and I got chatting to Noor. We got along really well, had plenty in common and she turned out really nice, and at this point, I began to take a liking to her myself. Connor appeared later and I was expecting Noor to fall for him instantly (he seems to be the "hot" one out of the two of us) but she just kept talking to me. Later when Noor went home, I told Kerri that I liked Noor and she surprised me by saying that Noor liked me too.

So basically I really want to just go out with Noor, but I really think that it would ruin mine and Connor's friendship, seeing as he likes her too, and that wouldn't be good because we're such good mates. What do I do?

AndyDude312
10-05-2008, 08:49 PM
That IS a situation. But I'd go for Noor. If your mate can't accept that she likes you not him then its his fault.

LouisCollins
10-05-2008, 08:52 PM
Well my saying is Bro's before ****. Lol, but i'd advise you to speak to your mate about this issuie just tell him you have feelings for her two if he dosen't understand he cant be a TRUE friend. If he agrees share her! lol na serouisly though best thing to do is just talk it through

Recursion
10-05-2008, 09:56 PM
What kind of name is Noor?

If hes a true friend then it he won't mind.

Lubricant
10-05-2008, 10:25 PM
Friends are more important.

leah
11-05-2008, 01:19 AM
LOL Im not meant to be down on the comp atm
and that post just made me laugh so loud
pfft get me into trouble ;)
But yeh I agree Noor? LOL
also, talk to your friend, if hes the hot one,he'll surely find someone else :)



What kind of name is Noor?

If hes a true friend then it he won't mind.

Javascrypt
11-05-2008, 01:22 AM
The other day, my best mate Connor told me that he liked this girl in the year below us called Noor. None of us knew her personally and but I seen her around alot.
Just today however, I was with my pal Kerri in the town and she just happens to be quite good friends with Noor. We seen Noor outside McDonalds and the two of them just chatted. After a while the three of us wandered about, and I got chatting to Noor. We got along really well, had plenty in common and she turned out really nice, and at this point, I began to take a liking to her myself. Connor appeared later and I was expecting Noor to fall for him instantly (he seems to be the "hot" one out of the two of us) but she just kept talking to me. Later when Noor went home, I told Kerri that I liked Noor and she surprised me by saying that Noor liked me too.

So basically I really want to just go out with Noor, but I really think that it would ruin mine and Connor's friendship, seeing as he likes her too, and that wouldn't be good because we're such good mates. What do I do?

Plenty More Fish in the sea. XD

superfly-dan
11-05-2008, 09:29 AM
Thanks for all your help guys.

Yeah Noor is a strange name, I think her parents are Turkish or Austrian or something like that.

Born_To_Live
11-05-2008, 09:36 AM
Is She Hot?

buttons
11-05-2008, 09:48 AM
well at the end of the day, if your mates gonna say "if you were my friend you wouldn't go out with her" then you could say the same, i hate it when this happens, your friend goes in a mood when your dating someone they like, but then if you finish with this girl so he can go out with her, then he's doing the same to you. She likes you, not him, so take your chance & good luck :)

Leetzgirl
11-05-2008, 09:51 AM
My best mate did the same to me.

He robbed my girlfriend after she dumped me, but i have proof that she was flirting with him while i was going out with her,

Now they going out and i hate my best mate,


plus, it an online relationship so i'm all fine init :D




p.s i knew my mate from london and my ex girlfriend from herts ;)

Jordy
11-05-2008, 10:19 AM
What kind of name is Noor?lol I have noor idea what kind of name that is.

Con
11-05-2008, 10:40 AM
Well, Personally.. I would tell connor [lol, He stole my name:rolleyes:]
And just tell him that you really like her as well..
And ask him if it is ok if you two got together.



Just a bit of warning, I tried this before but it was the other way round, I had two people liking me, When the girl told the other girl she got really angry and upset and then there was a massive row, But we stil lgot together.


This, may not happen with you, And probably won't as it was a girl... But yeh :P Goodluck anyway

Robby
11-05-2008, 11:13 AM
A true friend wouldnt mind, they should be happy for you.

And if hes "hot" he shouldnt have a problem finding another girl

Bun
11-05-2008, 09:14 PM
just go for the girl. if your mate can't take the fact you can get a girl that he can't then he's not really your friend then, is he?

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