Not going well at all..

[LittleMissMe]

Well things with me and my boyfriend are not going well at all, we are in different years and hardly ever see eachother or even talk to eachother anymore. I am willing to make the effort but its really hard to find time and I dont know what he thinks about it because whenever I ask the conversation goes nowhere and I feel like he doesnt care anymore. Loads of people so far have told me to end it because he's not treating me right and things like that.
Advice?

[Leetzgirl]

End it.

you will suffer.

it was like this with my ex and i couldnt get over her in 5 months, althrough we never saw eachever, then in the end she ******* me off and went out with my best mate :\

Just end it before it gets worst

[cocaine]

if you're in different years in school, then it'd be hard anyway. If he's not willing to try then you shouldn't have to waste your energy on him. My personal opinion would be to move on to someone who deserves your energy

[JessicaLOL]

jus finish it lol.

[Stacey.]

End it.

you will suffer.



Exactly. Hopefully he'll see what he's lost.

[L?KE]

Yeah end it.

If he's not putting the effort in, he doesn't deserve any back.

If he is 'the one' for you, he'll realise this and make more of an effort.

[leah]

I hate boys when they're like that
Basically, he doesn't desearve you,
If he can't be bothered to talk to you about your problems, let alone fix them then he's really not worth your time,
Find someone else. :)
He'll just end up hurting you If you stay with him. :(

[BaybeeElin]

Well tbh, it sounds like that relationship isn't going to work if you can't both pull equal weight.
Do you really think you will last?

[splatttt]

basically what everyone else said... maybe you should end it. Relationships shouldnt be a one way road..... :)

[whitebengal]

Well things with me and my boyfriend are not going well at all, we are in different years and hardly ever see eachother or even talk to eachother anymore. I am willing to make the effort but its really hard to find time and I dont know what he thinks about it because whenever I ask the conversation goes nowhere and I feel like he doesnt care anymore. Loads of people so far have told me to end it because he's not treating me right and things like that.
Advice?

You're young so be free and don't waste your time with a guy who you have doubts about....
All you can do is do what ever feels right...If you feel it's not working then end it
Follow your head and not your heart! :D

[Tristan]

Sounds to me like you're the younger of the two...
Different year relationships work out even worse than ones in the same year.
Nothing ever lasts at high school.

[Inseriousity.]

Finish it. If he's not going to bother, why should you?

Because you love him? To be awfully blunt, it doesn't sound like he loves you back.. :(

[Catzsy]

I think you should treat him the way he treats you and get your confidence back.
Doesn't sound like he is good enough for you and you have a long life to live.

[Zak]

Sounds to me like you're the younger of the two...
Different year relationships work out even worse than ones in the same year.
Nothing ever lasts at high school.

I totally disagree with that statement.

[H]

Well things with me and my boyfriend are not going well at all, we are in different years and hardly ever see eachother or even talk to eachother anymore. I am willing to make the effort but its really hard to find time and I dont know what he thinks about it because whenever I ask the conversation goes nowhere and I feel like he doesnt care anymore. Loads of people so far have told me to end it because he's not treating me right and things like that.
Advice?

How long have you been together? if it's less than 6 months just forget it. Though mostly every couple I know as soon as it hits 6 months it's always make or break. It's like.. (USUALLY THE MALES) tend to just give up and go out with their friends and not give a damn about their girlfriends anymore. You can either continue to try and make it work.. (which brings a lot of heartache) or just forget it and move on. Keeping in mind though you can't force someone to care when they don't.

and for the person who said different years don't work I DISAGREE. I think when there is an age gap it works MUCH better.

[Catzsy]

Well things with me and my boyfriend are not going well at all, we are in different years and hardly ever see eachother or even talk to eachother anymore. I am willing to make the effort but its really hard to find time and I dont know what he thinks about it because whenever I ask the conversation goes nowhere and I feel like he doesnt care anymore. Loads of people so far have told me to end it because he's not treating me right and things like that.
Advice?

It does seem to be on the road to nowhere but I would treat him the way he is treating you - maybe he thinks you are too available and thinks it doesn't matter how he treats you he can get away with it. In the meanwhile keep your options open and see if there is anyone around that could possibly take your mind of him.:D

[:Edzy]

if you're in different years in school, then it'd be hard anyway. If he's not willing to try then you shouldn't have to waste your energy on him. My personal opinion would be to move on to someone who deserves your energy

She didn't say that though.

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if you think you can make it work, try. If not, set a period of time and if its not all good in that time then finish it.

[Crazychic]

End it.
It doesnt sound like you are happy.
So why put yourself throught it.

Love Beth xxx