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Stacey.
12-05-2008, 08:36 PM
Nearly a year ago I told my best friend I really liked this guy. A few weeks later she told me she liked him, and also his best friend. A couple of weeks after that (on my birthday) her and the guy I liked started going out but didn't tell anyone until a month later, which really hurt my feelings because I was stupid enough to believe that he really liked me.
Anway, I got over him but I don't really know if I forgave my friend. And now I've suddenly developed feelings for him again. I don't know if it's jealousy or what- therefore the title is so confused.
Any advice?
Would be much appreciated.
Your friend is obviously not a true friend.
You need to sit her down and tell her she has to choose between you or him.
If she says him, you're just gona have to deal with it, and accept that she wasn't a good choice friend-wise.
BlueEyedSarah
12-05-2008, 09:49 PM
Stacey no boy is worth losing a friendship over. I think it was wrong of her to have not told you about what was happening with her and this guy you also like but its not worth thinking about. You will find another guy when the right one comes along.
Stacey.
14-05-2008, 07:00 PM
Thanks, I know I was being really stupid- but it just got to me thats all.
Thanks again. :)
lewis-moody
14-05-2008, 07:04 PM
You should do what you think is right!
Nearly a year ago I told my best friend I really liked this guy. A few weeks later she told me she liked him, and also his best friend. A couple of weeks after that (on my birthday) her and the guy I liked started going out but didn't tell anyone until a month later, which really hurt my feelings because I was stupid enough to believe that he really liked me.
Anway, I got over him but I don't really know if I forgave my friend. And now I've suddenly developed feelings for him again. I don't know if it's jealousy or what- therefore the title is so confused.
Any advice?
Would be much appreciated.
knock her out lol
Samantha.
16-05-2008, 05:17 PM
Yeh Shes Not A Good Friend
This Has Happened To me So I Know How You Feel And Everything And It Awful So Tbh When It Happened To Me I Was Like Im Never Gunna Forgive Her For That
And Now We Are Really Good Mates So Yanoo
Youthz
16-05-2008, 05:20 PM
he likes u
BaybeeElin
30-05-2008, 10:37 AM
Ask her why she did it if she knew you liked him.
But at the end of the day, their feelings are mutual.
So you will have to get over him and be happy for them.
But make sure your friend doesn't do it again, tell her whats on your mind and if she accepts, understands and promises not to do it again (and sticks to it) I think she should be forgiven.
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