View Full Version : How do I get over my jealousy?
-Adam
16-05-2008, 07:59 PM
I have a girlfriend called Stacey. I think I have a real bad problem. Whenever she talks to other boys, I get jealous, Only if I think they fancy her though. When she hugs other boys I get jealous, And if she asks if im bothered, I like and say Im not. I really love her, As in, Loads and loads, And im afraid that my jealousy will ruin our relationship. I want to be able to see her hug other boys without getting jealous. At the end of the say, Every girl hugs other boys, Whether she has a boyfriend or not. I know that she knows im jealous sometimes, Because I pull a face. Anyway, Could anybody tell me what to do to help me stop getting jealous so easy, Because its really eating at me.
Thankyou
-Adam
Javascrypt
16-05-2008, 08:07 PM
I have a girlfriend called Stacey. I think I have a real bad problem. Whenever she talks to other boys, I get jealous, Only if I think they fancy her though. When she hugs other boys I get jealous, And if she asks if im bothered, I like and say Im not. I really love her, As in, Loads and loads, And im afraid that my jealousy will ruin our relationship. I want to be able to see her hug other boys without getting jealous. At the end of the say, Every girl hugs other boys, Whether she has a boyfriend or not. I know that she knows im jealous sometimes, Because I pull a face. Anyway, Could anybody tell me what to do to help me stop getting jealous so easy, Because its really eating at me.
Thankyou
-Adam
This is normal, She is you Girlfriend and you care about her. If somebody stole her off you, you would be verry upset. Be straight with it and tell her how you feel. She will understand and help you.
-Adam
16-05-2008, 08:16 PM
Ye thanks. Its just getting to me because i always feel depressed when it happens.
Javascrypt
16-05-2008, 08:17 PM
Ye thanks. Its just getting to me because i always feel depressed when it happens.
You may, its just you knowing you love her.
-Adam
16-05-2008, 08:21 PM
Yep, Anyway thanks a lot ;)
lewis-moody
17-05-2008, 07:09 PM
tell her how you feel, she will understand. hope this helps
camera
17-05-2008, 07:11 PM
i think she'll be glad to know ure jealous. shows how much u care [:
tell her that u get jealous, but not jealous hateful
also maybe spend more time with her and if she hugs anothe rguy go up to her and give her a hug ?
Aflux
20-05-2008, 10:30 AM
Smack the lad's she's talking to them slap her for talking to them.
BlueEyedSarah
20-05-2008, 10:42 AM
Adam, you need to open up to her and tell her the truth that it bothers you. If she loves you then she will respect your feelings not to hug other boys. Other people will think she is attractive but thats nature of life, you should feel happy your the lucky guy with this amazing pretty girlfriend ;)
Blinger1
20-05-2008, 10:45 AM
Smack the lad's she's talking to them slap her for talking to them.
turkey to her.. ;)
chilloutrich
29-05-2008, 08:43 PM
hm, thats just part of a relationship. you have to remember that your other half has friends, that they will want to hug and things, because of that friendship status. remember she is your girlfriend and the hugs with these other guys are jus friendship hugs and nothing more so dont worry. you have to let her have freedom to do that, otherwise she wil just feel tied down. :)
BaybeeElin
30-05-2008, 09:50 AM
Like most people have said, tell her, get it off your chest.
She will understand.:)
-Adam
06-06-2008, 08:41 PM
Iv told her.
She doesnt do it now, So am happy.
She leaves soon anyway. Really gonna miss her.
Cheers
-Adam
Digital
06-06-2008, 08:43 PM
Im worse then u... Just try to remember thats shes yours at the end off the day xD
Abbie.
06-06-2008, 08:44 PM
LOL im sorta the same as u
i used to be cin this guy michael, and he wont even hug ANYONE infront of me anymore because i was like 'michael, u fancy her!' and yeah, hes abit of a flirt, thats why we sorta drifted apart, but i was out with him on wednesday, and im proud i didnt flirt back lolol :].
jessLOL
06-06-2008, 09:19 PM
every1 gets jealous at some point
I GET JEALOUS ALL THE TIME TOO.
IF I WAS YOU, ID JUST TRY TO CHILLLLL!
Galaxay
06-06-2008, 10:34 PM
Get her told.
im gunna atempt to answer this even though im drunk.. ok, EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS TRUST.
what you gotta accept is, she is WITH YOU, she chose YOU. so what if she hugs guys, who did she choose.... outta everyone..... YOU.
every girl needs friends boys of girls and at the end of the day if she is gunna cheat on you you can NEVER stop that. so let her be, be her boyfriend, don't cause arguments over friendship it's NOT worth it.
REMEMBER, she loves Y O U.
Galaxay
06-06-2008, 11:14 PM
im gunna atempt to answer this even though im drunk.. ok, EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS TRUST.
what you gotta accept is, she is WITH YOU, she chose YOU. so what if she hugs guys, who did she choose.... outta everyone..... YOU.
every girl needs friends boys of girls and at the end of the day if she is gunna cheat on you you can NEVER stop that. so let her be, be her boyfriend, don't cause arguments over friendship it's NOT worth it.
REMEMBER, she loves Y O U.
no ur not
Loser
06-06-2008, 11:19 PM
Jealousy is a sin, you shall forever be condemned to hell.
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