Confused..

[Paulio]

I don't usually post here as I've never really needed to but recently, I've been confused about this lass from my class.

She has a boyfriend and is imo way out of my leauge (she's amazing). She keep giving me all the signs that she likes me, for example.. Always catching eye contact with me, always trys to sit near me and laughs at my jokes or stupidness no matter how crap they are. We flirt a lot on msn and that but when we see eachother irl and that she is nothing like she is on MSN. I don't know if it's because she dosen't have me wrapped round her little fingers like she has most of the lads in my class or wetha she generally likes me lol. I don't want to make a fool outa myself by making a move and failing as she has a boyfriend already and I get on quite well with her. So I'm stuck!! :P

Opinions?

[Catzsy]

I don't usually post here as I've never really needed to but recently, I've been confused about this lass from my class.

She has a boyfriend and is imo way out of my leauge (she's amazing). She keep giving me all the signs that she likes me, for example.. Always catching eye contact with me, always trys to sit near me and laughs at my jokes or stupidness no matter how crap they are. We flirt a lot on msn and that but when we see eachother irl and that she is nothing like she is on MSN. I don't know if it's because she dosen't have me wrapped round her little fingers like she has most of the lads in my class or wetha she generally likes me lol. I don't want to make a fool outa myself by making a move and failing as she has a boyfriend already and I get on quite well with her. So I'm stuck!! :P

Opinions?


Play it cool, Paul. See if she notices. To find out sometimes you have to 'take it away' and not be available. Failing that strategy ask her to go with you to the cinema perhaps and if she says no you are in no worse position than you are now and at least you would know :) Whats the worst that can happen?

[buttons]

forgot about her, you already pulled that 21 yr old was it? lolll!! nah i'm joking shes maybe just shy or like you say she's like with this with other guys so maybe she's just playing you tbh mate, i dunno, i agree with Rosie ask her out somewhere or maybe go somewhere where shes with friends aswell so she feels more comfortable.]

actually, just read she has a boyfriend, forget about her. :S

[H]

Hmmm difficult one. I know plenty of girls who flirt with guys when they're not single because they want the attention and nothing more. MAYBE ITS GENUINE THOUGH? Keep speaking to the girl, aslong as you make sure you jump in with your HEAD and not your HEART incase she doesn't like you.

but anyways go for it, better to say you done it then to reget it.

[jessLOL]

dont just run right in, best to play it cool for a while and see if she still acts the same if she changes its probably because she realised she cant get you round her little finger, her let play after you, when you think its right make a move.
:)

[Bef]

You get alot of girls who are just MASSIVE flirts... not me though... nooo ;)
And guys to for that matter. It could just be a power thing, if she has alot of guys wrapped round her finger and not you then she could be working on it, i mean uv obv been giving her the odd glance more then u usually would to notice the staring at u thing :P
The truth is, everybody loves to feel desired, they love to know that somebody wants them! Well im yet to meet one person who could HONESTLY say that they dont!
Or she may actually like you, i dunno :)

[BaybeeElin]

Well tbh, she already has a boyfriend, and trying to get involved will not end up good.
Who knows, she might genuinly like you, but shes tied down atm and theres nothing you can do about it.
Like someone said, play it cool.
Play HARD TO GET ;)

[leah]

make it clear that you like her,
keep flirting, maybe meet up with her,
don't tell her though, she may carry on flirting with you, realise she likes you and break up with her boyfriend anyway. :)

[FlyingJesus]

I thought you were into Jen lololol