Would you get an abortion?

[Paulio]

Just out of interest.. If you found out tomorrow that you were pregnant, would you get an abortion or keep it?

And same to lads, would you rathery they kept it or aborted it?

I used to always think I'd want them to abort it but as you get older it seems more harsh lol.

WOW I MADE A SERIOUS THREAD!!!

Poll votes arn't public btw.

[buttons]

only if I got raped or summit lol or if the baby was gonna be deformed, i dunno, it really depends, not because they are deformed but like if it's gonna make life difficult for them for me as a parent. yayaya.

[JessicaLOL]

probably if i didnt think the dad would be there for it honestly, or it would be deformed and very difficult for me to look after.

[,Jess,]

No, I'd feel too guilty about it.

[Immenseman]

If I got a girl pregnant, i'd want them to abort it, yes. Not because i'm heartless because your then tied down for the rest of your life in my opinion and I wouldn't want to be like that whilst I was a teen. Voted no, meant yes.

[Bun]

if my girlfriend was pregnant yes. i guess i'm just heartless but i don't really see what's wrong with them.

[Digital]

At this age...... YES straight away not fair on the kid to be brought up by very young parents

[jesus]

No never. I don't feel the need to justify that comment.

[Kardan]

Oh, I answered it as if I was a girl :rolleyes:

I put yes.

[Havoline]

Well for the people who are saying 'cos they're young they probably would well that's why you use protected sex until you're actually ready to have kids. ;)

Nah I wouldn't because that's basically murder and you'd never know, one day you'd wish you'd never "killed" the baby because you would of wanted to see it grow up but then you've missed it because you've killed a babies life who didn't even get a life.

[dirrty]

Well for the people who are saying 'cos they're young they probably would well that's why you use protected sex until you're actually ready to have kids. ;)

Nah I wouldn't because that's basically murder and you'd never know, one day you'd wish you'd never "killed" the baby because you would of wanted to see it grow up but then you've missed it because you've killed a babies life who didn't even get a life.
you can still use protection and the girl gets pregnant as the condom could split.

& at this stage in my life, i would want her to have an abortion as even though i like kids, im not ready to have one myself, and also my parents would literally kill me lol.

[e5]

No, cuz i'm a boy and won't be getting pregnant :D

If I got a girl pregnant though, I wouldn't want them to have an abortion because it's still a kid, it's not their fault so I wouldn't really want to kill an extra life that noone will ever have like that :(

[Paulio]

If you read the first post, I did actually say if you were a lad and you got a girl pregnant, would you try to talk them into getting an abortion. :P


No, cuz i'm a boy and won't be getting pregnant :D

If I got a girl pregnant though, I wouldn't want them to have an abortion because it's still a kid, it's not their fault so I wouldn't really want to kill an extra life that noone will ever have like that :(

[Jordy]

im not ready to have one myselfDon't think you ever will be? :P

I don't agree with abortion beyond 15 weeks as I think that is murder but before then I don't feel the embryo/baby has developed enough for it to be 'Killing' as it's hardly anything recognisable or formed. It's not an easy option either way but if I got someone pregnant in my teens I'd be gagging for an abortion LOL. Using protection is always wise of course but it's by no means perfect. You may well feel guilt depending on how you look at it, but you could ruin three people's lives if you don't abort.

[Havoline]

Yeah but theres a high chance it could split and even if it did split girls don't get pregnant straight away so theres a chance they could clean it or be on the pill while you're having protected sex just to be even more safe. :P

[Spiffing]

depends, if i was under 20 and lived on my own then yeahh even tho it'd feel like murder :[

[whitebengal]

I personally wouldn't get an abortion....And I don't really agree with them either. If someone is stupid enough to have unprotected sex then they should deal with the consequences! If someone is raped on the other hand then I wouldn't blame them for wanting an abortion because it wouldn't be good for the mother of the child.

So basically USE PROTECTION - IT IS NOT DIFFICULT!!! :@

[MJJ]

I would probably have an abortion, but I would feel very guilty about it. :(

[GhostFace-]

ye because im a guy and if i magically had a baby thatd be weird

[cocaine]

It would depend on how the other person feels about it; I'd just support them all the way

[IceNineKills]

If I were to get a girl pregnant then I would want them to get an abortion mearly because I'm only 17 and it wouldn't help me at all in life and also, I couldn't afford to raise a child.

[whitebengal]

If I were to get a girl pregnant then I would want them to get an abortion mearly because I'm only 17 and it wouldn't help me at all in life and also, I couldn't afford to raise a child.

Well use protection and you won't have to worry about that.... ;)

[Geraint]

Yes. If the baby had a chance of being born with a disease or something, I would have it aborted as it is would not know what the world was like and I wouldn't want it to go through life like it. It's in the best interests of the baby, in my opinion.

[Slowpoke]

Most of the time it's the parents fault that they got pregnant through not using protection so I think that abortion should be illegal - In my opinion, it's murder.

[jessLOL]

I dont believe its murder if your doing the best for your baby. If your young and you havnt got the money to raise it then I dont think you should have a baby, it could lead to parents splitting up after the baby and the child having to go through that, problems young adults face and the baby having to learn things young. im sure the two teenagers (if they was 15-19) would both want jobs then how would there child always get to school and have somewhere there to pick them up? i know my sister and her boyfriend couldnt do this atm as there both at work at these times and once again getting a childminder and nanny costs extra money a teen might not be able to afford, your mum and dad might work meaning they couldn't etc other reasons.
If the child is also disformed or dowsyndromed and your still young I dont think you should have it, or even when your older the child wont live life to the full and everyone should be given that chance.
personally i believe that.

[HotelUser]

A teen parent for the child is no way for a child to be raised. I would definitely ask the girl for an abortion.

[H]

wow, I was suprised to find more yes than no, I thought it would be the other way around.

& yes I would.

[Catzsy]

I honestly don't know. I feel it is a very difficult question to answer if you are not in that position.

[splatttt]

No, never.
I totally disagree with it. Unless the child will have serious problems.
People should deal with the consiquences of their actions and if they are stupid enough to get in the situation they shouldnt be offered the easy way out.
Whatever way you look at it... you are killing a life?

[Tristan]

If the woman got raped, I think she should get one.
If she had an affair while with me and got pregnant by someone else, yes.
But if I had a child, I wouldn't get it aborted.

So basically, answering the question... I wouldn't get my child aborted, no.

[H]

Most of you are all like NO I WOULD NEVER bububub...

whatever the reason, you are still 'killing' a baby. Regadless if it was there because of rape, unprotected sex etc. doesn't change the fact you're pregnant just like any other time. shouldn't it be a yes or no answer?

[whitebengal]

Most of you are all like NO I WOULD NEVER bububub...

whatever the reason, you are still 'killing' a baby. Regadless if it was there because of rape, unprotected sex etc. doesn't change the fact you're pregnant just like any other time. shouldn't it be a yes or no answer?

No because there are different situations. Me personally if i fell pregnant due to my own stupidity of having unprotected sex then I would keep it but if I was raped I don't think I would because rape is the worst thing that could happen to a women and if she fell pregnant to a rapist it would be even harder...You have to think what it would be like for both the child and the mother....Each time the mother would look at the child the memories of the rape would be there...and what happens when the child asks about it's dad? it wouldn't be very good for a child to know it's father is a rapist and thats the reason it is here....Think how you would feel if you found out the only reason you're here is because your mum suffered at the hands of a rapist?
Rape would be the only thing that would cause me to have an abortion nothing else.

[Herman]

i am surprised at some of your replies, especially the males.

some of you just go SNAP! "yes, i want my girl to abort simply because i am not ready to be a parent," thinking it would be that simple. talk about handling the consequences of your actions?

just because we're the men and we're not the ones getting pregnant, you think you can go around having sex and when you do get someone pregnant, you simply tell them "hey! get an abortion. i'm not ready, i'm not ready!"

i'm not saying you can't have an abortion. all i'm saying is, basically, think before you act. and think about the ladies, they are the ones who get the babies inside them. have a little heart for them.

[whitebengal]

i am surprised at some of your replies, especially the males.

some of you just go SNAP! "yes, i want my girl to abort simply because i am not ready to be a parent," thinking it would be that simple. talk about handling the consequences of your actions?

just because we're the men and we're not the ones getting pregnant, you think you can go around having sex and when you do get someone pregnant, you simply tell them "hey! get an abortion. i'm not ready, i'm not ready!"

i'm not saying you can't have an abortion. all i'm saying is, basically, think before you act. and think about the ladies, they are the ones who get the babies inside them. have a little heart for them.

Yeah damn right!! Finally a male who speaks sense....I want to have your babies :eusa_danc

[Bun]

i am surprised at some of your replies, especially the males.

some of you just go SNAP! "yes, i want my girl to abort simply because i am not ready to be a parent," thinking it would be that simple. talk about handling the consequences of your actions?

just because we're the men and we're not the ones getting pregnant, you think you can go around having sex and when you do get someone pregnant, you simply tell them "hey! get an abortion. i'm not ready, i'm not ready!"

i'm not saying you can't have an abortion. all i'm saying is, basically, think before you act. and think about the ladies, they are the ones who get the babies inside them. have a little heart for them.
i can say she'd get abortion because my girlfriend believes the same as me though...

Yeah damn right!! Finally a male who speaks sense....I want to have your babies :eusa_danc
made me laugh :P.

[FlyingJesus]

I would get loads of abortions and keep them all

[bo$$]

If it were to happen right now, I'd want her to.
It's not being an ******* or anything but bottom line is that I don't want a kid unless I can support it and make sure that it's raised properly. I don't have a job, I don't have a house (under my name) and I don't have a car. I wouldn't be able to support the kid in any sort of way and it'd be the burden of my mom + her parents.

That's why I choose to not have sex atm because I don't want to risk it. I'd rather not have sex and and not have the risk then do it and have that risk. Yes there's always protection, etc. but **** happens.

If she chose not to abort though, then (like any other guy should) I'd get a job, save money, etc. and be there for the girl + baby.

[Moh]

It kinda depends on:
What age you are
Who the mother is
Will the mother be a good mother?

If the age is over 20, I loved the mother and the mother would be a good mother then I would ask her too keep it.
But if she didn't want to keep it, then I would accept her decision.

The only thing what puts me off is after the birth.. cutting the umbilical cord.

[camera]

no matter what and how i get pregnant whatsoever, i wldnt do it. its just cruel

[Bun]

also my parents have always told me, no babys out of wedlock :P.

[whitebengal]

I would get loads of abortions and keep them all


LMAO WHAT???


If it were to happen right now, I'd want her to.
It's not being an ******* or anything but bottom line is that I don't want a kid unless I can support it and make sure that it's raised properly. I don't have a job, I don't have a house (under my name) and I don't have a car. I wouldn't be able to support the kid in any sort of way and it'd be the burden of my mom + her parents.

That's why I choose to not have sex atm because I don't want to risk it. I'd rather not have sex and and not have the risk then do it and have that risk. Yes there's always protection, etc. but **** happens.

If she chose not to abort though, then (like any other guy should) I'd get a job, save money, etc. and be there for the girl + baby.



Continue not having sex and you will have nothing to worry about :P:eusa_danc

[leah]

Yes, but you can take that pill if its only like a week or two or something? :S
But I would because My parents would kill me,
I would be tied down for life at 16
I wouldnt be able to move to london for Uni
It would ruin my life,
Maybe if I already had a career and a Decent BF my view would change,
but 16 is way too young.

[jordo]

my ex bird had 3 abortions and she was only 15 :O

[leah]

:O!
was she on first name terms with the doctors or something ;/

[jordo]

she was know for being a ****

[splatttt]

i am surprised at some of your replies, especially the males.

some of you just go SNAP! "yes, i want my girl to abort simply because i am not ready to be a parent," thinking it would be that simple. talk about handling the consequences of your actions?

just because we're the men and we're not the ones getting pregnant, you think you can go around having sex and when you do get someone pregnant, you simply tell them "hey! get an abortion. i'm not ready, i'm not ready!"

i'm not saying you can't have an abortion. all i'm saying is, basically, think before you act. and think about the ladies, they are the ones who get the babies inside them. have a little heart for them.

i totally agree with you! :)

[Technologic]

Why yes, yes i would. Infact i'd consider it rather worrying to get pregnant being a male and all

[Andys]

Yes, i'm only 13 and it would ruin my life basicly.

[Zehro]

At this age...... YES straight away not fair on the kid to be brought up by very young parents

It would not be fair on the kid to have young parents? Not being rude but what are you talking about, having an abortion is killing that child, so that's fair? It's not his fault he was brought into the life because of two young teenagers having a stupid idea.

To the question, no. I would never put myself in the postition to have unprotected sex, use a condom. And if it did happen I would say don't abort it, it can always be taken in by an orphanage or social services.

[stickwitu]

if i was a girl then yeah.
what's the point of getting pregnant and keeping it even though you know you're not ready and you're too young and can't give it a good life.

[Jessii]

my ex bird had 3 abortions and she was only 15 :O
LMAO I KNOW SOMEONE THAT HAS HAD THAT MANY AND SHES ONLY 15555555
concy donk or wot.. ;)

[Dan2nd]

If I got a girl pregnant no I just don't think its right to abort a child.. If I was in that situation yes I would be devastated chucking my life away but would at the same time wouldn't want to get rid of it because the question 'what if' would always linger in the back of my mind for the rest of my life..

[RedStratocas]

i'd get an abortion cause i'm not really sure where it'd come out.

but if i got my girlfriend pregnant, i'd let her decide (she's pro-choice) but i dont plan on it any time soon.

[Hiro]

No. Mainly 'cos I'm a guy.. (honestly). ;D

If I got a girl pregnant, I'd want them to keep it.

[,Rachyy,]

I would keep the baby!

[Finkelstien]

If I was a young girl then yes.

Bringing a child into the world that one cant look after or provide for is more of a injustice than having it aborted.

[Independent]

If my girlfriend was pregnant *

No, I would tell her to keep it.. Imo, it's the same as killing somebody although it's not a crime.

[mangle]

Yeah I'd want her to abort, only if it was at this age though.

It wouldn't be a decent enough life for the baby imo.

[Alkaz]

If it was my girlfriend whom I had been with for a while then definately not, even if it did no work out between us in time then fine but its still your flesh and blood inside her aswell as hern so I dont think that I would want to get rid of that, if it was a girl who I had just met and she was pregnant then I dont think I would want her to keep it because the baby wouldnt be wanted, although it will be loved it wasnt wanted. I wouldnt stop the girl from having it aborted or not. Its a sensitive subject.

[Niall!]

I would be very surprised since I am a guy

[drama]

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/apr/04/usa
;)

I would be very surprised since I am a guy

[Bethanie]

No its wrong killing a life inside of you >:[, think of the people who can't have babys.

[N-Dubz]

I believe if the baby has a disease or a serious issue then no, you shouldnt have it, because of the reasons that it would be a terriable life for the baby and tbh everyone should be given a healthy life everyone deserves.
Diffrent case, If I didnt want the baby I'd do the proper thing. I'd have it regardless, but before I did I'd make sure I found a suitable home for my baby, have a family lined up for it. Give life into the world, eventhough you would wonder where it was, how it was doing, whats its like.. Thats the risk you take its just like aborting it really. If you abort a healthy baby its not given a life or a choice to live. Have the baby and give it to a family who cannot have them and would be the perfect life because then your giving the baby a choice. Many people say 'WELL THEY'LL NEVER KNOW THERE REAL PARENTS!!!!!" who cares? Neither would an aborted baby idiot. An if it really wanted to - when the time is right the parents who adopted them would end up telling them anyways. My cousin was adopted, I agree with adoption so much.

So yeah, abort if its not gonna have a life, have it if it will and give it away if you really don't want it I'm sure parents would agree to this and your boyfriend aswell, espically if you can't look after it aswell.

[slam]

if i was to get a bird up the duff i wouldn't want her to abort it, no.

[Muscroft.]

Erm well theres 2 things.

1. Its proper harsh to take away anothers humans life, whether born or not.
2. If I was the one who got the girl pregnant, erm -rings hospital- my gf needs and abortian please!

Lol :)

[Ugawa]

I've thought about this b4 nd yes i would. I'm only 16 and it would be unfair on the child and me to bring it up. TBH i'm to young to even look after myself properly let alone a child.

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[The Professor]

Yeah I would. Before me and my gf did anything we spoke about it and agreed we would if we ended up in that situation. If she hadn't have said that, I wouldn't have taken the risk because I don't want to have a child that I can't care for.

[LostProphets]

I Suppose i would unless it was the right time to settle down.

[N-Dubz]

Use condoms until it is the right time to settle down?
LOL I love these girls who are 13 and have there kid's, at least there not aborting it - but I do think it should be given to a more suitable home.

At the end of the day why would you have to worry about being in this situation if you did the correct things .. well you would, unless you are idiot, or if you want a baby.

[Dean]

Im a boy, so I can't personally have an abortion

But If my girlfriend fell pregnant and I did NOT want a baby, i'd want an abortion or better off put it up for adoption