Long distant relationships

[Jay.]

Ok, i met this girl, well alot of girls and they always cheat on me when i don't see them. They think "i don't count as a real bf" and "oh don't worry your just for when im bored or when i want to chat on the internet" this always leaves me heartbroken.

However i've met this girl, she's not very good looking but she really likes me, so i've got to try out her personality maybe shes my partner.

Either that happens or as soon as i show my bebo to them they look at my picture and jsut say nah, i don't wanna go wid you and im like :cry:

And if i stop long distance relationships nobody around here likes me i have a girl mate and she has a long distance relationship with someone and that works perfectly. :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

[Independent]

Long distance relationships don't work out.. That's why I'm still in one ]:

[leah]

aha! so you're Jay >;]
Maybe try out this other girl :)
and not all girls are like that
you've just gone for the wrong ones.

[BaybeeElin]

Why don't you try short-distance relationships ? :)
I'm sure theres heaps of girls out there for you ;)
But if your more into long-distance relationships I think you should give this girl a go, its not all about the looks, they only grab attention,
But personality captures it ;).
If this girl isn't the one for you, keep looking until your happy and there happy with you.
There is someone out there for you, you just need to find them :)

[Paulio]

I think it's silly having online relationships, you lose out on so much if you stick to them and stay loyal. You can't expect a lass to get what she needs out of some lad (who she dosn't really know, when you think about it) saying things like *hugz*, *kisses* ect..

Why dont you try IRL relationships, there much more fun..

[buttons]

whattt?? so your only gonna date this girl 'cause she likes you? that is desperate and sad, find someone you like, theres someone for everyone and online dating isn't gonna help lol, you aint gonna get experience for in later life...

[LeahBaby--x]

Long distance relationships can work but In your case I suggest you go for the girl whos personality you like for a change.. maybe you'll grow to like her as a person.

[Jaiisun]

Hey there!

First of all, I would like to express that, even if you are 100% convinced that someone you talk to online is genuine, you cannot guarantee it. Even if you have seen them on webcam, you still don't know their real life personality is the same as they act online and it is for this reason that e-dating should be addressed entirely different to a real life relationship.

These girls you have been with are adhering to that and probably forget all about you when you go offline - i'm sorry to put it so bluntly. But you're just an online boyfriend to them, and they probably don't have plans to ever meet up with you.

To be completly hypocritical, I met my current girlfriend (been with her now for nearly 18 months, known her for 3 years!) on Habbo (in HxHD to be exact!) and we're proof that, given time, it can work. The only thing is, we realised we only live an hour away from each other. We go out pretty much every day we have free and I really think she's the one.

You should try talking to girls from school, or if you're shy, try getting their MSN from somebody who is a little more popular. You've got to start somewhere, and don't be afraid of rejection, it happens to us all. Just be yourself and don't change for anybody!

Good luck!

;].
Jay x

[Samantha.]

Long distance releationships work if you make them and make the effort to talk to each other and asct as a real couple but you obv can't do alot other than talk unless you meet up but some long distance releationships don't work Good Luck With It :]

[tasav]

Long distance relationships take too much work, in my opinion. And USUALLY they don't even end up being worth it. That, and you miss out on a lot of things that you get through real life relationships like cuddling and kissing and watching movies together and holding hands anddd all that other fun stuff ;)

A real girlfriend would like you for who you are, not for what you look like.

[Moh]

If your going to have an online relationship, you have to be sure that you would meet them in real at one point.

[Janczyk]

If your going to have an online relationship, you have to be sure that you would meet them in real at one point.
Just once :S

[Hollyish]

Long distance relationships can work :)

but like i would get to know the person like loads before hand
but that's just me xx

[iMegz.]

I don't think I'm one to judge long distance relationships as I've never had one. However, I think they can work but they rely a lot on trust and communication. Long distance relationships are like anything, sometimes they work and sometimes they don't but you have to be prepared to take that risk. I'm not sure if I would cope very well in a long distance relationship because I think I'd need them physically too but I wouldn't rule it out of my life all together. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. :)

[Havoline]

try going down to the main city near where you live and you might meat someone who lives nearbut not near if you get me like the same distance other direction or something. just start conversations with a few people

[N-Dubz]

be careful & make sure you can see her ALOT because if you cant she will move on.

never been in long distance relationship because there's no point to them really they just waste your time completly.

anyways well you shouldnt just go out with her because she likes you, go out with her because you FANCIE her.

[Meoww.]

You sound just like me.

Sometimes long distance relationships work sometimes they don't if she has a good personality go for it. ^_^

Looks don't mean a thing....

[Meoww.]

Sometimes they work sometimes they don't...

Looks don't mean a thing but if you're going to have one I agree meet up with them once or something like once a month so you can do stuff normal couples do..

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