Why do girls do that???

[Viruz]

Ok so im like really good friends with this girl an like we hang out loads and like she must have known i was interested and she would be all interested and i thougt she was then like i asked her out and she said she wasnt ready for a relationship so i was like well ok lets just be friends till your ready then she goes and gets with my best friend i was so annoyed and have totally blanked both of them but did i do something wrong?? and why do girls lead guys on like that???:S

[Zexe]

well obviously he's not your best friend of his goes with your lass.

[H]

a lot of guys mistake niceness for liking, it's annoying.

[Virgin Mary]

Saying "I'm not ready for a relationship" is the tactful way of saying "no".

[Tristan]

well obviously he's not your best friend of his goes with your lass.

Or she's not "his lass"...?
Unfortunately it's obvious that she isn't interested in you...

[leah]

she doesn't seem interested so you can't blank her for trying to be nice about it..
Although you should be annoyed at your mate cos he got with her knowing how much you liked her.

[N-Dubz]

LOL rejected.

Edited by Hayd93(Forum Super Moderator): Please don't be rude.

[risque]

Maybe your friend is better looking than you are.

[FlyingJesus]

When they break up she'll go crying to you and make you feel special again until the next guy. You'll forever be the one who gives her the attention and the praise and worships her for everything she is while she dates guys who aren't good for her and messes you about, but she'll never get with you. This will happen because you will let it, not wanting to lose her when she keeps making you think you've got a chance.

[BlueLord]

Maybe she thought you were such a good friend she didn't want to ruin it because she'll need you.

[Viruz]

LOL rejected.

Edited by Hayd93(Forum Super Moderator): Please don't be rude.


wow must make you feel really:rolleyes:

[Axel]

Hate to say it, but it just sounds like she isn't interested. The same sort of thing happened to me - my girlfriend broke up with me saying "she wasn't ready for a relationship" then next month she's with someone else.

[Viruz]

I just received a text from her saying
"Hey Will im really sorry for what i did, i feel like such a ******* idiot , i knew how much you liked me and i just led you on. Can we still be friends TB xx "

What is TB and should i even bother talking to her?

[Axel]

She might be trying to string you along... and TB means text back.

[Viruz]

She might be trying to string you along... and TB means text back.

Ok shall i just tell her im done being friends with her?

[BaybeeElin]

She's apologized hasn't she?
Yeah, she's been out of order, and tbh seeing as you were such good friends I think she was trying to let you down lightly.
I do believe she likes the attention you're giving her though.
Accept her apology, but I think you should stop flirting with her and just concentrate on being just friends with her ? :):)

[Camy]

Shes said sorry for leading you on, she obviously cares about you as a friend. Maybe you'll just need to accept her as a friend.
Its what I'm having to do with my ex, but I'd rather have her in my life as my friend, than nothing at all.


Btw. I agree completely with what FJ said, and its really really annoying when your in that situation.

[Viruz]

She's apologized hasn't she?
Yeah, she's been out of order, and tbh seeing as you were such good friends I think she was trying to let you down lightly.
I do believe she likes the attention you're giving her though.
Accept her apology, but I think you should stop flirting with her and just concentrate on being just friends with her ? :):)


kk thanks :D


Shes said sorry for leading you on, she obviously cares about you as a friend. Maybe you'll just need to accept her as a friend.
Its what I'm having to do with my ex, but I'd rather have her in my life as my friend, than nothing at all.


Btw. I agree completely with what FJ said, and its really really annoying when your in that situation.

Thanks

[risque]

LOL, you bad repped me and for what?! I'm glad she got with some other guy.

[MissAlice]

When they break up she'll go crying to you and make you feel special again until the next guy. You'll forever be the one who gives her the attention and the praise and worships her for everything she is while she dates guys who aren't good for her and messes you about, but she'll never get with you. This will happen because you will let it, not wanting to lose her when she keeps making you think you've got a chance.

Sadly this is true, stay friends by all means, you are sure to meet someone who is right for you ;)

[Zexe]

Maybe your friend is better looking than you are.

LOL told.

Edited by Hayd93(Forum Super Moderator): Please don't be rude

[Viruz]

LOL, you bad repped me and for what?! I'm glad she got with some other guy.

i bad repped you :S?

[risque]

Yeah you fail at acting innocently. I can see who bad repped me, names included. Deal with the fact this girl preferred your best mate over you.

[-Liam]

Yeah you fail at acting innocently. I can see who bad repped me, names included. Deal with the fact this girl preferred your best mate over you.

risque is right you know. no offence mate.

[Jordy]

LOL told.

Edited by Hayd93(Forum Super Moderator): Please don't be rudeHow come Zexe's is the one being warned? He's just echoed what the other guy said so surely they should both be warned or neither of them should be warned.

[Loser]

Ok shall i just tell her im done being friends with her?

That's a bit harsh!

[Tristan]

When they break up she'll go crying to you and make you feel special again until the next guy. You'll forever be the one who gives her the attention and the praise and worships her for everything she is while she dates guys who aren't good for her and messes you about, but she'll never get with you. This will happen because you will let it, not wanting to lose her when she keeps making you think you've got a chance.

I've heard that sort of thing somewhere before.
Is that a quote from something or something? Lol.

[risque]

How come Zexe's is the one being warned? He's just echoed what the other guy said so surely they should both be warned or neither of them should be warned.

Why on earth should I be warned? He didn't "echo" what I said at all, he quoted me and was directly rude, or that's how Habbox see it. I don't feel either comments were rude.

[Viruz]

Why on earth should I be warned? He didn't "echo" what I said at all, he quoted me and was directly rude, or that's how Habbox see it. I don't feel either comments were rude.
not rude but immature yes.

[T417]

Maybe your friend is better looking than you are.

yeah grow up :rolleyes:

[FlyingJesus]

I've heard that sort of thing somewhere before.
Is that a quote from something or something? Lol.

Not directly but I did nick it from somewhere yeah haha. Think it's on bash.org or something

[beth]

two words; ego boost.

and damn, it works.

[leah]

Not directly but I did nick it from somewhere yeah haha. Think it's on bash.org or something

Thiefff!! :eusa_whis

[Viruz]

yeah grow up :rolleyes:

i agree why bother posting if its not going to be constructive?

[Jaiisun]

Hey there,

However you look at it, you need to realise you and this girl are history - but if you can, try to save your friendship with your best friend. Talk to him about it if you can because life is no fun without your best friend there to enjoy it with you - believe me, i'm talking from experience, and losing my best friend was the hardest thing ever.

Maybe this girl was just being nice to you so you said nice things about her to your best friend.
Maybe you said that many good things about her to your best friend, he began to like her.
Maybe this girl is just confused.

There's lots of reasons, and it isn't right to assume that this is girls in general, because every person is different - even if the majority of girls do seem pretty confusing! But trust me, as you get older, and more experienced, you begin to understand.

If you really want to know what goes through a girl's mind, then I reccommend surgery - but that's another story!

Good luck!

;].
Jay x

[Excellent]

Ask your friend quite quietly how big his penis is, then measure yours, look at the outcome, then I guess the answer is slap-bang in your face.

[Crazychic]

Girls don't lead guys on. They just like to believe what they want to. Even if its not true. I might not make sense but oh well.

Love Beth xxx

[shane.jones]

Ask your friend quite quietly how big his penis is, then measure yours, look at the outcome, then I guess the answer is slap-bang in your face.


LITERALLY

[AndrewByrne]

She does'nt like you...
Are you ugly?
That might be it there