My mom & her boyfriend.

[Duck Hunt]

So, my mom divorced my dad a few years ago. Her boyfriend, dave, is also divorced. I dislike dave & he comes over alot. Some times, I'll have a friend come over for the night and dave will be there. "I can hear the floor boards, at one in the morning..." when i have a friend over... For those who dont know what im talking about, THEY HAVE SEX... YEAH. Disgusting! For those who say its not, I can hear moaning. Yeah. It happens alot but i usually have friends over when it happens, its been with 2 different people now. The first one i liked, he was nice. Dave on the other hand, I HATE HIM... Hes mean, he hates my friends, he has kids, and my mom knows i dont like him, i told her. She says deal with it... Im not sure what i should do but its disgusting & i hate her boyfriend... so yeah.

[Metric1]

My mom's bedroom is at the opposite end of the house, so no noise for me. I love my mom's boyfriend he's awesome.

[Krusty]

do stuff to annoy him
(:

[Camy]

Find their condoms, poke a hole in them and he'll run a mile.

[StickMan]

burn his pants, poop on his car, have sex at 1 am and shout rlly hard?

AAH!!!! lol

Dan/

[marriott0.01]

I like the option of poking a hole through the condoms, that'll be funny!

[Blinger1]

That is really bad..
As above said... Make even louder noises when your friend comes over.. or confront them!

[Turnip]

just walk in with a bat and say
stop givin my mum action.
and gtfo our house.

[Catzsy]

That is a pretty embarrassing situtation for you. You mum should be more considerate of your feelings. Can you have a quiet word with here when she is in a good mood. Perhaps she doesn't realise? The one good thing is that at least he doesn't live with you. Perhaps you would grow to like him more of this could be sorted?

[AMERlCA...]

ur moms evil :@

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[Duck Hunt]

Thanks for all the helpful replies, and some non helpful ones too but,


Find their condoms, poke a hole in them and he'll run a mile.
I Dont think they use condoms.. my mom has some pills that stop pregnancies or try to? i saw them on the table, they were like "Helps to stop pregnancies & some diseases"


That is really bad..
As above said... Make even louder noises when your friend comes over.. or confront them!
I usually blast music but then i get in trouble... >_>?


That is a pretty embarrassing situtation for you. You mum should be more considerate of your feelings. Can you have a quiet word with here when she is in a good mood. Perhaps she doesn't realise? The one good thing is that at least he doesn't live with you. Perhaps you would grow to like him more of this could be sorted?
She does realise, her room is above the living room (Tv, couches, etc) and i usually sleep there but if i dont im 2 rooms over from hers. So when i hear it i blast music or TV and she gets mad and or embarrassed. He lives pretty close to us, not too long of a drive and i dislike him alot. He hates my friends, and blames them for stuff they didnt do. Example; We spit alot, we were at my grandma's house and there was spit on the ground. He comes over with his dog, his dog licks it up, and Dave yells at my friend when he laughed at the dog and blamed my friend saying he was spitting on the ground purposly to get the dog to lick it up? Also, i would tell her but it would be awkward and im 13, not really sure if i want to hear about her sex life... and im sure she wouldnt want to talk about it either.

[AMERlCA...]

Thanks for all the helpful replies, and some non helpful ones too but,


I Dont think they use condoms.. my mom has some pills that stop pregnancies or try to? i saw them on the table, they were like "Helps to stop pregnancies & some diseases"


I usually blast music but then i get in trouble... >_>?


She does realise, her room is above the living room (Tv, couches, etc) and i usually sleep there but if i dont im 2 rooms over from hers. So when i hear it i blast music or TV and she gets mad and or embarrassed. He lives pretty close to us, not too long of a drive and i dislike him alot. He hates my friends, and blames them for stuff they didnt do. Example; We spit alot, we were at my grandma's house and there was spit on the ground. He comes over with his dog, his dog licks it up, and Dave yells at my friend when he laughed at the dog and blamed my friend saying he was spitting on the ground purposly to get the dog to lick it up? Also, i would tell her but it would be awkward and im 13, not really sure if i want to hear about her sex life... and im sure she wouldnt want to talk about it either.


o dear i fell sorry for you

[Fehm]

Lol.. The condom idea made me .. bleep :P lmao xD welldone for thinking up that one.

Ontopic: They really should be more considerate, walk in on them,. Then they'll shut up!

[:Edzy]

Lol my mates mum and bf have sex all the time when we're round. we just laugh it off.

But.

I would - Walk in and like sit on the end of the bed and start up a 'innocent' chat.

Do the same back but at like 4am

just make dave hate the house and make so many bad things 'accidentally' happen to him lol :)

[BaybeeElin]

I feel so sorry for you :(
Eurgh.. imagine my mum and dad..
They wouldn't now I don't think, (& hope) there like in their 40's.
You need to have a long, hard chat with her.
You can't carry on like that.. :P

[LeahBaby--x]

LOL its gross when parents are it it tbh.
;[

[Duck Hunt]

I feel so sorry for you :(
Eurgh.. imagine my mum and dad..
They wouldn't now I don't think, (& hope) there like in their 40's.
You need to have a long, hard chat with her.
You can't carry on like that.. :P

My mom ^ her boyfriend are in their 40s... To make it all worse,
DO NOT READ UNLESS YOU WANT TO... lol Contains sexual content
In my mom's phone, i was looking at the videos for one of a ferret we used to have, but i found one of dave *REMOVED*... :eusa_sick:eusa_sick:redface_b

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[Scouse]

why would you tell people about this, specialy the above post lol.

but if i was you, id make sure he knew i didnt like him and shown him whos house it was.

[BaybeeElin]

Poor, poor child. :(

[Duck Hunt]

why would you tell people about this, specialy the above post lol.

but if i was you, id make sure he knew i didnt like him and shown him whos house it was.

Well because its disgusting and i kinda need to know what to do about it...

[[DC]eption]

Lmao unlcuky, replace lube with deep heat or super glue ;)!

Or you make noises ealry in the morning, when ya m8s arent round!

[dirrty]

join in with em.

[Samishlol]

Tbh i think your mum needs to sit you down and get your feelings. It seems to me as if she doesn't care about how you feel.

[Bun]

get yaself on jeremy kyle!

[N-Dubz]

So basically your saying your mum shouldnt have sex because of you, and how you think its disgusting?



abit selfish right.

[Joshuae]

So basically your saying your mum shouldnt have sex because of you, and how you think its disgusting?



abit selfish right.

:rolleyes: He's 13 and listening to hardcore sex? Tch.
Just because you were brought up with it, doesnt mean he has to be.

Duck, just walk in, it sounds stupid, but it'll work. But you'd need a good excuse like you threw up.

[Crazychic]

Your life sounds like crap at the minute.
Unlucky hun.

Love Beth xxx

[N-Dubz]

:rolleyes: He's 13 and listening to hardcore sex? Tch.
Just because you were brought up with it, doesnt mean he has to be.

Duck, just walk in, it sounds stupid, but it'll work. But you'd need a good excuse like you threw up.


I wasnt brought up with it, lmao?
Parnents are aloud to do whatever they want to do with there social life at the end of the day she cant stop having a physical realtionship just because he thinks its disgusting.
A teenager shouldn't rule your life just because there your child.

[PaintYourTarget]

Film them and put it in the internet?

[Frisky]

If you want them to stop, confront them about it, they'll be so embarresed, they wont do it again.

[Charlie]

Walk in when they are at it and tell them to keep it down because the neighbours are complaining.

[Camy]

I love how people say walk in on them.
Think it through, me personally, I'd be scarred for life walking in on a parent =/

[Joshuae]

I wasnt brought up with it, lmao?
Parnents are aloud to do whatever they want to do with there social life at the end of the day she cant stop having a physical realtionship just because he thinks its disgusting.
A teenager shouldn't rule your life just because there your child.

Actually, when you enter Parenthood, you must realise without sacrifice there is no gain.

So without sacrificing the things you want, to help you kid have a good life
obviously the kid will grow up to be bad?


And you try to act "smart" about sociaology. lmao

[N-Dubz]

No I dont lol? Eventhough I do take it, Sociology that is lol.
You can't stop your parents having sex my dear, its a natural thing.. I dont expect my child to sit and ask me not to have sex again because they don't like it.
Having sex wont make the child 'bad' its a natural thing and it happens LOL so lets not have sex, because my child might turnt bad because of it.. :S
Just because you have a kid you shouldn't stop having a physical realtionship unless your child is a spoilt brat and ORDERS you don't, lmao.

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[Jack.Lfc]

Get one of your mates to do your mom then get your mom's boyfriend to walk in.

WOW i'd do that for him.

[Tintinnabulate]

Hide the pills.

@the people saying walk in on them. Would YOU ever walk in your parent(s)?

[Jordy]

No I dont lol? Eventhough I do take it, Sociology that is lol.
You can't stop your parents having sex my dear, its a natural thing.. I dont expect my child to sit and ask me not to have sex again because they don't like it.
Having sex wont make the child 'bad' its a natural thing and it happens LOL so lets not have sex, because my child might turnt bad because of it.. :S
Just because you have a kid you shouldn't stop having a physical realtionship unless your child is a spoilt brat and ORDERS you don't, lmao.Do you think they could just keep the noise down or give it a rest for one night when he's got a mate round though? I think it's ignorant if it's disrupting anyone in any scenario, but it's just blatently rude to continue doing it when their son has a friend round.

[N-Dubz]

Do you think they could just keep the noise down or give it a rest for one night when he's got a mate round though? I think it's ignorant if it's disrupting anyone in any scenario, but it's just blatently rude to continue doing it when their son has a friend round.

Yes they should, but I wouldn't tell my parents to stop if they was doing it while my friend was round, I'd just go out with my mate lol.
Its rude to tell your parents what to do, at the end of the day there not gonna stop there adults.

[Duck Hunt]

Film them and put it in the internet?

Lol i actually laughed @ that :P Good idea too


Yes they should, but I wouldn't tell my parents to stop if they was doing it while my friend was round, I'd just go out with my mate lol.
Its rude to tell your parents what to do, at the end of the day there not gonna stop there adults.
...Erm @ midnight theres not many places to go... and all of your comments seem to be against what the nice members that are trying to help me are saying... and your post about it being natural and wont make me a bad kid or whatever, and that its normal for her to do it, Its NOT NORMAL For her to do it when i have (a) friend(s) over and she only seems to do it when i have (a) friend(s) over so your not being very helpful, just argumentative.

[verda]

No offence but your mother sounds like a *****, who in their right mind disrespects their kids enough to blatently get banged all over every night her boyfriend is staying and especially when their son has his friends over. She needs to take a long hard look at herself by the sounds of it.

1 possible thing you could do is find some dirty little **** from around your area and constantly hang out the back of her every night, see if your mum gets ****** off or not.

Goooooooooooooooooooooooood luck.

[e5]

Just pull pranks on him and don't make it obvious that it's happening on purpose :D

[N-Dubz]

I respect my parents, yes its rude but if you know they like to do it frequently go to your friends house?
I'm not being argumentive, but due to the way I've been brought up never to disrepect my parents, and to be honest you can't stop her doing it.
Your not the mother in this situation.

[:Edzy]

I respect my parents, yes its rude but if you know they like to do it frequently go to your friends house?
I'm not being argumentive, but due to the way I've been brought up never to disrepect my parents, and to be honest you can't stop her doing it.
Your not the mother in this situation.
Yeahh but come on, you can't always go to someone elses otherwise its rude if you constantly go places and never return the favour. I agree with you with the respect parents wishes thing but i think it is so in-considerate because they are waking him up and making him feel bad and un-comfortable and in my opinion that is unnacceptable for a parent to do unless it is a punishment.

[Axel]

Upload Dave's video to a site and email the link to him.

[N-Dubz]

Yeah but don't this friends already understand his issue, if they've heard it enough times there going to understand why he dosn't want them staying round.

[Moh]

He's 13, his parents could easily have sex whilst:


He's at school
He's out with his mates

Yea, having sex whilst only he's in the house is ok, as he might be occupied with something else, but late at night with a friend over?

I don't think I would like it if I was laying in bed and then your parents start having sex.

Erm, you could make it look like he's having an affair. Not many people get back with each other if they think one having an affair.

[N-Dubz]

Why try split them up?
Ruin your mum's happiness, yeah great one.

[luce]

i think you should talk to you mum you are her blood and her son so i think if you show her you are seious and this is upseting you she may see you aren't attention seeking becuase you are being childish and take you seriuosly and take to Dave about it :)

[TAYLOOOOR1]

Oooer.

Errm i feel sorry for you tbh =[

[Pinkglu]

i h8 my step - dad

annoy him as much as possible ;)

[Charly]

Sorry for the bump, but i'd make her choose really.. say you or him otherwise just run away to a mates or something for a bit to realise what she will miss if you go :)

[PopTart]

This may sound wrong, but i hit on him (ONLY ONCE) wwhen they were loud doing it
there over now though btw that was a long ago time..

[,Rachyy,]

Hey there!

Well if I were you, I would tell your mom that you can hear her doing her business and it's not appropiate to be doing that while you have friends over especially. If she says deal with it, then I would try contacting your dad and telling him. Maybe you can go stay with him sometimes? If not then try spending the night at your friends house. Avoid your mom because she is pissing you off, she will get the message eventually.

Hope that helped!

[Duck Hunt]

Hey there!

Well if I were you, I would tell your mom that you can hear her doing her business and it's not appropiate to be doing that while you have friends over especially. If she says deal with it, then I would try contacting your dad and telling him. Maybe you can go stay with him sometimes? If not then try spending the night at your friends house. Avoid your mom because she is pissing you off, she will get the message eventually.

Hope that helped!

Eurg, i hate my dad more than my mom's boyfriend :@

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[,Rachyy,]

Eurg, i hate my dad more than my mom's boyfriend :@

Then I would suggest staying the night at a friends house alot more often.

[untrustus]

YOUR MOTHER'S BOYFRIEND IS HAVING SEX WITH HER?
SHOCK HORROR.

[AndrewByrne]

I guess who'll have to get used to it...
OR DO THE THING WITH THE CONDOMS. ROFL
And poop in his car too xD