Im confused..

[Blinger1]

Okay, this will sound dumb and probably happens a lot during teen years but anyway.

There is this chick at my school who has a boyfriend (well many girls do), but she is always mucking around with me. I love how she does it and also feel bad about it at the same time because her boyfriend is my friend too. I don't think the boyfriend knows about it and he tends to treat her bad at school but that is what i see anyway.
So the problem is.. should I continue to do what I do with her or just stop it? I think she does it to other people but I don't know..

And she does love her boyfriend a lot, we talk about them often and she says it. :eusa_doh:

[myke]

Put yourself in the position of the boyfriend and think how you'd feel and how you'd expect your friend to re-act. ;)

[Blinger1]

True. Although it only happens in one class thankfully and we don't really talk out of that class.. but she writes **** like 'blinger loves blahblah' in my book :-| and "spare with blahblah"..

I also think i am attracted to her even though i wouldn't do anything with her because she is out of my league..

bloody females lol

[myke]

haha, well, it's up to you decide. You're in control ;)

[Catzsy]

Well its not as if you are in your twenties. At our age there are really no rules I don't think. If he treats her bad then maybe you should mention it to him.
On the other end she could just be teasing you to get attention and perhaps to make him jealous? I would go with the flow and see how things evolve.

[Blinger1]

Well its not as if you are in your twenties. At our age there are really no rules I don't think. If he treats her bad then maybe you should mention it to him.
On the other end she could just be teasing you to get attention and perhaps to make him jealous? I would go with the flow and see how things evolve.

i think it is just around his mates he tells her to shut up a lot.
nothing will happen unfortunately!

[LeahBaby--x]

She seems like she's after the attention of another male while her boyfriend isn't giving it to her, she's just using you while her BF doesn't want to talk to her.. Maybe talk to him about treating her better, see if her attitude towards you changes?

[N-Dubz]

kill him and have her all to yaself.

[stickwitu]

she's flirting for attention.

[BlueEyedSarah]

Sounds like she is doing it for attention and maybe to make her boyfriend jealous. I think you should be a good friend and not do any moves towards her, would you like it if your friends did the same to you with your girlfriend when you have one? She is taken, leave it be for now until she ends with her boyfriend.

[Blinger1]

She seems like she's after the attention of another male while her boyfriend isn't giving it to her, she's just using you while her BF doesn't want to talk to her.. Maybe talk to him about treating her better, see if her attitude towards you changes?


Sounds like she is doing it for attention and maybe to make her boyfriend jealous. I think you should be a good friend and not do any moves towards her, would you like it if your friends did the same to you with your girlfriend when you have one? She is taken, leave it be for now until she ends with her boyfriend.

i dont plan on hitting on her even though she is hawt!
I respect the boyfriend a lot so i wouldn't do anything.
they have a good relationship i think. they go to each others houses each weekend.
+rep to who i can

[e5]

Put yourself in the position of the boyfriend and think how you'd feel and how you'd expect your friend to re-act. ;)
Yeah, bad if you think about it like that. But there's no point changing your ways yet, if you both are having fun, as friends, it's ok... but if you were the boyfriend, and you saw someone with your girl, I don't know if you'd like it? lol

[Blinger1]

Yes I understand, but I don't think he will ever know because she doesn't do it around him, it is awkward, lol!