Sylvia

[N-Dubz]

Why is she so twofaced?
The only thing she talks about is Alex. Sylvia dosn't say nothing to Alex's face but she feel's she has the right to diss her behind her back.

[Absently]

'Cos that's what girls are like.

[N-Dubz]

Not really.
You dont sit there licking someones backside, and as soon as they turn away you go and talk about **** behind them.

[Absently]

Most girls I know are like that. Their all friendly to the person, but hate them. I suppose she don't wanna get into a big fight with her, because it's obvious Alex would win. But she's not in there anymore, so she can ***** all she wants really.

[N-Dubz]

I don't think anyone will **** her off now shes gone, espically since she will be watching and after her threats to Darnell .. lol
An I don't know loads of girls like that, they sort it out by fighting not sitting there backstabbing about eachother.

[Absently]

All the girls here pretend their going to fight, but they just say things.

What were her threats to Darnell? I haven't been watching it lately.

[N-Dubz]

She basically said to him and many housemates were near that she has friends on the outside ready to do **** to them when they get out or to there family's if they mess with her.
Its understandable they threw her out, myself I think she got abit to carried away.

[Absently]

Tbh, I bet in the inside she's a very scared girl. I'd say something happened when she was younger that made her so protective, or if could be just that she has to fend for herself, having a kid inall.

[N-Dubz]

yeah i agree.
something must have happened to her.

[Coldplay]

Either that or shes just really two faced.. (Sylvia that is)

[BobX]

O i like sylvia bless her.

shes so far the only one who made me laugh when she goes:

"WHO PUT DER BOGEY TISSUE IN DE CRIPS! PLS DUN TEL ME SUM1 PUT DER BOGEY TISSUE IN DE CRIPS!"

[N-Dubz]

yeah i dont mind her, but all she seems to do is lick alex's backside then talk about her when she's not there.

ive never seen her have a proper conversation about something/someone else really, except with Alex.

[-Eyeless-]

Tbh, I bet in the inside she's a very scared girl. I'd say something happened when she was younger that made her so protective, or if could be just that she has to fend for herself, having a kid inall.

Wasn't she the one who was evacuated from Sierra Leone? That probably is enough to explain her behaviour... :)

[N-Dubz]

lmao that dosn't make you twofaced, thats just her personality.

[-Eyeless-]

lmao that dosn't make you twofaced, thats just her personality. Actually it can, it can mean you don't trust anybody since she came from a country where her own countrymen where shooting at her familly and cutting their own peoples arms off. If you don't trust anybody its much more reassuring if you are friends with everyone.

[N-Dubz]

Yeah but twofaced means your friends to someone to there face and run off and diss them behind her back. I understand wanting to be friends with everyone that dosn't make you diss your other friends.
Its her personality. I've had life drama's, we all have and I havn't turnt out nothing like her.
Having that happen dosn't make you twofaced.

[stickwitu]

what she went through made her grow stronger as a person and she's said that how many times? that doesn't make you 2 faced.

you're either a ***** or you're not.
and she is. makes her all the more interesting..

and yeah
LOL AT THE BOOGIE TISSUE

[-Eyeless-]

Yeah but twofaced means your friends to someone to there face and run off and diss them behind her back. I understand wanting to be friends with everyone that dosn't make you diss your other friends.
Its her personality. I've had life drama's, we all have and I havn't turnt out nothing like her.
Having that happen dosn't make you twofaced.

Yes true everybody has life dramas but it affects people differently and I am pretty sure that you haven't been shotat and had your arm held under a machette before... But if you think about it, everybody hated alex so to make herself seem normal by acting like she hated alex infront of people was her way of making them trust her more.

In the end what happend to her effected her in her own way and would effect everyone differently you cannot just say, oh yea bad things don't affect me like that so why would it affect her like that... Everybody is different :)

Edit: "It made me a stronger person" - Yes maybe it did but there are always going to be underlying effects of her past anyway.

[N-Dubz]

Yes true everybody has life dramas but it affects people differently and I am pretty sure that you haven't been shotat and had your arm held under a machette before... But if you think about it, everybody hated alex so to make herself seem normal by acting like she hated alex infront of people was her way of making them trust her more.

In the end what happend to her effected her in her own way and would effect everyone differently you cannot just say, oh yea bad things don't affect me like that so why would it affect her like that... Everybody is different :)

Edit: "It made me a stronger person" - Yes maybe it did but there are always going to be underlying effects of her past anyway.


Alex underwent drama's in her life, so maybe that explains how she is? People still hate her.
An if she wanted everyone to be her friend she wouldnt be twofaced, she would be scared to get caught out, scared she'd loose a friend so really that makes no sense. The fact is Sylvia talks nothing of Alex to her face, but behind her back do's. Its nothing to do with her past your either gonna be a ******* or not. I dont like how she did it, sly and sneeky which is just horriable.
An you know nothing of my past to judge it, but stuff that has happened in my past didn't make me nothing like her, and I'm sure people who have ****** lives dont turn out like her because there personality isnt like hers.
You either grow, or you dont. An if shes twofaced because of this which is highly unlikely then she hasn't grown its made her worse.
Look at Mikey, nice person and hes had worse trauma's being blind and probably alot more problems to face he isnt like her?
If you saw someone being killed et you would probably wouldnt turn out "twofaced" I reckon shes always been that way.

[-Eyeless-]

Alex underwent drama's in her life, so maybe that explains how she is? People still hate her.
An if she wanted everyone to be her friend she wouldnt be twofaced, she would be scared to get caught out, scared she'd loose a friend so really that makes no sense. The fact is Sylvia talks nothing of Alex to her face, but behind her back do's. Its nothing to do with her past your either gonna be a ******* or not. I dont like how she did it, sly and sneeky which is just horriable.
An you know nothing of my past to judge it, but stuff that has happened in my past didn't make me nothing like her, and I'm sure people who have ****** lives dont turn out like her because there personality isnt like hers.
You either grow, or you dont. An if shes twofaced because of this which is highly unlikely then she hasn't grown its made her worse.
Look at Mikey, nice person and hes had worse trauma's being blind and probably alot more problems to face he isnt like her?
If you saw someone being killed et you would probably wouldnt turn out "twofaced" I reckon shes always been that way.

I never judged your past, but I will leave you to believe your own ideas as you obviously can't accept other peoples views and I can't be bothered to contradict you :)

[N-Dubz]

I can accept your views, and I respect the fact you believe it was because of her past.

[-Eyeless-]

Alex underwent drama's in her life, so maybe that explains how she is? People still hate her.
An if she wanted everyone to be her friend she wouldnt be twofaced, she would be scared to get caught out, scared she'd loose a friend so really that makes no sense. The fact is Sylvia talks nothing of Alex to her face, but behind her back do's. Its nothing to do with her past your either gonna be a ******* or not. I dont like how she did it, sly and sneeky which is just horriable.
An you know nothing of my past to judge it, but stuff that has happened in my past didn't make me nothing like her, and I'm sure people who have ****** lives dont turn out like her because there personality isnt like hers.
You either grow, or you dont. An if shes twofaced because of this which is highly unlikely then she hasn't grown its made her worse.
Look at Mikey, nice person and hes had worse trauma's being blind and probably alot more problems to face he isnt like her?
If you saw someone being killed et you would probably wouldnt turn out "twofaced" I reckon shes always been that way.

Ok I have time ;)

You can hate somebody even if they had bad experiences. On the contrary how you act now has everything to do with your past, you aren't born an annoying ***** you become one through experience. It is a conditioned reflex, if you have been treated badly you are more likely to treat other people badly, it is the same in silvias case, she was stabed in the back by her own country and now she stabs other people in the back. You are more likely to be a bully if you are unloved and you are less likely to be a bully if you are treated with respect and loved. Funny how you say I have judged your life then you go on to "Judge" everyone who has had a bad experiences lives... As I said before, everybody reacts differently to each other you cannot dictate how other people turn out just because you didn't turn out bad.

You cannot say that mikey has had worse trauma than her it is perception that determines how you see something bad. Mikey will, as stated earlier have come out differently, both because it is a different situation and because people react differently.

Your final comment is erroneous and doesn't really present validity.

Finally from me, if everyone managed to come out of trauma in a positive way there would be no need for psycotherapy, psychiatry or any other form of form of mental help. And guess what millions of people use these services so your points are all pretty singleminded.

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[stickwitu]

you're just overanalysing.
get a qualification in psychology and then we'll listen x

[-Eyeless-]

Haha ironic considering I am taking it at Alevel and will probably be doing it at uni :rolleyes:

[N-Dubz]

Not really. If she had a problem she would have seeked mental help to get back her stability. Just because she was stabbed in the back dosn't mean she will do it herself. If that true then everyone who was in her country turnt out like her? I doubt it, you cant blame trauma's and drama's for the way her personality is. You can sit there and ******** and say her past is why shes twofaced, but what about killers? So just because they've had a horriable life/bring up there aloud to go around killing people? It isnt an excuse, your either something or your not you can't sit blaming her past for everything else she'd get away with **** loads wouldn't she.

[-Eyeless-]

Not really. If she had a problem she would have seeked mental help to get back her stability. Just because she was stabbed in the back dosn't mean she will do it herself. If that true then everyone who was in her country turnt out like her? I doubt it, you cant blame trauma's and drama's for the way her personality is. You can sit there and ******** and say her past is why shes twofaced, but what about killers? So just because they've had a horriable life/bring up there aloud to go around killing people? It isnt an excuse, your either something or your not you can't sit blaming her past for everything else she'd get away with **** loads wouldn't she.

OMG FGS AHHHHHH I said eveybody reacts differently,what part of that do you not understand, I never said eveybody will turn out the same, that is how you interpreted it... Not everybody knows they have subliminal/underlying problems so they wouldn't get help. I never said there was anything right about how she acts and never said I condone bad pasts as a reason to do bad things. I am just giving a reason for the way she acts not an excuse...

[N-Dubz]

So if she killed someone, you would just say "oh her country killed people, it leads back to that!!!" and let her get away with it.

It is an excuse.

[-Eyeless-]

Right I don't get what you just said, but I was never giving her an excuse. People were wondering why she acted like that and I was giving my two cents.

[N-Dubz]

;) You are giving her an excuse to act that way, but if thats what you believe.

[-Eyeless-]

Ok whatever you want to think but you should really try making sense in future ;)

Its not an excuse its an explanation (Dictionary.com)- often helpful

[N-Dubz]

I do, if you want to carry it on by being cocky we can. :)

[-Eyeless-]

Sorry if you want to continue cockiness you will have try harder to beat me ;)

But lets stay on topic...

[N-Dubz]

beat you? lmao its a forum not a another habbo competition am afraid.
I said dont give her an excuse for behaviour, no one has an excuse or a past to bring up into it, she acts that way because of her personality. You cant let someone get away with it because of there past or loads of child molesters and killers would be walking the streets still today.

Okay? So get over it.

[stickwitu]

Haha ironic considering I am taking it at Alevel and will probably be doing it at uni :rolleyes:

get your uni qualification then i'll listen
still sticking with what i've said.

[-Eyeless-]

beat you? lmao its a forum not a another habbo competition am afraid.
I said dont give her an excuse for behaviour, no one has an excuse or a past to bring up into it, she acts that way because of her personality. You cant let someone get away with it because of there past or loads of child molesters and killers would be walking the streets still today.

Okay? So get over it.

Look an explanation is not an excuse! You can explain peoples actions but it doesn't mean it is right! I was explaining why not telling you its ok because... Think about it,if a child molester is proved to be insane they get put into a mental hospital under jail conditions, they are not getting away with it but at the same time they are being helped. It explains their actions but doesn't meanthey get let off...

Please read more thouroughly next time.

[N-Dubz]

No you gave her an excuse because it hasnt been proved that shes like that because of her past.

I do read, but to me thats just giving her an excuse for her behaviour.

[-Eyeless-]

No its an explanation from my point of view... My god you really don't get it do you?

[N-Dubz]

whatever lol.

[majesticdragon]

Sylvia to win end of.