Why do mates do that?

[Disaronno]

I was going to the cinema with my friend tomorow. Ok, its in Enfield and a lot of people will be going as its 2nd day for Adulthood. But, i rang him at half 10 and said, we still ok? And he said yes and then at half 11 he says do you want to go to Harlow Cinema to watch Adulthood with boys I dont get a long with and he knows it, and i said no i made plans with ya dont be an idiot and he just goes well im going with them, its up to you.


Why do mates do that ? It pisses me off so much, i dont go out that often and im working soon, and he does that! Grr.

[FlyingJesus]

They're probably better than you I dunno

[Disaronno]

They're probably better than you I dunno

no, theres just more of them. And he went out with them tonight. Which obviously i dont mind, but its cos he has been with them tonight that this has happened. I dont really think you have a right saying that

[le harry]

he sounds like a right bell lol find a new friend.

[Disaronno]

he sounds like a right bell lol find a new friend.

Yea, well i have other friends just not ones i really want to go out with. And i start work soon so, ill just find some more there.

[Leetzgirl]

lol, i know which cinema you mean, been there like 8 times ;D!

and yeh get a new friend, peple done that and in the same cinema >_>!!

[Jack.Lfc]

JUST STAY IN AND PLAY HABBO, A SOLUTION TO ALL PROBLEMS.

[BaybeeElin]

Ouch!
I think you're friend was being selfish towards you seeing as he knows you arn't exactly on speaking terms with those friends of his.
Next time he asks to meet you somewhere, say you are busy.
He will get the message and hopefully think again before letting you down.
If he doesn't, this is the time to make new friends. ;)

[Blinger1]

i've been in the same situation. just deal with it i guess, though i feel your pain!

[Disaronno]

JUST STAY IN AND PLAY HABBO, A SOLUTION TO ALL PROBLEMS.

Thanks to everyone and that solution is not goig to happen.


how do you know what cinema im on about? Unless u live in Hertfordshire?

[Alexicles.]

My freind did that yesterday, while me and 2 others were talking she went off with this other girl and completely ignored us for the rest of the night. :@

They do it to become more popular, but it really doesn't work.

[RedStratocas]

They do it to become more popular, but it really doesn't work.

wrong. you cant just assume things like that, i'm sorry. i've had friends ditch me for other friends, but it was probably because they thought they would have more fun with their other friends. i think its usually understandable.

like in the case on the first post. he's doing ditching you for other friends. notice how YOU is one person and FRIENDS is more than one. he'd probably have more fun with more than one friend. plus, if he said that you could come too, you can't complain. he doesnt have a commitment to you. yeah, it sucks that he ditched you when you already made plans, but oh well.

[MOGWAI]

epic fail

[Alkaz]

Really I think you said the solution your self, your going off to work soon and there will be many new people there who you will meet and to make friends with. There isnt anything wrong with going out with your friend who ditched you, just dont let it get you down and another thing I thought worked well for me, I tryed to get on with my friends friends who I may not like, I meet there friends etc etc and get on with them so ye give it a go and if it really dont work out then atleast you can say you tried!

[,Wayne]

..... You aint got more then 1 friend tht u go out with???? i suggest u go get some

[Crazychic]

Oh great. Well if he is going to do that to you then maybe you should fine another friend because you probably deserve better. By the sound of things he cannot be trusted. So try and confront him about it and just see what he says. Ask him why he has been such a horrible friend. I hope it goes ok.

Love Beth xxx:)