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Naythi.
22-06-2008, 06:21 PM
Right so now i've told a few more people about me being Bi. Now like all of my mates know i'm Bi, a few family members and stuff. I told my best mate last, and he was completely shocked that i didn't tell him first.

But there's this girl, that likes me.. i don't know what too do because if she found out i like lads+girls, i think she would hate me. So i don't think i'm going to tell anybody else yet. What do you think i should doo? tell the girl the truth or see how things go? I've also still been in contact with this lad who lives about 15 mins away, but i think all he wants is sex, im more into relationships not just sexbuddys.
I seriously hate being Bi.. at least being straight you can like girls and just girls. Being gay you like lads just lads. confused much?!

-Evilpenguin-
22-06-2008, 10:30 PM
Well in my opinion if this girl cant accept you for being Bi then i mean why would you want to be with her?

Anyway if you don't tell her she will find out sooner or later and then she will be very pissed off you hid it from her. Better to be open in my view.

Leetzgirl
22-06-2008, 10:38 PM
where you from?

Mitch4?
23-06-2008, 12:18 AM
I was at a house party last night, and this girl called natalie who knows i'm bi said she doesnt give a flying (get ready to bleep here). And that it just makes it easier when we can go shopping
I snogged three girls that night, and they all know i'm bi. So you know, girls can be suprisngly accepting. xx.

Naythi.
23-06-2008, 07:33 AM
thanks for the advice (:.
It's like, i doo like her.. but i also like guys, and it might be wierd for her too accept it, knowing her she'd probally just think i've been using her or something, but blahh.. I'l give her the benifit of the doubt, shall probally tell her tonight.


where you from?

Westmidlands.

leah
24-06-2008, 02:39 PM
you should give her a chance to know the truth about you, wouldn't you rather start of your relation ship honestly rather than get to really like her and she finds ot you lied and ends it all?

womanizer
25-06-2008, 01:06 PM
Right so now i've told a few more people about me being Bi. Now like all of my mates know i'm Bi, a few family members and stuff. I told my best mate last, and he was completely shocked that i didn't tell him first.

But there's this girl, that likes me.. i don't know what too do because if she found out i like lads+girls, i think she would hate me. So i don't think i'm going to tell anybody else yet. What do you think i should doo? tell the girl the truth or see how things go? I've also still been in contact with this lad who lives about 15 mins away, but i think all he wants is sex, im more into relationships not just sexbuddys.
I seriously hate being Bi.. at least being straight you can like girls and just girls. Being gay you like lads just lads. confused much?!

u told me u were gay. I feel betrayed

Naythi.
25-06-2008, 01:32 PM
I'm sorry rock for the betrayal lmao.
I class myself as gay, because i like lads way more than girls.. but i do still like girls alittle? if you get me.

Mitch4?
25-06-2008, 07:05 PM
I'm sorry rock for the betrayal lmao.
I class myself as gay, because i like lads way more than girls.. but i do still like girls alittle? if you get me.

I heard that apparently people can likes boys a lot more than girls, but still feel they like girls because they don't want to accept that they will be cut off completly from going out with girls, incase you change your mind in the future.
It's not about what you actually feel, you can't stop 'liking' the girls, but you might not actually pyscologically like them.
Hard to explain
but yeah, when you get older apparently you'll become a lot more clear, (H)
love you
♥

Hazza
25-06-2008, 07:21 PM
So you know, girls can be suprisngly accepting. xx.

Well they always say 'I want a gay mate to go shopping with' :P! Now they've got one and who likes girls aswell! All round happiness. :D

Naythi.
25-06-2008, 10:42 PM
but yeah, when you get older apparently you'll become a lot more clear

How very dare you, i'm old enough.. feel like a reet Oap already. :)
ahh well, people will have too accept me for me, not changing ennit.

Alexicles.
27-06-2008, 03:31 PM
Gratz babes.


DO what you think's best k? :D

whoooosh
27-06-2008, 03:44 PM
Tell her i say
i reckon its hot lol

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