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drama
24-06-2008, 09:18 PM
I never thought i'd actually post stuff like this on here, but hey! out of options really.

First of all (for future reference) i'm not really outgoing when it comes to relationships, i don't do full out flirting, i just try and make the girl realise she could probably like me more than a friend ;)).

So, theres this girl. She was kind of a mutual friend, like a "I'm friends with you because you're friends with my friends" etc but over the past couple of months we've become closer friends, and to put it blatently, she has been flirting with me ALOT, and i also really like her. The problem is she is known for leading people on, she's not a sket or anything, but she has suddenly left people for others, and even she just turned somone down she still gets off with this guy.

But yeah, i really really like her (so much i actually gave up like all drugs because she really hated me doing it), and she doesn't half flirt with me. But then again she could be leading me on, and will continue to getoff with this other guy.

Everyones going out on friday, and she says she won't be drinking (so hopefully won't get off with that **** again). We're going back to somones house and watching a film so no doubt we'll get quite close, but how do i.. 'seal the deal' if you get me.

Only reason i'm asking is i thought i was gay for ages, so the whole 'girl' thing is relatively new to me :]






looking back: christ, i wrote a ******* essay, if any of you can be arsed to read it all, help will be appreciated :]

drama
24-06-2008, 09:43 PM
edit: nvm and sorry for bump.

Edited by Alkaz (Forum Moderator): Please do not bump your own threads.

Recursion
26-06-2008, 07:01 AM
Just go with the flow as the saying goes.

Tell her how you feel (whisper to her) while watching the film?

leah
26-06-2008, 01:16 PM
don't tell her anything while she's still getting with this other guy, you don't want to embarass yourself, Just get close to her during the film and take it from there, If she does like you she should forget this other guy, possibly invite her out another time, just the two of you?

BaybeeElin
26-06-2008, 06:18 PM
Let her come to you, don't go following her around.
See if she chooses to sit next to you during the movie, if she does, thats a good sign !
But if she's already got off with someone, don't bother, you'd embarass yourself (<-- trust me, I know. :()

drama
26-06-2008, 06:24 PM
The other guy won't be there, all my friends hate him and he never comes in with us anyway.


Let her come to you, don't go following her around.
See if she chooses to sit next to you during the movie, if she does, thats a good sign !
But if she's already got off with someone, don't bother, you'd embarass yourself (<-- trust me, I know. :()


Thanks for all replys btw :]

drama
27-06-2008, 04:20 PM
Going out nowwwww, wish me luck :P

drama
27-06-2008, 09:26 PM
got back early because people left early for some reason.
aaaaaaaanyway, she acually beat me to it and said she liked me! so i said that i liked her etc, then stuff happened but im sure im not allowed to post it on here :P

and we're meeting uptomorrow so s'all good :)

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