arghhh

[Breakfloor]

ok, i did a big rant but i have a problem with this laptop and it keeps ******* up so ill be quick

she changes ALOT every time hes there
shes started slitting for no reason
shes an alcaholic for what i think is attention
shes totally changes what she wears for dan
shes totally changed the music she listens to

and im starting to REALLY dislike her. dans my best friend but i SERIOUSLY dont want him with her because shes putting him down and dragging him along.

shes just an attention seeker and she expects 100 percent of his attention it really winds me up. what cani do without getting in the way?

[luce]

Ok one thing i have lernt in the last week.

You never self harm for no reason, maybe she doesnt want to shout it from the rooftops?

She needs help. you dont want dan to get out asap you want him and her to get out together, becuase you keep telling yourself oh they won't kill themselve so we will leave them until you get called in to be told there dead.

[Breakfloor]

she is slitting for no reason. seriously, i know that she has NOTHING wrong in her life.

[e5]

ok, i did a big rant but i have a problem with this laptop and it keeps ******* up so ill be quick

laptop? eh?

[Breakfloor]

yes i have a post and ill have another problem but back to the subject its very serious

[Leetzgirl]

it abbey?

[Inseriousity.]

You seem to think there is no reason for her slitting. How can you 100% be sure? You may be best friends but even best friends keep secrets from each other. Drinking excessive amounts of alcohol and slitting don't just come about for no reason.

It appears to me that she is simply a girl who is trying desperately to keep the person she loves. She sounds insecure hence the changing of clothes, music etc and hopes that if she changes herself, her boyfriend will like her more.

If it was me, I'd explain to her that her boyfriend went out with her for her not some other persona she is creating. Personally, I don't think it's attention seeking but if it is, it's got your attention. ;)

[Breakfloor]

nah beleive me, she has absolutley no reason to slit other than she lost a pair of shoes while drunk

she gets WASTED and shes only 14

and i dont even think she loves him because she keeps asking me if she should stay with him and i keep saying its up to her and shes always more interested in everybody else.

[Inseriousity.]

nah beleive me, she has absolutley no reason to slit other than she lost a pair of shoes while drunk

she gets WASTED and shes only 14

and i dont even think she loves him because she keeps asking me if she should stay with him and i keep saying its up to her and shes always more interested in everybody else.

I'm sure there's a reason and if she doesn't love him, it's basically vice versa and that it's all a cry for help to get out of the relationship instead of trying to stay in it...

She sounds to me like she's thinking too many things at the same time and trying to let it out in what she feels is best... slitting and drinking...

[Leetzgirl]

nvm removed

[Breakfloor]

ok ill explain

i go to schoopl with her, my forms next to hers. she dont get bullied.
i live down the road from both her houses and she DEFINATLEY doesnt have anything wrong at home

and he definatley loves her. theres no question about it.

[BaybeeElin]

You can't seriously say you know everything that goes on in her life?
You don't self harm for no reason, so if she is doing it for attention, there is a problem with her life, otherwise she wouldn't be doing it for attention? :S

[luce]

You never slef harm for no reason i swear o god its not.

You can't even know everything in your friends life

this happened with me i thoght i new everything obviously not so please dont get convinced you know it all becuase you are in for a big shock :)

[Breakfloor]

ive spoken to her mum and her dad and she said she suddenly changed in a period of one day. hr mum offered her counciling but refused it. there is NOTHING wrong with her. i bet my own male genitalia on it.

[Pazza]

Ok one thing i have lernt in the last week.

You never self harm for no reason, maybe she doesnt want to shout it from the rooftops?



Standing on the rooftops
everybody scream your heart out :D

Yer. Tell her how u feel :)

[leah]

you can't say you know theres nothing wrong with her life, she could have depression or something which you can't really tell someone has.. you might think she has a great life but you never know what goeson behind closed doors, tell your friend to watch his back and maybe gethim to have a word with her about why she self harms and tell him to say to her that he wants her to stop because he really cares for her.. If you make him split up with her it might tip her over the edge.

[Breakfloor]

seriously, weve asked her why she slits herself and she just says no reason tbh

but arghh