Wanting Somebody I Can't have.

[Crazychic]

There is lad who is practically my best friend and we tell eachother pretty much everything. I think I have fallen for him but he is in love with another friend of mine. They went out for like a month but she broke it off because he is kind of weird when it comes to relationships. I don't know what to do about how I feel about him.

Help required please.

Love Beth xxx

[BaybeeElin]

Well I'm sure it wouldn't bother your girl mate 'cos she broke up with him.
But if he does like her (alot), and you only as a mate, your just going to have to get over him as it's never going to happen.
Don't loose your friendship with your boy mate by suggesting something that probably won't happen, if you do, it would probs be awquard with you.

If the tables turn, and he starts liking you, go for it.
But if it doesn't, move on.

[Inseriousity.]

I do not think it's somebody you can't have? Is it because he's your best friend? The relationship he had with your other friend has finished so there is no reason why you can't ask him.

If you're scared that you'll stop being friends when you break up, how would you ever know if that'd happen if you don't give it a go? Give it a go and you can still be friends if it doesn't work out. If he doesn't look like he wants to be your friend after it, just be a friend to him and you'll soon get back to being friends again. :)

[camera]

baybeeelin has said what i wld have said.

friendship wins over relationship anyday

[Tbh]

you post wayyyyy to many threads

as i always say...

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[leah]

Is this the same guy as the one you posted the day before yesterday or have you moved on? :S

[Abbie.]

i want someone i DID have

but i messed it up

yay go me ;l we still talk loads though.

[Cwmbran]

"You drivin' me
To insanity
All the things you do
You make me come anew
I just can't help myself
I need professional help, help"


Tbh, if you get with that guy his ex is going to freak because even though they are not together she will be like "WTH U DOIN WIV MAA BOii?!" etc, because girls are just strange like that.

But you've got to think about this if it's really worth the risk of loosing one of your best friends, if you tell the guy you like him and he doesnt like you that way he may react badly and you will stop being real close.


"I think I'm crazy
Think I'm stupid
Must have lost my mind
Wonderin' what I'm thinking
Lovin' you cos' boy if you were mine
I'd really go insane
You'd be my favourite thing
I go ballistic yeah your making me a crazy chick"

[Susie Dent]

Don't tell him because you'll freak him out and he'll hate you lol