Recent relationship troubles.

[@K]

Recently, my girlfriend and I have been arguing, A LOT, and my stress level has been going through the roof. I do love my girlfriend, just so you know I'm not a silly 14 year old who thinks they're in love (no offense), I'm almost 18, and my girlfriend has said she is in love with me also. Another problem that has arose over the last couple of days is that my mum no longer likes her, and I really do not know what to do, she has said she doesn't want my girlfriend coming round anymore and so forth. Please help :eusa_wall

[le harry]

What are you usually arguing about?

[@K]

This might sound funny, but everything and nothing, if you catch my drift :S

[Janczyk]

You wouldn't be a normal couple if you didn't argue!

[Digital]

Same here :| Been like this for about a month tho I'm getting sick :(

[Jaiisun]

It's a known fact that every couple argues some time or another.

However, if the arguments constantly arise from one side of the relationship - there may be a problem. This person may not realise what they're doing and a quiet word to them how it's making you feel could solve the problem.

On the other hand, they may be completely aware of what they're doing and want you to break up with them. Also, the partner may just be jealous and insecure, but just needs re-assurance that you're there for the long run and you love them just as much as they love you.
About your mum, my mum never liked my girlfriend for a long time, but she never actually said anything. But, when my mum realised she wasn't going anywhere - she backed off, got to know her, and eventually liked her. You need to talk to your mum and see how why feels, and why. Let her know that just because you're dating, that it doesn't mean you're going to abandon the family.

;].
Jay x

[Camy]

Meh i was arguing with my ex because i thought there was something going on with another guy, and idk it was like i wanted to argue with her, i reli dnt kno y.
Got to the stage she dumped me, oh and what do you know, 2 weeks later shes going out with the other guy.

But yeah, arguments arent good, i think the next time u argue you should just not say anything to her, so soz, i love you, so im not arguing. Then maybe give it a day or two and see how it goes.
As for your mum, don't let her control who you see, just bring your gf round, and keep her away from your mum.

[N-Dubz]

Its best to just put up with it, rocky patch's come in every realtionship.

[leah]

bring up the fact that you argue alot with your girlfriend, tell her you love her and you hate arguing with her she'll probably understand what you mean and probably feels the same.. maybe you can start to work through the arguements, also about your mum explain to her that you love your girlfriend and nothing she does can stop that, say to her it would mean alot if she could support you.