He's really confusing me

[Retroduck]

So I like this boy and we text each other everyday,and we are becoming really close friends.

We both said that we liked each other, so i sorta go my hopes up.

But now he pretty much is saying that we are just good friends, and that he doesn't know me that well and well now I feel like an idiot.

So im not sure if he likes me, and is trying to cover it up by saying that or he actually just wants to be friends.

Do you think I should give up or what?

[-Eyeless-]

IF you reallly like him then keep trying but don't be too bummed if he doesn't likethat way :)

[Retroduck]

IF you reallly like him then keep trying but don't be too bummed if he doesn't likethat way :)

The thing I don't get is why say you like someone and then a couple days later pretend like you never said you did.
And thanks im sure i'll get over him.

[-Eyeless-]

Because guys are *****, I should know I am one ;) Dw there are better people out there :)

[Retroduck]

Because guys are *****, I should know I am one ;) Dw there are better people out there :)

Aww lol.
I think im just not going to talk to him for abit, see how it goes.
Thanks by the way.

[-Eyeless-]

Any time ;)

[Cwmbran]

As said by VBT if you really do like him - go for it.

Most guys wouldn't text a girl everyday unless they like you, or he considers you as a good friend it's pretty hard to determin what you are to him from what you have told us, but if he has said he likes you then he most probably does. He maybe having second thoughts, he may want to get to know you a bit better before he gets into a relationship with you.

[leah]

ask him to meet up, just the two of you, have some quality time and get to know each other better, if he said he liked you he probably does, maybe he got nervous or something but i deffinately recommend spending some time with him. :)

[Retroduck]

As said by VBT if you really do like him - go for it.

Most guys wouldn't text a girl everyday unless they like you, or he considers you as a good friend it's pretty hard to determin what you are to him from what you have told us, but if he has said he likes you then he most probably does. He maybe having second thoughts, he may want to get to know you a bit better before he gets into a relationship with you.

Hmm i prob will get to know him abit better as I realise maybe i don't know him as good as i thought.



ask him to meet up, just the two of you, have some quality time and get to know each other better, if he said he liked you he probably does, maybe he got nervous or something but i deffinately recommend spending some time with him. :)

Im not sure if he will meet up because when we talk he only wants to speak to me at night because hes "busy" in the daytime. Which i find weird, because he sometimes talk in the day.


Btw thanks

[Pyroka]

I have the same situation as you, this girl I know looks at me as a really good friend and I look at her as that (and more). She gets told that I fancy her, and that I text her wayyy too much for 'just friends' but I cna't ask her out because my friendship means too much to risk a relationship.

I might be meeting up with this girl in the summer, but same problem as you, she's away most of the summer so I doubt it.

Bottom line is, I can't say what you should and shouldn't do, but if you wait too long then maybe some other girl will like him, and he'll like her. Thats your chances blown basically. I think he's saying that he just thinks of you two as good friends because he doesn't want to risk the friendship, the same like me. Guys do think alike yknow.

I honestly think giving up is foolish, you shouldn't ever give up on situations like this because if you do, you're going to regret it and be very upset about it. I think all you can do is ask him out, it'd be risky but yknow, if he's the friend he acts like then he'll understand and be there for you, instead of laugh at you & never talk to you again. Don't get downhearted by it, it's a huge risk but I think you've got the (lack of) balls to do so!

(Lack of because youre a woman... right? I laughed so hard I almost shat myself)

Tell us how it goes if you do so. :)

[Stacey.]

If you like him then don't give up.
He might be nervous, if so he might be waiting for you to make the next move.
If not, then just get to know him more and see how it goes.