Help- boyfriend trouble

[ella6677]

Ok well i have this ex bf who used to be my bf. I left him for this guy that i liked cause there is no point in being with someone you don't love anymore.
So as soon as i say its over he says then there is no point in living and says if i don't give him a 3rd chance yes i said 3rd chance that he will kill himself.:O
But i don't wanna be with him anymore and love another guy what do i do:S someone help me

[leah]

Tell him that you love him dearly but only as a friend and ask him why would he want you to be with him if you don't love him as a boyfriend?
also say it's really unfair of him to bribe you to be with him, make him feel guilty for it, tell him you don't want to be with him but you want to be best friends with him and just explai that he means alot to you.
hope this helped :D

[helenhiya]

loool had this before!
he won't actually kill himself, it's just to try and guilt you into going back with him, so tell him to go ahead.
and if he does kill himself, well he's pathetic so who cares.

[Janczyk]

Give him a rope.

Nah but seriously it's called reverse psychology.

[AMERlCA...]

hes probably joking or if he is not hes just stuipd for saying that he will kill himself:O

[Cajak]

He will never kill himself. He just thinks you're stupid enough to believe at him.

How old are you ? How old is him ?

[BaybeeElin]

Ok well i have this ex bf who used to be my bf. I left him for this guy that i liked cause there is no point in being with someone you don't love anymore.
So as soon as i say its over he says then there is no point in living and says if i don't give him a 3rd chance yes i said 3rd chance that he will kill himself.:O
But i don't wanna be with him anymore and love another guy what do i do:S someone help me



My friend has been through similar..
She went out with a lad for a while, got her pregnant (at fourteen), she finished him and had an abortion.
She then got with someone and was very happy with him, until her ex boyfriend was threatening to get back with him or he would kill her and her boyfriend, she told her mum, who rang the police and he backed off.

You need to tell someone you trust, an older family member or friend.
Take action, don't give in and let him get the better of you.

[Leicester]

tell him to jog on and to go do 1

[BlueEyedSarah]

If he is thinking of killing himself (which he will not as it is a way to quilt trip you) then he needs to see professinals about it. I think you should tell he's parents the comment that he said to you so they can keep an eye on him incase he is being true about killing himself. Don't get mixed in that kind of drama.

[tasav]

Pfft. He's just a dumb boy :)
He won't do anything. Just give him time and he'll get over you.

[RedStratocas]

Ok well i have this ex bf who used to be my bf.

please please please please someone say they laughed at this too, so i dont feel mean.

hes probably just faking it. he's an insecure and needy jerk, basically. dont get back together with him, otherwise he'll think it'll work every time. if he actually does kill himself, its not your fault, it would happen in his next relationship too.

[Redacted]

im single?