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dylan912?
17-07-2008, 06:04 PM
:( Help Me :'(
Edited by Elkaa (Forum Administrator): Thread closed.
ahenthorn
17-07-2008, 06:08 PM
:S wah?
dylan912?
17-07-2008, 06:11 PM
My Brother Died Im In Thought Of Sucicide
Pebbles-Tiger
17-07-2008, 06:14 PM
Dont commit Suicide It Wont make things any better. Just fight through it :)
dylan912?
17-07-2008, 06:25 PM
How Help Me
Explain how you're feeling etc and maybe we'll able to find ways to stop it.
dylan912?
17-07-2008, 06:30 PM
:(:'( and depressed
MissAlice
17-07-2008, 06:31 PM
:( Help Me :'(
I don't know the circumstances, but you must be feeling very very low to even consider such a terrible thought of wanting to take your own life :(. When we lose someone we love, especially someone who is young it doesn't make sense, and it's hard for anyone to deal with. I imagine your parents must be devastated, and you all are desparately searching for answers, why him? Taking your own life isn't going to solve any problems, in fact it's just going to cause more, it's always the ones left behind to deal with it all who suffer, like you are suffering now. You need your family right now, and they need you probably more than ever. There must be someone who you can sit with at home right now?
If there is no one at home you can call childline 0800 1111 it's free and it's confidential.
graffiti
17-07-2008, 06:36 PM
www.teenhelp.org
theres a suicide help subforum on that
Jordan,
17-07-2008, 06:37 PM
I know you feeling upset feeling up and down but the worst thing you can do is think about suicide think positive he lived a good life what would he think if you was like this be brave live a life for both of you
dylan912?
17-07-2008, 06:38 PM
+ Rep To Miss Alice
N-Dubz
17-07-2008, 06:45 PM
A friend of mine and my sister's brother was killed in a car crash.
Thinking of sucide is bad, imagine what your mum's going through? Losing 2 son's would be even worse.
Ring Childline or any other helplines you can find. Depressing as it is, its best to remember the good times of your brother and not the bad times.
RhymeThatGrime
17-07-2008, 06:47 PM
A friend of mine and my sister's brother was killed in a car crash.
Thinking of sucide is bad, imagine what your mum's going through? Losing 2 son's would be even worse.
Ring Childline or any other helplines you can find. Depressing as it is, its best to remember the good times of your brother and not the bad times.
Your step/half sisters brother*
And erm unlucky about your brother, R.I.P.
MissAlice
17-07-2008, 06:57 PM
I know you feeling upset feeling up and down but the worst thing you can do is think about suicide think positive he lived a good life what would he think if you was like this be brave live a life for both of you
A friend of mine and my sister's brother was killed in a car crash.
Thinking of sucide is bad, imagine what your mum's going through? Losing 2 son's would be even worse.
Ring Childline or any other helplines you can find. Depressing as it is, its best to remember the good times of your brother and not the bad times.
I hope you are reading these replies, because they are right, you need a hug and someone to share your feelings with, so please do something positive and get the help you need :)
RyanDOT
17-07-2008, 07:29 PM
Yes, i agree with MissAlice, i think you could call ChildLine because they give your information and help.
Think about the good times you had with your brother, taking your own life will make things worse for your parents.
R.I.P :(
RedStratocas
18-07-2008, 04:38 PM
if this is true, then you really shouldnt be telling people online. get some help in real life, an online interaction isnt NEARLY as comforting than a physical one. the computer is the last place you should be right now.
Zehro
18-07-2008, 05:53 PM
That is tough. But take into mind what other people have said, if you die as well, your parents will have to cope with two deaths. They need you as much as you need them.
lPinoy
18-07-2008, 06:16 PM
Yes, your parents must be devastated. If you leave them, think how bad it can affect them. Just remember, your brother will always be watching you and he will be proud of you whatever you do but killing yourself, that is something that he wont be and think of it - suicide won't solve anything.
It will be hard to cope but I ask for you to try and just focus on whats ahead of you. If your still feeling unsure, try calling ChildLine. Letting everything go to someone will lift the heavy load of you.
I understand how you feel, seeing as i've had many good times with my brother. But just knowing this, I know sometime, he'll leave me nevertheless but as time passes, I will join him again.
Good luck,
Fatface.
Technologic
18-07-2008, 06:42 PM
I highly you doubt you would be posting on a forum...
Wouldn't you be mourning and such?
Nereo
18-07-2008, 07:42 PM
if this is true, then you really shouldnt be telling people online. get some help in real life, an online interaction isnt NEARLY as comforting than a physical one. the computer is the last place you should be right now.
Thats very true. My parents died last year and I didnt go anywhere near my computer for about six months. You should be seeking help in real life not this forum.
jackass
18-07-2008, 09:09 PM
Very sorry to hear about this and I cannot imagine what you must be going through right now.
I'd just like to say, simple as it is, suicide is not the answer. Think about your parents, your mother or your father, losing one son is bad enough, think about how devestated they would be if they lost two. You can fight this.
And to the people saying hes lying, even if he was, then thats just him, I know it might be a sick joke. But if he isn't lying, I wonder who the sick one is then?
lPinoy
18-07-2008, 09:24 PM
Yes, i advise you to stay strong and keep going.
N-Dubz
18-07-2008, 11:12 PM
Those people who are like "I DIDNT GO NEAR THE COMPUTER ?? :s"..
He probably copes with things completly diffrent from you? All people find diffrent things to take there minds off things, yes maybe the computer isnt the best thing for him but I always confide in my sister when I have a problem or when I'm upset and if she wasn't there I wouldn't know who to turn to.. Maybe he's just finding a diffrent way of dealing with this news? Yes he should try call childline and find things to take his mind of it - and if a computer happen's to be one of those things then so be it.
Gosh.
Teyauna.
18-07-2008, 11:37 PM
Omg, I am sooo sorry. How did he die? Do not commit suicide, it does not solve ANYTHING! I'm sure a lot of people love you and care about you and will help you get through any pain and sorrow that you are feeling. And if you do commit suicide, it would only break their hearts even more. Losing two family members in a short period of time? Don't do it. Period.
Cisse9
19-07-2008, 08:38 AM
. You should be seeking help in real life not this forum.
Ye especially with people on this forum :rolleyes:
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