shyyyness

[splatttt]

So im really shy. And when im shy i get really nervous, and when i get nervous i get the feeling of being really ill. Like feeling sick/stomache ache!

i really dont know how to get over it.
sounds like a stupid thread, but its really bothering me :l

[Stacey.]

I'm sure there are some websites with tips on how to boost confidence.
All I can say is when you get nervous take some deep breaths and calm down.
Just be yourself.
:)

[AMERlCA...]

So im really shy. And when im shy i get really nervous, and when i get nervous i get the feeling of being really ill. Like feeling sick/stomache ache!

i really dont know how to get over it.
sounds like a stupid thread, but its really bothering me :l


i get the same feeling when am shy

[NIKKEE]

I feel the same :)

[Juch]

Yea same, im usually shy around new people but once I get to know them I start to feel a bit more confident

[N-Dubz]

awwww
some of my mates are shy and when i first got to know them i just thought they was ignorant :P shy aint a good look

try loosen up whats the worse that could happen?

most of them time people are so much nicer when you actually talk back and dont get shy. ;) and ill is just nerves & you really shouldnt be getting nervous just learn to not care and take every second as it comes.

[Janczyk]

I am very shy and nothing seems to conquer it for me :(

[Immenseman]

I think a lot of teens are pretty shy, especially around newer people. In fact, I'd say the majority are with newer people anyway. You just need to be yourself, maybe you're shy because you're scared of what others are going to think about you. When you're feeling sick with shyness like someone else suggested you just need to calm yourself down with some deep breaths and then carry on. Most importantly, be yourself :)

[cocaine]

well you know the cure for shyness :D either get so drunk you can't remember a thing, or just go up to people you don't know (or do, but people you dont know work best) and act confident.

[splatttt]

I think a lot of teens are pretty shy, especially around newer people. In fact, I'd say the majority are with newer people anyway. You just need to be yourself, maybe you're shy because you're scared of what others are going to think about you. When you're feeling sick with shyness like someone else suggested you just need to calm yourself down with some deep breaths and then carry on. Most importantly, be yourself :)


thats exactly it lol :(

[Janczyk]

thats exactly it lol :(
That's my problem as well so you're not alone.

[Swinkid]

I'm Shy about literly anything... Anyways, i would trust people on this forum, jsut listen to what they say.

[e5]

You might be nervous because your too concious about what other's think of you. Don't think about that, and you'll do okay.

Edit: Just read some posts, Jake said same thing.

It's true though, and the best way to get around it, is not care about how you look (but I'm giving there advice there which i can't take tbh lol), or ask then how you look. You can also persuade yourself you look good, as it can boost your confidence ;).

[splatttt]

i just cant see any of this happening any time soon lol x[

screweeed aha

[Ugawa]

So im really shy. And when im shy i get really nervous, and when i get nervous i get the feeling of being really ill. Like feeling sick/stomache ache!

i really dont know how to get over it.
sounds like a stupid thread, but its really bothering me :l


Kirsti! you shy *falls over* Just pretend people your talking to are like people on this forum :D

XX

[splatttt]

hahahah
my best friends always dont believe me when i say im shy.
cos obvioulsy im not with them


but lol, with most its another story!

[Meanies]

Yea same, im usually shy around new people but once I get to know them I start to feel a bit more confident

DITTO!


Just force yourself to go and talk to people you're shy around, the easiest way to do it :)

[Stephen08]

well you know the cure for shyness :D either get so drunk you can't remember a thing, or just go up to people you don't know (or do, but people you dont know work best) and act confident.

I only need to be a wee bit drunk to get the confidence to jump up and start dancing and talking to anyone lol

I'm super shy but I've always got the feeling there is something tiny locking the confidence up.

The weird thing though is that if I'm with a mate for like an hour I'm really chatty and stuff but the next day I act all shy with them for about 10 minutes lol

[roulette]

i never really get nervous i thinks its because i have a life

[Hollyish]

I am shy.
well, was :P

But like recently i have become more confident, i think it's like for the people i hang around with.. they are loud and confident so maybe it's liked rubbed off onto me lol.