Depressed & Lonely

[Phreedom]

Is there something wrong with me or what is going on? Is it just a stage?

I keep watching these romantic movies and feel really lonely and want to fall in love with a girl of my dreams, but I feel like I will never find her.

I've watched A walk to remember, Jerry Maguire, several, and I keep getting more and more depressed. I eventually get over it and think of the things I can do in life until then, but I then watch another movie and get depressed for a few days like I usually do. Is this just a stage I'm going through? I'm only 15 but yet I want to find love. It's not sexual hormones, I don't want it for the sex, I really just want true love and to be with someone my entire life. I don't know what I should do. Can anyone tell me what I might be going through or what is wrong if it is something wrong like a stage of depression? Is this what happens during puberty?

[RedStratocas]

It's not sexual hormones, I don't want it for the sex, I really just want true love and to be with someone my entire life. I don't know what I should do.

well really its still hormones. even if you really dont want sex, its hormones telling you that you want to be with a girl. as other people are sure to say, you're only 15. youre just thinking about it too much. i wouldnt really say its a stage of depression, but it might be part of something else going on in your life. any extended period of little to no romance for people of both genders makes a person a bit anxious. just chillax a bit.

[leah]

OMG I watched wimbledon the otherday
its like a Romcom and yeh I felt well lonely after :(
I feel your pain [:

[Janczyk]

I do and I'm nearly 17 so y'know :rolleyes:

[Zak]

Is there something wrong with me or what is going on? Is it just a stage?

I keep watching these romantic movies and feel really lonely and want to fall in love with a girl of my dreams, but I feel like I will never find her.

I've watched A walk to remember, Jerry Maguire, several, and I keep getting more and more depressed. I eventually get over it and think of the things I can do in life until then, but I then watch another movie and get depressed for a few days like I usually do. Is this just a stage I'm going through? I'm only 15 but yet I want to find love. It's not sexual hormones, I don't want it for the sex, I really just want true love and to be with someone my entire life. I don't know what I should do. Can anyone tell me what I might be going through or what is wrong if it is something wrong like a stage of depression? Is this what happens during puberty?

My advice - Stop watching those films :P

Anyway I never had your problem but I think you should enjoy yourself while your young. Just go out and find a girl, it's not too hard just be yourself and try not to portray yourself as shy. If you use games like 'Habbo' to try and find what you need, I wouldn't bothered as your likely just to be messed around.

What your going through I think is normal, I used to get depressed.. not because I couldn't get a girl it was because I thought my school was against me. But they had good reason to because I was not attending school.. Although at the time it didn't make sense to me at the time and got me down.

I never really noticed about the puberty thing, it just came naturally to me and because I was an early developer I was proud of the changes that were happening to me. Although my lust for girls became alot more apparent.

My advice is not to worry about these things, you are likely to meet someone soon. Just keep trying!

[ChaoticSoul]

Interact's got it spot-on.
Just be yourself and never try to mould yourself into what they might want because if they don't like you for you....They really aren't worth the effort :)

[SugarBabyRach]

Like chaotic said dont change yourself because there is someone who will like you for you,

And them movies, theyre aload of bull

the actors cheat and lie in rl, [:

Dnt worry [;

[tasav]

Quite frankly, you're still young. It's normal to feel lonely and want romantic attention, but only in rare cases does a real teenage relationship last long enough for the two to "fall in love". I'm not saying they never happen, because I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, so of course we love each other. But all I'm saying is that you shouldn't try to rush into anything. It probably is just a temporary feeling, but it won't go away until you give those movies a break! :-P

And like Interact said, enjoy your youth :] You don't need a girlfriend to be a happy teenager, despite what society says.

[Britvic]

I know exactly how you feel.
I'm 16 and I just want to meet the girl of my dreams!

[Access]

I know how you feel, I was watching Eastenders a few nights ago and when Patrick put 'When a Man loves a Woman' on the record player my heart sunk..........

[Virgin Mary]

Those movies aren't real - don't have such a romantic idea of love. Love is only a state of mind brought on by chemicals in order to further the human race. It's all hormones, hence why teenagers are so much more hornier than adults and have a subconscious desire to do adult things (drinking, smoking, general age related rule breaking etc. - thus, an urge to be in a relationship) and probably just the concept of something new is appealing to the teenage mind.

[NIKKEE]

I know how you feel, I'm INCREDIBLY influenced by films and TV shows, anything that looks good I wish it would happen to me and when it doesn't I feel even worse, I let myself get caught up in fantasy's.
But anyway, of course you will find love, as you said you're only 15, just give it time.

[Meoww.]

Tell me about it I feel that way all the time </3

[Spiffing]

Nah its not just you. Sometimes you have to wait along time for someone to come along that you really love.
Hey, my brothers 21 and his longest relationship was about 2 days. He's only ever had 1 gf lul.
Dont worry about, tons of people feel a bit lonely but your time will come :3

[Earthquake]

You wouldn't wanna fall in love young age, trust me, I've been in that situation :rolleyes: Eventually you'll grow out of that fairytale and just want a girlfriend to care about, yea loves not an option at any age once your minds clear but come on, be real. Just find a girl, if shes right for you, your fall in love with her, just don't think or fall in love with anyone just for random things as it'll seem abit desperate xo Remember, you've got your whole life to lead, your bound to fall in love more then once.

[Imnotpure]

A relationship can be the best, but also the worst thing in your life. So dont rush into one, theres bad things about a relationship too.

[xo-magey-ox]

wellllthere is a simple answer stop watching romanic movies !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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