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Pyroka
28-07-2008, 08:18 PM
Basically, last thursday i met a girl who is from scotland, but is cousins to my mates gf (who I'm very close with). In all honesty, I met her last year too but I've fell for her, and we've gotten really close (up till now). Today she had to go home, back to scottyland and as much as I thought I wouldn't be depressed, I really am missing her likeeeeee heeeeeeeeeelll... :(

said she'd maybe comeback next week from scotland cuz my mate & her gf are up scotland with her, and she might come back on the train with them but fact is, it might just be an hour or so i cna stay with her and then she's off for like... ages. why im posting this i guess, is because ive had a long-distance relationship before (not this far though) and it went terribly wrong. My ex got back with her ex and well, went down the pan from that. I'm worried that this new girl, becky, will end up with her ex seeing as they only split up a few days before she came down to devon.

is that paranoid of me, natural of me or should i trust her more? it's really got me in a tight spot. =[

Leetzgirl
28-07-2008, 08:21 PM
Basically, last thursday i met a girl who is from scotland, but is cousins to my mates gf (who I'm very close with). In all honesty, I met her last year too but I've fell for her, and we've gotten really close (up till now). Today she had to go home, back to scottyland and as much as I thought I wouldn't be depressed, I really am missing her likeeeeee heeeeeeeeeelll... :(

said she'd maybe comeback next week from scotland cuz my mate & her gf are up scotland with her, and she might come back on the train with them but fact is, it might just be an hour or so i cna stay with her and then she's off for like... ages. why im posting this i guess, is because ive had a long-distance relationship before (not this far though) and it went terribly wrong. My ex got back with her ex and well, went down the pan from that. I'm worried that this new girl, becky, will end up with her ex seeing as they only split up a few days before she came down to devon.

is that paranoid of me, natural of me or should i trust her more? it's really got me in a tight spot. =[
quick question; is your sister on hoilday?

anyways; i know you really like her; possibley even love her, but you gotta accept the fact she gotta go to scotland; and if you really love her, you would do all means to stay with her ;)

Pyroka
28-07-2008, 09:02 PM
no my sister isnt on holiday you paedophile.

yeeeeeeee i guess you are right, but idk, it just feels like im going to get stabbed in the back again. :(

e5
28-07-2008, 09:42 PM
It's natural to miss the girl you love, obv :P

Just see how it goes, but I understand you don't want to be hurt again. You could talk to her, but aslong as you know she won't get angry with you. Keep contact with her. If the girl I liked left, i'd feel like there's not much point to living atm :(

Pyroka
28-07-2008, 10:23 PM
Eeeh, yeah I guess you're right. I'm worried that I'll come across as a annoying person constantly texting her and wanting to talk to her. that's my biggest worry, ill keep contact but is texting like every hour or so wrong? :(:( grah.

FlyingJesus
28-07-2008, 10:45 PM
Did you actually get some

Pyroka
28-07-2008, 11:06 PM
whats it to you mr tom.

FlyingJesus
28-07-2008, 11:09 PM
A question :S

Pyroka
28-07-2008, 11:11 PM
if its the meaning i think youre meaning it BY, then no i didnt bed her.

NIKKEE
29-07-2008, 12:39 AM
Well, you don't know her well enough to trust her yet. And trust comes from building a strong relationship, something that will be hard for you because of distance.
Seriously, she's probably not "the one". There are probably billions of people out there and I can guarantee you after a week or so of trying not to think about her, you eventually won't have to and you'll move on.
No point trying cause it'll all end in tears.

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