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Nuka-Cola
12-08-2008, 09:58 AM
ok i recently asked this girl out in the summer holidays and she said yes but shes my bestmates ex ... he doesnt know yet and probably wont until we get back to school but i dont know what to say to him. I think she dumped him.

Imp!
12-08-2008, 11:49 AM
Oooh thats awkward, well he's gonna find out either through gossip or through you so it depends what you want to do. I'm sure he'll get over it though ;)

drama
12-08-2008, 11:57 AM
ok i recently asked this girl out in the summer holidays and she said yes but shes my bestmates ex ... he doesnt know yet and probably wont until we get back to school but i dont know what to say to him. I think she dumped him.
yeah same im going out with my best friends ex, but it really depends on the situation.

In mine, he dumped her and got off with somone the next day, so he idnd't really mind that i was with her, just tell him and hope for the best, because he'll find out eventually.

Earthquake
13-08-2008, 09:39 PM
He'll get over it, if he don't, ditch him.

leah
15-08-2008, 09:06 AM
Meet up with him, and tell him face to face.
He'll respect you much more for it and it might bother him if he found out from someone else.

Pyroka
15-08-2008, 06:56 PM
I'm going out with my best friends ex right now, he's completely cool with it and gets along with her fine. Not all the time situations like this turn sour, us (me, exbf and gf) can hang around and chat like any other friends could...

I wouldn't worry about it too much, but you're best to tell him first as his initial reaction will be bad, but it won't be as bad as you 'keeping a secret from him', when it comes from someone else. Well, that's the impression it'll have on him anyway. You REALLY should've asked permission to ask her out, or to see if he was okay with it... maybe permissions not the best word, but an approval of it.

Christian
16-08-2008, 02:41 AM
I went out with my bestfriends ex a while ago and he didn't know, when I told him he got a bit angry because he didn't like her and fought she was a complete *****. But I stuck to my guns and in the end he was happy with it, he just needed to get use to it, you'll be fine! The sooner you tell him, the better.

Javascrypt
16-08-2008, 02:42 AM
ok i recently asked this girl out in the summer holidays and she said yes but shes my bestmates ex ... he doesnt know yet and probably wont until we get back to school but i dont know what to say to him. I think she dumped him.
Msn? The Answer.

.:TeamAmerica:.
23-08-2008, 05:09 PM
He'll get over it, if he don't, ditch him.

BROS BEFORE ****

RoundTrees
23-08-2008, 06:40 PM
BROS BEFORE ****

Agree'd LOL

Nuka-Cola
24-08-2008, 08:26 AM
BROS BEFORE ****


nah id much rather have my girl

Hollyish
24-08-2008, 06:52 PM
nah id much rather have my girl


;l why?

just my opinion but friends are more important than girlfriends/boyfriends.

Jaiisun
26-08-2008, 06:36 PM
just my opinion but friends are more important than girlfriends/boyfriends.

I disagree, i'd put anyone before my current girlfriend. I'd gladly shoot any of you in the head for her.

With regards to your situation; if he's a real friend, he'll understand - if not, he's not exactly a 'best' friend. After all, there's nothing going on between him and this girl, so what right does he have to complain?

;].
Jay x

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