Bully

[Fez]

Blergh

For the last month of year 8 I was somewhat 'tortued' by a literal '******' chavistic thug, a 'skinhead' bully as they are in my school's culture, my friends just stand by and watch him punch me around the back of my neck, grab the two bones on the back of my neck, call me the usual unimagintive mumbo jumbo, ask me unformfortable questions and sometimes spit in my actual face.

Now usually when a bully gets on my case, they've got something against me, either it's because I'm doing incredibly well in their 'personal' subject, having a freckin' monobrow, talking to their friends and sometimes being the general nerd I am.

But this time, I seriously did nothing, I just had to sit next to him one day and he lent one of my pens. We got on slighlty and I helped a little bit, when I asked him at the end of the lesson for my pen back, he just laughed and told me to '**** off'.

Well, it went on for around 2 months. I told subject teachers, my head of year and all of my out-of-school friends, but nothing changed. So this what I want you guys to tell me - does this seem like the sensible thing to do?



If the bully continues annoying the crap out of me, just keep telling the actual subject teachers for a week
If after the week, it's not taking my warning, tell my head of year about it all,
If after 2 more weeks and the annoyances get worser or just stay, tell my mentor or my ex-'guideman'
If after more than a month, and it's still going on, tell my mother about it
And finally, if all else fails, after more than 2 months. Beat the ******* **** out of him

[Leetzgirl]

Shorter it too days instead dude, maxium should be 2 weeks and you batter him out

[Fez]

Haha, I just want it to seem like ''He's been doing it for a long time, and I can't take any more.'' if it was a 2 week thing then I'd get punished more.

The last time this happened I told NO-ONE, and just beated the crap out of the guy, I didn't get punished but I'm sure it affected the relationships between the teachers and me.

[Bef]

I would start by beating the livin crud out of him but its up to u.
U mention a few points of urself like this monobrow
Seriously, if this monobrow gets u down, get ur eyebrows done :)

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[buttons]

no, just go straight to the head if they do **** all get your parents involved. my mam took me outta school 3months until they actually did somethin bout the bullyin with me and it worked, took it's time but it was worth it.

[BlueTango]

If hes just annoying you and swearing at you; I don't think that this time it's that bigger deal to be honest. It happens to us all and we just have to live with it, but if it gets extreme then maybe speak to your head of year about it.

If it's physical violence I'd cut the crap and go to my Head of Year as that would be the only effective method in my opinion. If that failed, well - get your mother to deal with it

A hint though if you tell your parents: Never write a letter - They'll fob her off 'till their hearts content. A phonecall or visit is the most affective method.

[J0SH]

Don't let him step over you, fight back.. If you're not the best fighter just 1 really had punch to the jaw should give him the message to not mess with you. If you're going to swing move your shoulder back slightly and just swing foward with all your weight going into the fist and knock that chav out cold. He won't mess with you ever again.

[Fez]

I would start by beating the livin crud out of him but its up to u.
U mention a few points of urself like this monobrow
Seriously, if this monobrow gets u down, get ur eyebrows done :)
Pah, I do have them done, monthly. But obviously everyone's noticed it. @buttons, I might add that to the list but I doubt a few words from the head will do anything.

[e5]

just constantly get your eye brows done, and then they'll forget about it. You can try change what gets you known as a 'nerd' and give yourself a reputation for something else. Act cooler about stuff, be rude to your teachers and change your appearance maybe (;)) and then this bully will get confused. If he continues to bully you... batter him

[Earthquake]

Touch his willy.
& tell him you fancy him.

That would scare the **** outa him.

[dirrty]

its all good saying beat him up, but do you think you actually can? if so, then go straight for it, so he'll know not to mess around with you. if you dont think you can, then do all the options beside beat him up, possibly within a time frame of a few days. so that everyone knows then best action can be taken, instead of telling your mentor or head of year who takes a few days to actually do something, then telling someone else.


Touch his willy.
& tell him you fancy him.

That would scare the **** outa him.
or turn him on.

[AndrewByrne]

Telling teachers does nothing :\
I know...

tell your mum first

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[Stephen08]

Touch his willy.
& tell him you fancy him.

That would scare the **** outa him.

Damien you tried it then? lol

[buttons]

just constantly get your eye brows done, and then they'll forget about it. You can try change what gets you known as a 'nerd' and give yourself a reputation for something else. Act cooler about stuff, be rude to your teachers and change your appearance maybe (;)) and then this bully will get confused. If he continues to bully you... batter him
no ******* way. don't change for the bullies! :O that is just stupid. don't try to be different so he likes you after everything he has done, you could possibly become one of "them" i still suggest going straight to the head if they do nothing can't you go to like the council? people higher than the school :S we used to go to them with problems about one of our teachers & he finially got the sack. get your parents involved.

[Earthquake]

Damien you tried it then? lol
No, it was suggested in a very old thread.

[Fez]

just constantly get your eye brows done, and then they'll forget about it. You can try change what gets you known as a 'nerd' and give yourself a reputation for something else. Act cooler about stuff, be rude to your teachers and change your appearance maybe (;)) and then this bully will get confused. If he continues to bully you... batter him
Pah, I love being a nerd and whenever other people called me it I just yelled 'NERD POWURRR', they all take me as a sort of 'nerd comedian'. Nobody takes me seriously and I love it.

[Zabuza]

If he physically hurts you, you can get the police involved.

[Fez]

I've decided that if this goes on for another 2 weeks when I get back, I'll take all the non-violent action I had planned, but instead of telling my mother, I'll ask my mentor to call her and ask her to come up or something, my mummy wub me ;D

This sort of thing happened before and when my mum came up, and had a 2 hour talk, the guy got expelled for the term and then he didn't bother me ever again. If he does bother me again after the talk thing, I'll take physical action.

[Technologic]

Last person to bully me (year 6) got expelled mwuah ha.

[Tbh.]

If the bully continues annoying the crap out of me, just keep telling the actual subject teachers for a week
If after the week, it's not taking my warning, tell my head of year about it all,
If after 2 more weeks and the annoyances get worser or just stay, tell my mentor or my ex-'guideman'
If after more than a month, and it's still going on, tell my mother about it
And finally, if all else fails, after more than 2 months. Beat the ******* **** out of him



i highly doubt this as if you were going to do it
you would've done it by now..

[Bef]

Seriously, i would recomend starting boxing. Its great for confidence, teaches u how to defend yourself, lets your anger out and gives u a sense of acheivment!
My uncle trains kids how to box and i used to go along and help out, there was so many boys who started out with us as little weeds who got picked on and now they dont. Not because they throw there weight around, just because people no they could if they wanted to!

[5,5]

heres how the fight will end up
bully > nerd
how about you dont be a ***** about it and tell your mom, and instead egg his house or something.
or you could tell him your a moderator on a habbo hotel forum and tell him youll ban him if he continues

[Bun]

heres how the fight will end up
bully > nerd
how about you dont be a ***** about it and tell your mom, and instead egg his house or something.
or you could tell him your a moderator on a habbo hotel forum and tell him youll ban him if he continues
we aren't all immature, thickwitted americans you know?

like bef recommended, start boxing. it's well fun ;).

[sock]

If I was you i'd go smack the hell out of him but ye up to you.

or even phone the police as he's assaulted you.

[Decode]

i highly doubt this as if you were going to do it
you would've done it by now..

Yeah, if he is stronger than you and you are scared to start a fight with him bring a small baseball bat in your bag or something.

[BaybeeElin]

i dont see why you should change your appearance etc for him unless it really bothers you, cause they'll always find something to take the piss out of you because.
you need to get adults involved, there probably the only people who can scare him out of bullying you
if your teachers wont do anything get your mum to do something about it lols.
i dont suggest you start a fight, your a geek, hes a bully.. its just natural for a bully to win.. and if you gave him a thick lip or something he will hate you and bully you more probably, and even get his 'sorry hard crew' on you, i presume he probably has a gang, like most bullies.

like my essay :D

[Fez]

Pah, you guys all think I'm weak just because I said I'm a 'nerd', I've had bullies countless times before and I know how to deal with them physically, it's also werid because I box in my free time and someone mensioned that :P

I go back on Wednesday, he might've grown up or we might be in different classes, all I really want is to be away from him or him to be away from me.

[Tbh.]

Pah, you guys all think I'm weak just because I said I'm a 'nerd', I've had bullies countless times before and I know how to deal with them physically, it's also werid because I box in my free time and someone mensioned that :P

I go back on Wednesday, he might've grown up or we might be in different classes, all I really want is to be away from him or him to be away from me.

i never said you were weak
i said that you probably wont do it as if he was bothering you that much
you would've done it by now
oh and btw just cause you do boxing.. it doesnt mean ****.

[Slowpoke]

I'm being serious when I say this -

Get him on his own, and beat the living crap out of him - You'd be surprised how his confidence ceases to exist when he doesn't have his friends around him. You'll find that that will be the end of it because he wouldn't dare tell his mates what really happened.

[Emzy]

I've decided that if this goes on for another 2 weeks when I get back, I'll take all the non-violent action I had planned, but instead of telling my mother, I'll ask my mentor to call her and ask her to come up or something, my mummy wub me ;D

This sort of thing happened before and when my mum came up, and had a 2 hour talk, the guy got expelled for the term and then he didn't bother me ever again. If he does bother me again after the talk thing, I'll take physical action.
Aww bless lol. Just keep telling teachers and your parents

[Fez]

But I have more control over myself than other people, and I was only going to do it if it you know, got out of hand. I said the boxing thing because someone mensioned it.

I'm just gonna see what happens, I'm bound to be in a different class anyway.

[Tbh.]

But I have more control over myself than other people, and I was only going to do it if it you know, got out of hand. I said the boxing thing because someone mensioned it.

I'm just gonna see what happens, I'm bound to be in a different class anyway.

oh right i thought you brought it up on your own accord
but srsly yeah if it does continue
just man up and do it
cause otherwise it'll get worse if you just let it happen

i've seen it happen before

[Leetzgirl]

Last time someone bullied me, i just kept smacking him across the face till he glasses fell off.

After that, another boy called david was being an idiot and started bullying me, and i just blocked him and gave im a mega punch in the nose.

That was year 7 and my life been fine.

[Hevvs]

I'm being serious when I say this -

Get him on his own, and beat the living crap out of him - You'd be surprised how his confidence ceases to exist when he doesn't have his friends around him. You'll find that that will be the end of it because he wouldn't dare tell his mates what really happened.

Yeah you would be surprised. That's what my friend had to do with one boy at our school, no one messes with him now. This 'chav' never leaves his friends now coz' he know's what might happen to him.

[Stephen08]

Last time someone bullied me, i just kept smacking him across the face till he glasses fell off.

After that, another boy called david was being an idiot and started bullying me, and i just blocked him and gave im a mega punch in the nose.

That was year 7 and my life been fine.

And then you woke up lol

[Wootzeh]

Last time someone bullied me, i just kept smacking him across the face till he glasses fell off.

After that, another boy called david was being an idiot and started bullying me, and i just blocked him and gave im a mega punch in the nose.

That was year 7 and my life been fine.
u got bullied by someone with glasses lmaooo hahaha

[Leetzgirl]

And then you woke up lol

nahh wasnt a dream rofl.


u got bullied by someone with glasses lmaooo hahaha


Well ofc your always gonna be bullied when your deaf so shut up.

[AlexOC]

:o

I read that fast and seriously for about 5 seconds thought you said he 'lent on your penis', i had to re-read it a couple of times

[Bef]

nahh wasnt a dream rofl.




Well ofc your always gonna be bullied when your deaf so shut up.

Your deaf? Never knew that.
A good mate of mine is deaf and hes never been bullied, nobody would dare as hes such a strong guy. Lovely, apart from when he randomly lifts you up and carries you down the street! Lol!

[H0BJ0B]

Tell the cops! They deal with bullying.

[wolfsburg]

go straight to no.5 and don't think about the consequences, seriously.

[Leetzgirl]

Your deaf? Never knew that.
A good mate of mine is deaf and hes never been bullied, nobody would dare as hes such a strong guy. Lovely, apart from when he randomly lifts you up and carries you down the street! Lol!


Lol at that. I'm not a strong/big guy as you would say ah :P. Just a normal kid (;!


Oh, for the thread, i agree with above

stright to no. 5

[Virgin Mary]

What's its myspace? I'll handle this.

[Nereo]

Smash him in mate. Bullies never do it again. Even if you get clobbered he wont try it again if he knows you will fight back :D

[drama]

just batter him..

[Nussan]

Perhaps you should take yourself more seriously and other people will too. In a previous post you stated, "Nobody takes me seriously and I love it." Well, if nobody takes you seriously then do something about it. This bully obviously thinks your a joke and thinks nothing of you.

[Mickster]

Firstly, I'd like to start of by saying LOL MONOBROW.

Secondly, learn to fight back. Coming on a Habbo forum and telling us isn't they way to solve this. If you just go up to him and slap him, he'll not bother you. ;D

Well, at least in my school all of the 'hard cases' are weaker than most of the people they pick on.

[Fez]

We're in entirely different classes, and he's actually gotten some 'exclusion warnings', 3 of them in fact. 4 of them in my school and your gone for good. Thanks for the help guys :)

[ToxicPaddy]

Tbh, Purpleness, I would point blank refuse to go into school, and if your head of year rings you explain the situation, explain you have told him and he hasn't done anything, and say you won't be coming back in until he sorts them out. Hope my help is useful, contact me if you need more help :)

[[DC]eption]

Haha, I just want it to seem like ''He's been doing it for a long time, and I can't take any more.'' if it was a 2 week thing then I'd get punished more.

The last time this happened I told NO-ONE, and just beated the crap out of the guy, I didn't get punished but I'm sure it affected the relationships between the teachers and me.

A geek beating a bully up ha!

[Fez]

eption;5070424']A geek beating a bully up ha!
We are not all lifeless, demented and unsocialable freaks :P

[Imp!]

Yeah I suffered a similar situation but anyways

tell your mum and dad that its been going on for ages and your getting sick of it, generally my dad would be calm but he took a rip ( seeing as he is on the B.O.G) anyways next day all the vice principals + principals were like " Oh my god we are so sorry for letting this happen" and then he got warned that if it was done he would be expelled yadayadayada. The point is get the message across to EVERYONE! Even if its like someone like Childline or someone, they will take action for you as they have done in some cases I have read

[N-Dubz]

why have you waited so long to take action?
if they hit you, hit them back harder because thats the only way it will stop - if you tell head of years and stuff they will just make the situation more visable and probably worse.

bullys go for ones they know wont fight back so my advice to you is either hit them back or confront them yourself or continue to get bullied.
& you can always change being a "nerd" its not the best way to sit through school, oh and while your at it get the monobrow done.

[stephen008]

I used to be a non-fightback person at school but now even if someone touches me as I joke I turn round and push em back as a joke, and its like a reflex action I have.. Someone, even someone I like hits me or something, I just hit em back lol :S Its weird but it makes me feel better :lol:

[Soy]

If you go with the last option, you best start eating those vitamins

[Tbh.]

For the last month of year 8 I was somewhat 'tortued' by a literal '******' chavistic thug, a 'skinhead' bully as they are in my school's culture

http://www.mywii.com.au/img/news/Box-Art-for-Bully--Scholarship-Edition--1.jpg

[Ras]

hehe..

[Fez]

Haha, made me lol for a while

[Loqo]

And finally, if all else fails, after more than 2 months. Beat the ******* **** out of him
[/LIST]

Go for it! He wont bother you again, trust me.

[Holofoil]

Same thing happened to me for a while years ago... One day when I was particlarly stressed I just turned round and smacked him and made his nose bleed, and he's never said anything since then.

[Mojoman1000]

The sensible answer would be to tell the head teacher, or get your parents to talk to him/her or the school board, if that fails then..

Well, to be completely honest, the only real way to get him off your back, if to beat him senseless, preferably infront a crowd. It's risky, but if done correctly, makes you feel the king of the universe.

I'd give tips on how to beat said bully senseless, but I don't think it would be approved on here :P