the girl from work.

[blanky12!]

so,

it started off that i started working for a place in my town, met a really nice girl and i like her, built up a funny relationship - then he went out with her, basically, and he was jelious and prosessive, and she didn't like it, she broke up with him for a week, then went out with him again. for 2 months, but nothing happened between them.

as time went on, me and her built up a pretty stable relationship, and i started liking her that tad bit more, even tho he was seeing her.

tonight, we watched a movie, her choose, i brought some chocolates sat next to hear, she did what ever she did, eet them etc.

that ended, and she went back home and went out with the other guy.. :'(.

I'm going to give up on all hope with the girl. I'm going to let him have her again. Even though i've told her it's a very bad idea. :(

[Meanies]

All I can say is.. plenty more fish in the sea :)

There's obvs something she likes about him

[blanky12!]

All I can say is.. plenty more fish in the sea :)

There's obvs something she likes about him
as she has said, she likes him. I'm going to move on.. but before i do, should i tell her? that i liked her?

[blanky12!]

i don't want her picking betewn two guys, I'm going to leave it, and just be a friend.

[Recursion]

Don't tell her if your leaving it.

[blanky12!]

i'm upset :(

[Browney]

yeah don't tell her. please dont possibly ruin one relationship for your own.

[blanky12!]

another day at work.. she was looking + smiling at me from a far - she kept trying to look over to me? thats got to mean something.. right?

[Leetzgirl]

just wait for it dude,

i would let her come for you, but other then that, go clubbing <3

[Inseriousity.]

another day at work.. she was looking + smiling at me from a far - she kept trying to look over to me? thats got to mean something.. right?

This shows you're trying to be hopeful that there's some sort of attraction but it just looks to me that you're a good friend. Keep it that way. Don't let it ruin it. I'm positive that you won't just cast her aside and as soon as they split (if they do) then make a move...

Until then, do what you say you're going to do and wish them happiness. Continue to be the good friend :)

[blanky12!]

This shows you're trying to be hopeful that there's some sort of attraction but it just looks to me that you're a good friend. Keep it that way. Don't let it ruin it. I'm positive that you won't just cast her aside and as soon as they split (if they do) then make a move...

Until then, do what you say you're going to do and wish them happiness. Continue to be the good friend :)
they're not going out but she likes him.. quite

[BlueEyedSarah]

She is deceiving her current boyfriend with you - she does not sound worth it and she does not sound like a girl I could trust if I dated.

[blanky12!]

She is deceiving her current boyfriend with you - she does not sound worth it and she does not sound like a girl I could trust if I dated.
I spoke to her, she said nothing will happen with me and the b/f again, as she knows what his like.

but his trying to get back with her. So much... Me and her + work are going to cinema tonight - after work which mine starts soon. Will be good, i guess :)

[BaybeeElin]

I spoke to her, she said nothing will happen with me and the b/f again, as she knows what his like.

but his trying to get back with her. So much... Me and her + work are going to cinema tonight - after work which mine starts soon. Will be good, i guess :)

Make sure you sit by her.

At the back. (Y)

[Calon]

just wait for it dude,

i would let her come for you, but other then that, go clubbing <3
No, don't do that, because you don't know her if you get drunk you may leak things. Wait until you know her better, then go clubbing.

[blanky12!]

No,

It was good, a bit of ******** beteewn me and my collegges' But never the less, it was good, but wen it was home time, and my friend offered to take her home, right? and she went off with teh boyfriend :(

I told her last night via text, that I care about her, and I don't want anything to happen to her or get hurt.

This morning I apologized. She said it's fine don't worry.

[Inseriousity.]

I think you should just distance yourself off from a loving feeling for her and just stay friends... I'd normally say go for it but I don't think you've got any chance with her while this 'boyfriend' is still around... and if they're not together, why do you keep refering to him as boyfriend?

[blanky12!]

not sure, but his a *** though.

[BlueTackle]

Ive got this problem, im just going to keep going and try :)

You should, tell her you like her and see what she says,

thats what im doing,

Idk if it works, ill tell you after :)

[Mint]

so,

it started off that i started working for a place in my town, met a really nice girl and i like her, built up a funny relationship - then he went out with her, basically, and he was jelious and prosessive, and she didn't like it, she broke up with him for a week, then went out with him again. for 2 months, but nothing happened between them.

as time went on, me and her built up a pretty stable relationship, and i started liking her that tad bit more, even tho he was seeing her.

tonight, we watched a movie, her choose, i brought some chocolates sat next to hear, she did what ever she did, eet them etc.

that ended, and she went back home and went out with the other guy.. :'(.

I'm going to give up on all hope with the girl. I'm going to let him have her again. Even though i've told her it's a very bad idea. :(
Dry your eyes mate
I know it’s hard to take but her mind has been made up
There’s plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you’ve got to walk away now
It’s over

[Leetzgirl]

No, don't do that, because you don't know her if you get drunk you may leak things. Wait until you know her better, then go clubbing.


i didnt say he had to go clubbing with her lmao...

[blanky12!]

a person who i worked with today said that she speaks to her alot about me and said to me that she likes me... you should do it.

i said i just can't

[blanky12!]

This is going tio look up I think...

This is getting odder and odder.

[BlueEyedSarah]

Then break away from it, don't get trapped.

[blanky12!]

people from work said that we're allways together, they never see us a part.

When I walked in two days ago, they all said "You going out with her"? One lady said - "You should ask her out, she'll say yes you knoooowwww..She speaks to her a lot.. and his a pretty relieable person"

[BlueEyedSarah]

Just ask her out then, if you dont then you will never know what could have been.

[blanky12!]

Just ask her out then, if you dont then you will never know what could have been.
im going to try and get her here tonight :)... but people at work said shes with him :(

and i have a strange feeling that his trying to do something with her :(

edit: The boss at work (cus I was being cheeky to him the other day) said why not go out with her instead of coming to work?

everyone apart from her?(I think) at work knows that i liek her :(

[BlueEyedSarah]

Well if she is with him or still has feelings for him then she will say no to you and it will proberbly risk your friendship with each other.

[blanky12!]

Well if she is with him or still has feelings for him then she will say no to you and it will proberbly risk your friendship with each other.
shes not with him..

the people at work said they talk to her a lot.. and she said she likes me.. righttt but the ex doesn't get it into his head that she don't want to go out with him anymore..

[BlueEyedSarah]

Has she broken all contact with her ex? If not then she must do so as keeping in contact with him will make him think he has a chance. If he does not leave her alone when she has told him to then I think she can get some help from the police if she has proof that he will not leave her alone. In my opinion I think it is best not to get involved until the ex is off the scene and out of her life since you don't know how jealous he could become if you and her got together - but it is up to you what you decide to do.

[blanky12!]

Has she broken all contact with her ex? If not then she must do so as keeping in contact with him will make him think he has a chance. If he does not leave her alone when she has told him to then I think she can get some help from the police if she has proof that he will not leave her alone. In my opinion I think it is best not to get involved until the ex is off the scene and out of her life since you don't know how jealous he could become if you and her got together - but it is up to you what you decide to do.
they work together.. she is always being forced by him.. like at the cinimar.. he kept on making it awkward... a hell of a lot and following her around like a love puppy..

[BlueEyedSarah]

Like a love puppy, more like a stalker. She needs to report these actions to the police and he will be kept away from her, unless she likes him following her around like a 'love puppy'. I sounds like you will not have a chance with her if the ex is still hanging around trying to get with her, it will just cause problems with the both of you.

[blanky12!]

Like a love puppy, more like a stalker. She needs to report these actions to the police and he will be kept away from her, unless she likes him following her around like a 'love puppy'. I sounds like you will not have a chance with her if the ex is still hanging around trying to get with her, it will just cause problems with the both of you.
i just want to tell her my feelings thats all and it's goign to prove hard!!! i hate life i freally do i was crying last night cus i really like her but his trying to make me a jelous ***** and trying to make me look bad..

[BlueEyedSarah]

I don't think it has anything to do with trying to make you jealous or look bad I think he just has feelins for this girl also since he used to be her boyfriend. Don't hate your life over this love triangle situation it is not worth getting into a tangle over. If all you want to do is let her know how you feel then ypu can tell her but don't expect anything mre to happpen with it. I think you will feel better when you have your feelings off your sholders eased up.

[blanky12!]

I don't think it has anything to do with trying to make you jealous or look bad I think he just has feelins for this girl also since he used to be her boyfriend. Don't hate your life over this love triangle situation it is not worth getting into a tangle over. If all you want to do is let her know how you feel then ypu can tell her but don't expect anything mre to happpen with it. I think you will feel better when you have your feelings off your sholders eased up.
Me too. I've just invited her over to stay at mine tonight, watch a movie like we normally, etc etc.. :).. But I very much doubt she'll come round tonight due to him bein with her.. I'm so lost!!

Tomorrow, as well I aranged a movie with another girl (this one is helping me like you Sarah)

[blanky12!]

going to the cinema tonight... going to be fun!

[blanky12!]

last night was good didn't get it for ages. It was fun, cinema - tropic thunder is a good movie...

[1xBabyCakesx1]

Why don't you ask her out for a meal?

Do you think by the way she acts around you that she likes you?

[blanky12!]

Why don't you ask her out for a meal?

Do you think by the way she acts around you that she likes you?
nope. not at all, she just act's cool :P

[blanky12!]

OK.

This is getting stupid.. The guy last night was his birthday.. he had a little to drink(i wernt there) and he kept on trying to kiss her!! she kept on telling him to !@"£ off..he wouldn't leave her alone.. and aparently she cares of me.. as they got into a tricky convosation at his birthday, one of them asked her if she was going out with me.. and the two girls who are my friends just looked at each other, and they ketp cool, the girl cares of me.

[blanky12!]

this is getting pathtic!!

everyone at work think we're going out, we're not allowed to work together.. anymore... "cus we're going out."

but i did text her last night saying
"I care about you, and I don't want anything to happen to you, I want us to stay friends and not let any of this beat us down. I love our relationship and dont want anthing to happen with it.

then she said:
"Woah where did that come from?"

then I texted back and said
"Origanally it came from my heart, as I've been meaning to say that to you for awhile"

then she said
":) Iwell that is origanal and dw nothing will change :-)"

and then I said
"I don't want us to stop talking, I've had an amazing 15 weeks sience I've met you and love everymoment of it and I will not let anyone mess ths up"

she said

"It's has been lesgendary and u r one of my cloest friends man! Nah no one will not even prkes"

:)

[J0SH]

If people think you're going out, let them think, it may put messages in her head and make her actually want to make her go out with you just to shut them other *****s up. :8

[blanky12!]

If people think you're going out, let them think, it may put messages in her head and make her actually want to make her go out with you just to shut them other *****s up. :8
maybe. but i'm not like that.. she said I was pretty honest last night... and so did my friend..