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IceNineKills
25-09-2008, 11:15 PM
Well, this girl I know, called Charlotte was one of my closest friends, no I didn't have feelings for her in a lovey way and she didn't have any for me which was good. She's going out with another good friend of mine called Alex. We used to always go out and get drunk together, along with a few other mates. Me and Charlotte became like amazingly close friends, we literly told each other everything, we used to stay at each others houses etc (not ragging..) and Alex was all cool with it because he knew us both well enough that nothing would ever happen.

I seriously done everything for this girl, I hated seeing her going without, I used to always fork out money on her for alcohol, **** and pretty much a good night out, I had even given her money to go slits on Cocaine with some of her friends (although, I swore to her I would never do that again), gave her a bed to sleep in when noone else would, not even her boyfriend. When she got kicked out of home, I said she could stay at mine for a few days until she worked things out with her mum.

As you can see, we were pretty bloody close but as soon as I got a new job each time we see each other down the local skatepark she acts like she doesn't even know me. Only talks to be if she wants a ciggy, which I do admit, she takes the piss on that one. I end up giving her about 10 a day when I'm down there. She's taken me out of her top Friends on Bebo, Mysace and whatever, never wants to go out anymore and stuff like that.

I've tried talking to her about it but she never seems to listen so I don't bother anymore. She's a huge fan of MySpace and does read every bulletin that has been posted so I once posted this bulletin, not saying it was about her, although it was, and it was just mainly all questions along the line of, "What have I done wrong?" "I've only tried to be a friend."


It's just really annoying me, like one day we were amazing friends and then the next day she doesn't want to know who the hell I am. I've tried making convosations with her when ever I'm having a ciggy break from Skateboarding but she just never seems intrested.

Arch
27-09-2008, 04:13 AM
Maybe your friend Alex got jealous and told her to stop talking to you ? Just guessing i have no idea.

IceNineKills
27-09-2008, 10:34 AM
He's not that kind of person though, he doesn't care if I'm texting her around himor on the phone to her around him..

Arch
27-09-2008, 02:14 PM
True, although maybe inside he did care? Or maybe the girl likes you and shes nervous talking with you now?

Inseriousity.
27-09-2008, 03:58 PM
She sounds like she's just been using you...

e5
27-09-2008, 04:14 PM
Sounds like a user, and the type of person you don't want to be around tbh.

IceNineKills
28-09-2008, 07:31 PM
True, although maybe inside he did care? Or maybe the girl likes you and shes nervous talking with you now?
I doubt that as why now and not back when we first started hanging out?


She sounds like she's just been using you...


Sounds like a user, and the type of person you don't want to be around tbh.

Yeah, I know what you two are on about but I'm always going to be around her, I work with her boyfriend and they always meet when he finishes work plus me and Alex both skate at the same skatepark and Char is always there too.

Leetzgirl
28-09-2008, 07:33 PM
How long this been happening?

IceNineKills
28-09-2008, 07:38 PM
A month? Maybe longer.

Leetzgirl
28-09-2008, 07:41 PM
Oh...

Idk what to suggest if it been that long.

Edited by lAscend (Forum Super Moderator): Posts merged due to lag.

Sxejess
29-09-2008, 06:57 PM
Well I'm just going to say the same as everyone else really, she sounds like she is using you but she could just be having trouble at home or it could just be Alex, you never know, you may think you know someone but really you don't know exactly how they feel because your not them :( I'm not trying to sound mean but because its been going on for a month then it could be him, or maybe she thinks that because you two are working together then maybe she thinks you might try and get Alex to get someone else, I'm not saying you would (you don't sound like you ever could do that), but she could feel that :( I hope it works out between you two because I hate losing friends just like you do

IceNineKills
29-09-2008, 10:23 PM
She did have trouble at home a while ago but that's all sorted in the past. Many other people have said to me, "What's wrong with Char these days? She's never as chatty." and stuff along those lines. As far as I'm aware, she doesn't have any problems. Her family have a good money flow coming in. She knows me well enough to know that I wouldn't ever try and change Alexs mind about her as It's always been me to help them both when they argue.

But I'm truely not really that bothered anymore. I've done nothing wrong, if she's suddenly started to not like me for no reason then she can get stuffed.

Sxejess
30-09-2008, 05:21 PM
She did have trouble at home a while ago but that's all sorted in the past. Many other people have said to me, "What's wrong with Char these days? She's never as chatty." and stuff along those lines. As far as I'm aware, she doesn't have any problems. Her family have a good money flow coming in. She knows me well enough to know that I wouldn't ever try and change Alexs mind about her as It's always been me to help them both when they argue.

But I'm truely not really that bothered anymore. I've done nothing wrong, if she's suddenly started to not like me for no reason then she can get stuffed.

Fair enough, I mean its not like you broke them two up, I mean then I could understand why she isn't talking to you, but you haven't. She obviously has a problem with you in some way and you probably can't find what it is because she may have twisted it up so much in her mind. Its her problem now though :(

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