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Phreedom
28-09-2008, 08:17 PM
Ok, so basically one of my best friends that is a girl, has recently stopped talking to me almost completely. A few weeks ago at a football game, me and her flirted around with each other, and at the end of the game when we were both about to leave, we were alone, and we were real quiet and neither of us knew what to say. I was an idiot and should have asked her out, but I didn't. After that, she stopped talking to me. The next game I went to, she was there, I stood next to her, and she completely looked away and talked to her friends. She doesn't even look at me anymore. I really like her still, and I have been depressed for a few weeks. I felt almost suicidal a few weeks ago, but I'm better now. I don't want to ask her out if she is mad at me, or completely ignoring me. I found out that her ex likes her again and wants her back, and she hasn't talked to me in about a week or 2. I'm scared of losing her as a friend, too. I don't know what to do. I really really really like her. Me and her had been flirting with each other for a few months, I'm just an idiot and shy. :/ I've cried a few times over her, I'm sensitive. I talked to her friends and asked her why she's been ignoring me and they don't even know, or atleast don't want to tell me if they do. Can anyone help me?

NayFUN
28-09-2008, 08:52 PM
Basically she thinks you blew her off. She gave you the opportunity to ask her out and you didn't.

Not much you can do you could try to win her back but if shes interested in her ex then theres not much chance as she probably thinks you don't like her like you do.

TidgyPie
29-09-2008, 11:34 AM
Try and catch he attention and when shes alone say something like go over and apologise for what happened just say some lies like you felt a bit ill :):)

Sentrax
29-09-2008, 03:56 PM
Be a man about it. Girls aren't worth crying over.
Plenty of time in the future for worrying about girls. Right now you wanna be working hard and keeping your friends close.
But, if it means that much to you I suggest you ask her to go see a movie or something? Just as friends, and then if the chance comes along, ask her out if you think it's right.
xx

Judas
30-09-2008, 04:28 PM
Be a man about it. Girls aren't worth crying over.
Plenty of time in the future for worrying about girls. Right now you wanna be working hard and keeping your friends close.

How can you say that? Do you know how much this girl means to him? I don't think so. If she means that much to him, why shouldn't he cry about her?

Anyway, I think you should try and get her alone again and talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel.

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