'For A friend'

[united-champ]

Hey, i was talking to my friend the other day and he said, can i ask you sumit, so i say, oh go on then, he says hes been going out with this lass siunce the 6 weeks holiday, who is also in our school, she is 2 years younger than him, and he asked me, does it seem normal, he is keeping it secret because everyone will give him stick for it. or so he thinks.

my question is, Is it right to go out with some1 in year 9 when you yourself is in year 11 . I am in year 10 and my friend is in year 11 .. i know what ur thinkin, i'm the lad, i aint. i'm just a friend who needs some advice for my friend.

:)

Also.. heres a bit of info..

Been going out with her 'or so he says' since the 2nd week of the 6weeks, so like.. 2 months now.. ish,.,

they are making it discreet by aruging on a monday - wed then best friends thursday - monday.

do you think it is right, whats ur views and do you think he should be doing it.

;)

[Cells]

It's totally up to them, other people will obviously judge,
He shouldnt hide it if hes confident.
I dont think its that bad, on the thoughts of it isnt sexual yet.
I personally would only go as young as Year 10, Im year 11, but..
Thats the way the ship sails..

Let them decide:)

[united-champ]

ok thanks, he has no intention to what hes said to have intercourse with her, in other words, have sex. although he isnt a virgin :rolleyes: he brags.

[Casual]

Theres guys at my college going out with Year 10s and we're in Year 12 lol.. not a big deal.. Its 2 years? If they "love" each other then who cares?

[united-champ]

he claims, aslong as shes happy, it'll do her well or sumit like that.

[Judas]

he claims, aslong as shes happy, it'll do her well or sumit like that.

Yeah, he claims. But the thing is, he might rush her into things cos he will grow up before she does and start having sex and stuff and she might not be ready (unless shes a **** if shes only 13 or whatever) and it could get ugly.

[Jordy]

My next door neighbour who was in Y11 (Now Y12) goes out with a girl who was in Y9 (Now Y10) and that's never been frowned upon really. I think providing they're both reasonably mature it shouldn't be a problem, 2 years isn't much of a age gap really.

[united-champ]

Yeah, he claims. But the thing is, he might rush her into things cos he will grow up before she does and start having sex and stuff and she might not be ready (unless shes a **** if shes only 13 or whatever) and it could get ugly.


thanks for the advice. i dunno what to tel my friend or how to appreoach him... they wouldnt ****. i know they wouldnt.. lol.. well.. i dunno..